welp cant believe im posting this
Added 2024-04-22 22:00:06 +0000 UTCHonestly guys, wish I could say its nice to get to open up and share this stuff... but looking back this was actually painful to make and I tried to laugh everything off and be able to talk through things again. but genuinely it brought up a lot of painful emotions and made me want to ghost social media and then reconsider a lot of relationships in my life. I am glad to get to share more with you... I feel like I was trying to be honest and take accountability... might make a solo reaction episode??
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his friends said WHAT now when you weee pregnant? 😢
Bailey Shaffer
2024-11-27 02:27:50 +0000 UTCHiii, i have been watching your videos since you brought baby Laela to school. I just had my first daughter last year at 23. Your videos helped me get through my pregnancy and being a young mom. Thank you for sharing such raw content and being so real! 🫶🫶
Adrian King
2024-06-30 16:12:33 +0000 UTCYou deserve a loving and trustworthy partner in life. Your ex presented as that to your YouTube community and it is a shock to find out that he has had such callous disregard for you. I hope your therapy and life experience and the pure love you share with your children and friends will help you hold out for the man you deserve!
Katie's World
2024-06-01 20:41:41 +0000 UTC“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” ~ Jeremiah 29:11
M
2024-05-04 00:56:16 +0000 UTCPraying for everyone! God will help you through everything ✝️🌸🩷
M
2024-05-02 16:57:33 +0000 UTCI’ve been a follower since before you had Ana and Millie and have always comfort watched your vlogs as it feels like watching one of my younger sisters. I just want to say how proud I am of you for coparenting as gracefully as you do and keeping the bad parts away from your girls. You’re an incredible mom and some man is going to make you soooo happy someday. 💛
Lindsey Flynn
2024-04-25 17:15:46 +0000 UTCI'm shooocked. So the open relationship was okay, as long as it was only with another girl, and only challenging for you. He literally cheated on you by sleeping with someone else - it really doesn't matter she was the "open relationship" girl" as you didn't consent to them dating separately. On top of that he cheated while you were pregnant/postpartum carrying his child and she was the one telling you. And this man has the nerve to say that "no sin is worse than other" and "we both cheated on each other" because you sent normal photos on Snapchat to a guy for 21 days??? To him, you feeling guilty about those snaps "proves" that you "cheated". It is important to keep in mind that men will make women feel guilty for doing very normal stuff out of jealousy and control. Also you asking for the open relationship to actually benefit you is just plain fairness, he is in the wrong for making it sound outrageous. The level of gaslighting is crazy.
Erre
2024-04-24 09:16:08 +0000 UTCThe tea was PIPING HOT lolol So great to see both of you guys being friends and being able to talk about your experiences with each other so openly. Girl you’re so strong, keep doing you, you got this! ❤️
Taylor
2024-04-23 17:42:28 +0000 UTCAlso total side not but I LOVE ur hoodie and that color looks so good on you!!!
Lydia Gibbs
2024-04-23 16:57:19 +0000 UTCgirl I look up to the way you can coparent so amicably😭 I’ve been coparenting my twins since they were 4 months old and it’s been toxic since pre-baby times😂 I feel like I can’t talk about it on social media bc I’m paranoid it’ll get around but I’m jealous of how you guys are able to get along and rly keep emotions out of it. I feel like me and my kids dad just parallel parent sadly and the homes are rly separate :/ if you ever need to chat with a fellow coparenting mom pls hmu haha I have no friends who coparent and it’s lonely
Lydia Gibbs
2024-04-23 16:56:26 +0000 UTCI get Logan not wanting to be painted the bad guy when clearly he sees y’all both being equally at fault. BUT You were pregnant? Early Postpartum with a baby? No matter the situation prior, in a time of vulnerability for you, when he needed to step up the most to be there for you. Not just helping with the girls but truly being your partner in a time where you’re just fighting to get through to the next day. I totally get that you were both out of the relationship in the end, it happens. I don’t love how when it comes to something he did he is very “yeah yeah yeah, next topic” but when it’s something you did he wants to go into every detail and expose all that you did because “you cheated too”. I’ve always adored y’all and I mean no hate to Logan at all but like take a little more accountability and stop trying to save face. You did what you did. I’m sure this opened some wounds that weren’t entirely healed yet and I hope doing this doesn’t affect the relationship y’all have created post breakup! You both look so much happier and thats all anybody should want is for y’all to be happy and of course for the girls to be happy!
