The Way of the Feeder

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First Chapter of the new book "The Way of the Feeder"

all in the name of fun :)

THE WAY OF THE FEEDER

How to Master the Joys and Challenges of a BBW and Unleash Her Inner Feedie

by Alex Turner &

Jolene Dubois

CONTENTS:

FOREWORD

CHAPTER ONE

Choosing the Right Woman

CHAPTER TWO

Never Change Your Mind Just to Please Your Woman

CHAPTER THREE

Do it With Love

CHAPTER FOUR

Never Ask if Your Woman is Hungry

CHAPTER FIVE

Praise Her

CHAPTER SIX

Don’t Use Your Friends and Family as an Excuse

CHAPTER SEVEN

Weight Gain is Inevitable

CHAPTER EIGHT

Don’t Force the Feminine to Make Decisions

CHAPTER NINE

The Masculine and the Feminine

CHAPTER TEN

What She Wants is Not What She Says

CHAPTER ELEVEN

Finding the Feedie in Her

CHAPTER TWELVE

Own Your Darkest Desires

CHAPTER THIRTEEN

Turn Your Lust Into Gifts

CHAPTER FOURTEEN

You are Responsible for Her Confidence

CHAPTER FIFTEEN

Stop Hoping for Completion

FOREWORD

I wrote this book based on what I have learned from my own experience and what I have learned from the experiences of others. This is written from the male perspective but I relied heavily on Jolene for her female point of view. This book is for FA’s, feeders, and feedies. If you are a man and have no desire to fatten up your woman, or if you are a woman that has no interest in gaining weight for herself or for a man, then this book is most likely not for you. Some may find this book funny, some may think it’s nothing but toxic masculinity, but I believe, (if read for the right reasons) most will find this book extremely helpful and informative.

CHAPTER ONE

Choosing the Right Woman

There are many different types of feeders, FA’s or Fat Admirers. To describe what a feeder or an FA is exactly is not as simple as you’d think. Why are we feeders anyway? Perhaps these preferences and desires are ingrained in our DNA, born and bred from the caveman days when a man would go out and hunt, doing his duty of providing food for his woman. There are various nuances to all of this however. If you are like me it’s not necessarily that you are attracted to fat women; but it is more that you’re drawn to whom you’re drawn to, and you enjoy the process of your chosen woman, gaining weight. It has been said by many men that one of the things they find attractive in the opposite sex, is a girl who’s not afraid to eat, not afraid to dive into a big meal and enjoy herself fully...and, get thick. In other words, it’s not that we want to date a fat girl, it’s that we want to date a hot girl who gets fat.

In order to fully experience this development, choosing the right woman is very important. If you believe you are a feeder or an FA, (and by the way most men are) do not choose someone who is naturally skinny, someone with a small appetite or someone who doesn't really enjoy food. A woman like this is most likely not for you, and it would not be fair to change your woman into someone she’s not.

Of course, I can only truly speak for myself. Call me superficial, but honestly, I judge by appearance before anything else. They way a woman looks is what attracts me to her first and who she is as person, comes second. Her face is the first indicator of beauty, both inside and out. They say the eyes are windows to the soul and I find that to be true. The feminine beauty of a woman’s face has the ability to take a man’s breath away, and leave him weak in the knees - and that was how it was for me when I met my wife Jessica, whom I will use as an example for this book.

I was 24 and she was 21. She is 5’5” and I am 5’11”, just for reference. Her gorgeous face and flawless skin dazzled me from the start, and she had the most beautiful brown eyes I had ever seen. The second thing I made a point to notice about her was what she looked like from behind. When your woman has a nice ass, if and when an argument occurs, it is impossible to stay angry at her for long as you watch her walk away. This is a key and an often overlooked element to a lasting relationship.

Her butt is also one of the best ways to tell if she has the potential to gain weight in a flattering and tantalizing way. If your woman is 5’5” tall and 150 pounds for example, take a good look at her. Now imagine what she would look like with an extra 100 pounds. It is very likely that her body type and shape at 150, will be mostly the same body shape at 250, just bigger.

I would recommend a naturally pear-shaped girl, (which is what Jessica is) who may not be the biggest up top, as opposed to simply going for the woman with a great rack. In my experience, even a pear-shaped girl will develop large, luscious breasts if you just give her time and nurture her properly.

When I first met my wife she was only around 140 pounds and she had perky, yet fairly small breasts. Most of her weight was delightfully proportioned in her hips, ass and thighs. Despite not being heavy, she had amazing curves. If your woman is curvy to begin with, you can take it as an excellent indicator that she will have a tendency to gain weight easily, naturally and comfortably. I will also say that’s it important to choose a woman whom you find beautiful just the way she is. Life is short, go for the prettiest girl, someone who makes your heart flutter from the moment you lay eyes on her. This way the weight gaining process becomes a bonus, and not a necessity for you to remain physically attracted to her.

Look for the Tell Tale Signs

That being said, a woman will give you plenty of signals that she has the potential to gain weight, you just need to recognize them.

On my first date with Jessica, having already been taken by her stunning face and perfectly formed ass, (albeit on the big side in comparison to the rest of her dainty features) there were subtle things she said, that cemented my belief that she was the girl for me, and here are some examples.

1. She said: “I need to get better about going to the gym.”

Do not be deterred by a woman who speaks about working out. This is actually a good sign. That fact that she goes to a gym simply means that she’s well aware that she needs to do so in order to maintain her figure. Also, she said: ‘I need to get better.’ This told me that going to the gym is not something she loves doing, but rather something she forces herself to do.

1. She said: “If it’s in front of me I’ll end up eating all of it, that’s my problem.”

This was said in reference to the fried cheese curds she ordered as an appetizer. She grazed on them like they were potato chips until she finally pushed the bowl my way to prevent herself from finishing them off. There were only two left. This showed she lacked self-control when it came to food, a very good sign.

1. She said: “I’ll never refuse a glass of wine.”

She told me this after I asked if I could refill her glass. This is a promising indicator that she likes to have fun, and that she has a penchant for indulging impulsively.

1. She said: “I usually gain weight if I eat like this too much.”

This was in regards to the flatbread pizza we ordered. This told me that she has gained weight before and there is a strong possibility she will do so again in the future if she is properly nurtured.

If you are a true FA and a true feeder you are most likely a masculine man, and a very masculine man, more often than not, needs a very feminine woman to bring balance to his life. As a feeder you are looking for someone to feed, a feedie. It is uncommon that your perfect partner, your feedie, would be a tomboy or woman with strong masculine traits. It is almost a guarantee that you need a very feminine woman, so you must be sure to choose a very feminine woman.

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