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Secret Song RE-FATHOMING: Arlington, TX

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Secret Song RE-FATHOMING: Arlington, TX

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I always took her saying “how horrible being famous is” was kind of her foreshadowing what she knew would go down media/internet wise when the break up was announced later that week

Stephanie Wins

When did she start dating Matty?

Breezy Bumbles

I was at n3 and honestly, I loved my songs. I was very happy to have gotten The Lucky One because that has always been a solid top 3 favorite for me

Alexandra Lopez

“Did she put something in these songs?” , she does, it’s narcotics, that’s why you’re still singing along!

Kate Harney

The parallels between Matty and John in Ours, can never be unheard. Wondering if Scott had any snide remarks about that tattooed golden retriever.

Kate Harney

I think “when I love something, I don’t really care what the feedback is” is SO Matty coded at this point in time 😳 we were gonna learn real soon

Brooke Noelle

My guess is the breakup happened before the tour started, and at this point is when she was starting things up with Matty which is why she seems so ok. Only then did she give the ok for the news of the breakup to be released, because if she was starting something with someone else, that made it clear that this time her and Joe were definitely not getting back together. It would make sense to hold off on announcing the breakup during the two week tour break she had here in April to let the shock/chaos simmer before her next show where all eyes would on her hyper-fixating on any clues that she might be struggling with the heartbreak.

eriiciita

I believe it got a copyright strike so it got taken down by YouTube

eriiciita

i cannot tell you how much your words mean to me, thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking the time to write me this… this really is the greatest community ever❤️ i love you all so much

farah abed

Also, random, but 2025 is the Year of the Snake- in the Chinese Zodiac and I’m guessing she could hold out on Rep TV for that for dramatic effect and really give Rep a whole year to itself. Also, her birth year 1989 was a Year of the Snake

Jade

Whatever it takes to get you to the place where you value your worth more than their words, love. Keep coming back here- there is love from this place and you can call us friends. ❤️

Jade

I didn’t know people disliked monte carlos!? 😱

Heidi

FINALLY catching up with this offensive series!!!

Makayla

Forever grateful to have been an Arlington night 2 girlie 🫶🏼

Micah

For the life of us I can’t get back…. Then she released you’re losing me 😱😳🥺

Sacred_sunflower

omg after you guys refathom each week's secret songs can you please do a ranking on one of those tier ranking websites of which song combos are most elite !!!!

carxleigh

Omg why did this make me think of Zelda?! Hahaha but I’d love a shirt with that!!

msjackyx

Nooooooo now I’m crying 😭😭😭

msjackyx

IM DEAD LOL i always felt like bonny says VISUAL ANTI instead of vigilante

Catalina Borreani

omg i’m sooo sorry i’m so late in replying to this😭 thank you so much❤️ for me, it was that one of my friends figured out I had feelings for her brother (it just happened naturally cause we went through a phase where were talking for several hours every day) and apparently she felt really uncomfortable and started questioning all the kind acts i did for them thinking i did it alllll for him… which is total bullshit but even when i asked them to tell me what’s wrong they didn’t want to communicate with me, not even hear my side of it… i just feel really betrayed, they have almost made me out to be this villain… anyways..😭

farah abed

She is totally edging us there will be sure more vault tracks with features to come

Emma Brooker

Arlington n1 was my show, and I was very excited to get Sad Beautiful Tragic because I am convinced I am that song's biggest fan, but in hindsight, very sad for her

Sean

okay I had some fathomings during jump then fall! 1) you mentioning she's a mirrorball and then literally the lyric "I'll shine for you" as in she's always been a mirrorball from the very beginning! 2) you mentioning the interview about hoax where she talks about who is the person you stay with when they're sad. This makes me wonder if her and Joe were already in a rough patch in 2020 but she was choosing to stay, and then by the time of YLM and "how long can we be a sad song" she realizes the limits of loyalty

Kara Norton

She replays Clean because she considered it a “fuck up” because she didn’t like the key she played it in

Jenna Aguirre

The Clean TV pterodactyl scream sent me, I got concerned looks from colleagues

Sarah LaForce

I'm so sorry you're going through this :( I've been through something similar so I understand how crappy it feels. When I finally figured out what the reason was, it was stupid and meant this person was never really my friend, or at least not as good of one that I thought. She got jealous over a job opportunity that I got that she actually urged me to go for and never expressed interest in herself. This happened almost 15 years ago.

F1Swiftie

Emily I just want to stay thank you so so much for your rant towards the end of this video cause it really resonated with me... i am honestly currently dealing with the fact that 2 friends i have/had that i considered super close to me have basically completely ignored me the past 3 months and when i reached out more than once they were dry and just said 'things are busy'. They never even gave me an explanation as to why they're upset or angry with me so I am really trying to move on cause like you guys said, setting boundaries is important and you will never come across someone who won't hurt you but they are not even willing to communicate to me and I've honestly reached a stage where I don't want to hear what they have to say.. it's been too long and nothing justifies me being ignored since late june. So sorry for this rant, i'm really in the thick of this so i had to say it ❤️

farah abed

It didn't work for me until tonight. It finally worked, and I did all of them! Super fun. If it's still not working, try refreshing your browser a bunch of times.