Chloe
2024-04-23 15:38:08 +0000 UTCThe growth in both of you is truly amazing ! 💕
Caitlan Smith
2024-04-23 13:37:06 +0000 UTCI love you for posting this & feeding my need for the tea🙌🏻 I am so invested in this other girl situation & how that first started. Ugh I wanna know it all. thank you for sharing despite having zero obligation too💓 love seeing you guys able to grow as friends & parents through it
Phoward
2024-04-23 12:39:55 +0000 UTCI think it’s obvious you were trying to be really fair and accountable in that convo 🤍 Def keen for a reaction vid. There’s so much there but I do think while you maybe were cheating in a way those 3 weeks it’s not the same as… what Logan was doing. And I feel like 9/10 times when someone asks for an open relationship it’s bc they’re done with the one they’re in haha. Not in a bad way, just shows you knew it was time to end things with Logan!
Rachael Bonshek
2024-04-23 11:03:21 +0000 UTCHonestly I was doubting if I need to see it, because I don't know you personally although I respect you for being a very real person, it felt like invading your privacy somehow. I was really surprised, even hurt back in the day when I saw your break-up video on Youtube, because there was always so much lightness and warmth in how you interact with each other (I'm only judging off of Youtube videos and social media of course...), it was kinda like cold shower watching something went wrong :( But since you posted this, especially in a form of conversation between two of you, I'll just say what I always thought. You had an unbalanced power dynamic between two of you from the start. You had more control, more freedom and more confidence in what you do and looks like you both weren't prepared to deal with that. Being in more control made you to do things, him being in less control made him do things too. It was like, both leaving that balance as it was and changing it to be more even were equally bad options. You were the mother, he was helping you, it was kinda okay in the beginning, or at least it worked, but later... did he wanted to be something more/else apart from that, did you expect that from him, and how you were both reacting was the core of the problem. I also believe he was expecting you to appreciate him taking that role more, and more attention. Cheatings and stuff, I believe, were just a symptom and a consequence of that. Anyway, I still can say you both were trying to do your best with the kids and be a good team, and that was truly great! Wish all the best to you and Logan in future. But in your situation to find someone with who you can be an equal partner, who will be more on your level, can be difficult, and I wish you that 🌼
Solomia
2024-04-23 07:38:50 +0000 UTCNope
Yasmyn Switzer
2024-04-23 04:48:15 +0000 UTCi definitely understand that. i get the trust issues too. i had a very similar upbringing as you with my mom. it’s definitely hard and i can tell how much you want to be different than how your mom was with your girls. you’re doing an amazing job. i think after the break up is over, you are free to do as you want. you both still love and care for each other but recognize you aren’t good together. what it sounds like after hearing his side is really he was the one unfaithful and manipulating you and you could feel that and ended up looking for validation else where. given obviously cheating is cheating, but i do think your situation was a bit different than his especially since you discussed how his friend was a third part of the relationship and your concerns were valid. but that’s just my perspective from a therapist LOL
Reilly Harper
2024-04-23 04:26:53 +0000 UTCWas the other girl Madison Mitchell? Since she was friends with you both and you met her when you were both pregnant.
Louise Gasson
2024-04-23 04:23:59 +0000 UTCYasmyn, I think that you finding your voice has been something I admire about you. Watching you take accountability while he sits there and blames you takes GUTS. Proud of you!!
Kaitlyn Grinwald
2024-04-23 04:09:39 +0000 UTCWow Yasmyn this was hard to watch at some parts ❤️🩹 I am really happy for you guys that you can be friends now and forgive but I can totally see how this convo would rock you a bit. I hope to offer this encouragement (as someone who has been in a 6 year relationship since 18): I think Logan just needs to mature a lot (no shade to him) but I find myself frustrated a lot with my boyfriend for things he’s not mature in and there was a couple years in the middle that honestly sucked because we were both trying to grow up and learn how to be adults together. I feel like I learned all of that super early and it was hard waiting years for him to catch up—let alone you guys with 3 kids and having to grow up 10x faster. I think Logan will look back in a couple years and be able to have more accountability but I don’t think he’s there yet, where you definitely have been more accountable. Anyway try not to take it on as a problem with you, I think you know what you did and you can seperate what he just isn’t ready to admit to himself yet. Hugs to you we are proud of you 🤍
Becca
2024-04-23 03:55:50 +0000 UTCHi I love you 🩷
Yasmyn Switzer
2024-04-23 03:55:18 +0000 UTCI literally cut out the part of us talking about the trip because it was frustrating lol but we had fun pretty much the whole time until the last night we were there, we had a big blow up fight and I had a complete mental breakdown, cried in the hotel room the whole night and it was traumatizing and yeah we broke up like a month after that.
Yasmyn Switzer
2024-04-23 03:55:02 +0000 UTCI know it’s crazy, it honestly is kinda nice to have experienced that because now I will never compare myself or my life to social media and am very aware that things could be super different behind the scenes. As much as I try to be so real there’s obviously things I keep personal and our problems were a big one. I appreciate you, going into this I was very excited for it and am still so glad we did it<3
Yasmyn Switzer
2024-04-23 03:51:22 +0000 UTCYeah it was hard, I try to reason with it and be understanding but you can’t erase what that does to you, trust issues for life lol. And thank you, I didn’t see dating my friend after as a problem either, I guess it made him upset though.
