I don't recognise my body (part I)
Added 2024-12-11 21:40:17 +0000 UTCPart I
The body and our conditioning that determines what we deem beautiful
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hahah no not interested in fishing for compliments, I just haven't been comfortable in my skin suit lately, and it made me question where these thoughts were coming from, it's been so drillled into my head since the 90s that thin is beautiful I don't think I believe that now, in fact I think it's more about someones energy
This Is Suze
2024-12-14 13:38:07 +0000 UTCVery few people think that very thin body is attractive, although a lot of people pretend otherwise. I learned as I got older not to care. You have always looked better with a bit more meat on your bones 🙂. Or maybe you know it, and you have just been fishing for compliments 😉
Nicholas Metropolis
2024-12-14 12:17:02 +0000 UTCBeauty is subjective but not entirely an effect of social conditioning.
Mat Mic
2024-12-13 23:22:44 +0000 UTCI think society more so than anything puts this idea in our heads of what “attractive” is. But being someone like myself who has 2 inch holes in his ears and is covered in tattoos, I am intimately aware that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. With that being said the mind/heart wants what it wants and even most conditioning can always be broken by allowing yourself to just be honest with what you like and what you’re comfortable with (within a healthy degree I suppose). Long story short, I think you’re absolutely gorgeous and I’ve always found you incredibly sexy, that hasn’t changed or waned a single bit. I still look at you and fawn, so in my eyes you have a lot of reasons to feel good about yourself.
Meh
2024-12-11 23:52:44 +0000 UTCI think once people learn to love the skin their are in, then that's when we realise everyone is different, and you don't have to follow the trend of everyone else to be happy. I mean it's ok to put a few pounds on and still be healthy, and still feel desirable, it's like not everyone likes coca-cola some people prefer Pepsi, and it's the same with everything in life people have different tastes and views on what beauty means to them. So I guess the strange thing for you is letting go of that conditioning that meant you had to conform to an "industry standard" and allowing yourself and your body to be free to find its own natural healthy shape. And you still look healthy, and curvaceous even if your own mind talk is telling you something different.
Welsh Stu
2024-12-11 22:12:24 +0000 UTC