Aloha Record Sargent

She repeated Clean because a girl on tik tok posted a video of her reacting to Taylor playing clean in texas by saying "mess up mess up" because she wanted Taylor to play it again. After the show, taylor saw the video and commented on the girl's tik tok saying "well I couldve done it in a higher key so it is technically a mess up" and then taylor did in fact play clean at that girl's show and introduced it by saying "i could've done this one a higher key"

Jo

It’s been pretty glitchy, but I’ve been able to solve a few of the puzzles. It’s over a million right now; 32 million to go!!

BrooklynSwifty

Anybody able to submit when doing the vault puzzles??

Can

I think right after this weekend she was at the I heart radio awards and i swore she looked great but also really sad or tired. I couldn't put my finger on it but i thought maybe she was sick.. I think shit went down then!

Ashley

Can't wait for the fathoming of evermore ss

maya zutra

What happened to ur guts reaction video on YouTube???

Oliver Zhang

Agree! I wonder if she was also supposed to mess up "Our Song" the first time, but forgot to?

Aloha Record Sargent

As a Sagittarius girly, who is also born in the year of the dog, that loyalty fucks me over every time. But I am also so proud of that trait lmao

Tarebearstare

can we clown for a clean acoustic recording as the extra vault song on the target exclusive vinyl please i dont understand how we dont have an actual recording of clean on the piano yet!!!!

Lauren R

I have a theory that she intended to mess up DBATC so she could play it again in LA for the filming, forgot to mess up and then that’s why she redid the bridge. If you watch, it’s not the most believable screw up.

Staci DaSilva

The Guts video got taken down from Youtube. Will you repost here?

Kimi Dowling

i love these refathomings so much omg and i think she had said she was gonna repeat clean because she sang it in a lower key and she wanted to sing it higher

Brianna Suarez

the lucky one is one of my favorites secret songs, she killed it adn told so much with the delivery

Maryfer Rume

night 1 was the night that broke me because sad beautiful tragic has always been my favorite taylor swift song and I literally collapsed to the ground when she sang it because I was not prepared to lose it that early. then she had the audacity to sing ours after, which is one of my favorite speak now songs. then night 3 she played my happy song/favorite song from fearless. so i was not ok and have beef with Arlington 😂

Tatyana

would you make a shirt that says death by a thousand chickens?

Maryfer Rume

I so wish that we had a Death By A Thousand cuts reaction video.

Kimi Dowling

I’ve been wanting to comment every time you guys talk about DBATC, because the lyric actually IS «… gave you TOO much», and not «so much». It says so in the album lyric folder. 😍😍

Matilde Nordhus

No I’m SO sorry but I was on a dog walk listening to this so admittedly a little distracted but I kept thinking you were talking about a song called Owl, and I was like hooow have I missed this 😂

Anna Johansson

hey besties! you might find this spreadsheet helpful/interesting for the re-fathomings, its all the eras tour info (songs, eras, outfits etc) all in one place and in cool charts! https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1xgAWPnk3aHK3sB2fLJCg8uaos3ymvyX6AnTFVabS5lM/edit#gid=0

DaisieLore

I was at night 2! It was such a superior section of the tour. I went in mostly blind so I didn't even really know about the secret song section and how she was doing that. But DBATC and Clean are two of my favorite Taylor songs. I was so happy those were my songs!

Aubrey

Ugh dbatc and clean was my show and I’ll never be over it. I’ll be telling my future kids about it till they beg me to stop lmao

Fahmeen

Love how much you both are enjoying this lol. I live in the area but wasn't able to go to the concert, real shame.

IsolLazy

I was at night 3 and it was definitely upsetting walking in knowing our song combination would always be overshadowed by night 2 but now I can say I was at the last show before the breakup news broke… and then I was also at the last Jonas Brothers show before the Joe/Sophie divorce news broke so pop off Arlington for being the last place for people to believe in love😅🙃

Erika A

love how you're just trying to gaslight each other

Nin

as someone who went to night 1 & 3 in arlington, i was THRILLED to have ours and the lucky one and DEVASTATED to have missed dbatc & clean but one day, twice 🙃

Emily Dickey

death by a thousand chickens, emily STOP IT hahahah

Nin

I remember when you reacted to DBTC, I already knew that she did the bridge twice, but you two didn’t see it in your video.. lol I thought you found out but funny seeing you fathom now 😂😍

Rachel Gresser

Me too!!! I LOVE this theory so much! And it goes so well with the other easter eggs for when rep comes out (Karma mv mug clock pointing to 2 with her black thumb nail) and the 'different phone positions' in midnight mayhem with me for track #s 7 (speak now July), 10 (1989 Oct), 2 (rep Feb), and 6 (Debut June)

Carly

The 112 theory gives me life lol (as a long time clown) 🤡

Emmy

Besties- she referred to Jack as the collaborator of dreams. Not of her dreams. Maybe next album hint?