Yasmyn Switzer
2024-04-23 03:45:23 +0000 UTCthe way this was 100% worth my 5.97, and I would do it again and again.
Katie
2024-04-23 03:31:01 +0000 UTCi don’t know why but it just bothers me how he acted in this video. like it felt like he was tearing at you and dismissing your feelings. it sounded like he was continuously being unfaithful to you and putting that third person into the relationship and gaslighting you about it even to this day. i’m so sorry you experienced that. i also feel it was unfair he brought up you dated him after. i understand how hard it is to leave a relationship like that, but you were mentally out of the relationship before physically: just because you dated the other guy after doesn’t make it any less real.
Reilly Harper
2024-04-23 03:20:50 +0000 UTCat least i know im not the only one who downloaded it just for this video lol
Reilly Harper
2024-04-23 02:44:41 +0000 UTCI could NEVER do this, you have so much self control omg. . Its super interesting to hear about specific times knowing "happy" vlogs/posts were posted during that time.. rly proves how fake social media can be (as some people try and say they know everything about you solely from ur posts). Never film something you don't want to, especially here.. we love the gossip but we care about you more.
shannon
2024-04-23 02:21:07 +0000 UTCThe way I downloaded Patreon just for this video 👁️ 👄 👁️
Morgan Walker
2024-04-23 02:00:42 +0000 UTCGirl what’s the tea on the Mexico trip? You started to talk about it and then Logan cut you off. You seemed happy together on that trip, but I know social media only shows so much! Thank you for sharing all this btw! Lots of love x
Louise Gasson
2024-04-23 01:36:09 +0000 UTChey yasmyn! i love you!!
Madeleine
2024-04-23 01:19:15 +0000 UTCThis
Kaitlyn Grinwald
2024-04-23 01:13:29 +0000 UTCThat’s how it felt especially watching back, but I guess he hasn’t really had a chance to share his side at all so he probably felt like he needed to air it all out. I feel like I tried to be pretty fair and neutral about it in my YouTube explanation, I told both sides then too. Thought this would be healing but made me more upset lol.
Yasmyn Switzer
2024-04-23 01:12:15 +0000 UTCWhy does it sound like he completely brushed off his cheating and put all the blame on you?
Cassandra Jones
2024-04-23 00:21:49 +0000 UTCHonestly love this. Been watching since you took Laela to high school as a baby, and seeing you grow and learn and evolve and figure it all out has been so impressive. Appreciate both of you in this video, owning your roles in your old relationship and showing up for your new roles as co-parents and friends.
Bee
2024-04-23 00:02:50 +0000 UTCOmg girl I love you even more for sharing this🫶 You we’re fully in a throuple posting PG content on YouTube😂❤️ Ive been following you for yearssss and I didn’t even think you drank ever so this was wild. Love you you’re so strong and mature and these experiences shape you into being the amazing mother you are
HCC19
2024-04-22 23:31:21 +0000 UTCThis convo would’ve put me in shambles girl u r so strong and I love how you’ve self-reflected!! It’s awesome you can be cordial now but this def did rock my world a little bit 😭 we’re the same age but idk why I was surprised to know you still had to learn balance with going out/exploring diff relationships/frat parties etc. Can’t imagine having kids in the mix with all that but ur such a good mommy. Much love and keep healing ❤️ not sure if it’s what ur looking for at the moment but one day you’re gonna find someone that treats you soooo good and you’ll be equipped to have a healthy relationship - Seems like you guys really learned a lot from everything that happened. Sorry this is so long but I’ve been a fan since the beginning ur great
Cassia Kruse
2024-04-22 22:43:55 +0000 UTCyour guys growth is so admirable! i’m glad you have this platform you feel comfortable enough to share even the ugly and uncomfy stuff. more (and older) couples should learn from you two on how to coparent and be friends for your kids 🤍
kt watson
2024-04-22 22:35:10 +0000 UTCOmg Yasmyn your little “yup😃” at 7:49 has me wheezingggg🤣🤣I love how well you two are able to communicate. You are a perfect example of parents that are better to be friends than together (in the best way possible)
Makayla🫶🏼
2024-04-22 22:11:08 +0000 UTCSo proud of you Yas❤️
Makayla🫶🏼
2024-04-22 22:01:38 +0000 UTCThank you for being so vulnerable with us! I love your content and you’re a great mom!🩷
Lauren Tomlinson
2024-04-22 22:01:23 +0000 UTC