Jaimi Carter

night 2 arlington SUPREMACY

preston

As someone who went night 3 in arlington I fully agree

Gabriella _

I'm fathoming.... "this is such a sad beautiful tragic song".... "how long could we be a sad song?" 😢

Esther Newman

I never thought of this before, but Meredith said Matty was recording with Taylor in Feb. 2023 in LA. I assumed it was for a new record, but could he have something to do with Rep? I can't imagine why, but the recent statement did say there is no The 1975 collab *on 1989TV*, they didn't deny any collab at all. The timing would be right but...weird.

Esme (MadWoman@TheLakes)

Also, would love to hear your thoughts on the 112 theory. I think it really has merit and we aren't just clowning this time.

Carly

It kills me to think that she originally recorded rep thinking that the entire world hated her but at least Joe loved her.....and now she re-recorded rep knowing that the entire world loves her but she isn't with Joe anymore. That really f**ed me up even more. So sad to fathom!!!

Carly

So I’m gonna say she knew on N1 that it was over… and I did think she was sad during SBT… and the pairing of DBATac and Clean is pretty significant as well :(

Ally ❤️

It was night 1. I was there and surprised she changed it up so quickly into the tour. It was great though and she even commented on how she has to fool us every now and then.

Whitney Mercer

Emily's pterodactyl scream at the idea of Clean TV lolz

Katrina

This is the week (N1 or 2?) that she switched from Invisible String to The 1 😔 you may mention this later in the video, but I wanted to make sure we remembered. Soldiers down on the field over that loss.

Ally ❤️

maybe she played it as the last song before the news came out in hindsight because it's such a fucked up thing that the media and some people are actually believing that they have any right too get some Information about her privat live

paulina

It actually kills me to my core that the last thing we heard from her before the breakup was “your secrets end up splashed on the news front page” because ummm that’s literally what happened

kienan

DBATC and Clean is also an interesting combination because Taylor said she was inspired to write DBATC after watching Someone Great on Netflix and then the filmmaker responded and said she was inspired by Clean!

Ariana

I think she also talking to the fans during the lucky one - you, people in the crowd, are lucky that you got go home and not be famous. especially that she knew the news will broke out next week... normal people don't have to deal with the whole world discussing her breakup.

Dorka

Right after this weekend she had a 2 week break for Easter I think and that’s when the break up news broke and we saw her in Liverpool shooting some of the I Can See You music video! Then yellow dress/orange 1989 outfit starts next week for Weekend 4 in Tampa on the first night which was the 13th and we were all clowning for the Speak Now announcement and she sung Speak Now as a surprise song. 💛🧡

Katie K

She commented on a tiktok that she could have done clean on a higher key!

Dorka

Thank you for being part of my Sunday morning!! xx

Dorka

Love Ari waggin' da tail, whilst yous are waving Goodbye, like all three of yous are waving 😄

Marion

Re your saying there's no one who does secret/surprise songs - there is; Tori Amos has done such a segment in her shows for decades. And she plays the piano, actually often two keyboard instruments simultaneously, whilst singing, and connecting with the audience.

Marion

Im so glad this is your job! I could watch a video every day 🥰 Im a new swiftie and I kind of need to make it my full time job to fathom everything 🙈

Elísabet Ásta Magnúsdóttir

Lorrie Tuck does her makeup on tour and to events - she is on insta :)

ttpd-24

Bonnie still holding on to the stay stay stay song choice gives me life because same I hold onto things too girl 💅😂

Joe Moreno

I am in love with these videos 🫶🫶🫶 also, I think you are right about her emotions take a while to change, I remember her singing some songs even in the normal set list and looking so happy for a while after this … and then she does question and says some Matty Healy coded chat … but then I forget when cold of you is a ss cause she looks madddd during that. I am so excited to fathom along with youuu 🥰

Zoe Knox

I love Monte Carlos! And Kingstons! Arnotts is top tier

Georgina

Right. And it gave us the hope that maybe Taylor would see the C&R ivy, July 29th plea. She got confused and did it on July 1st instead. To be fair, it was closest show to my birthday so maybe that's what she was going for. I'll spin positive.

Joe Weaver

I'm 10min in the video and that's all I'm thinking about 🙈😅 don't know yet if they remember it later in the video.

Laila Duffy

The yellow dress first appeared in Tampa N1, as did the green Folklore dress.

Emzies

Other than ATW of course, Sad Beautiful Tragic is my favorite song off of Red. I didn't even realize that people don't like it much. I don't understand why? It's such a beautiful song and was the song I needed at a time when I was going through a horrible breakup many years ago.

Teri M

I am so glad you are doing these each weekend, it means we always get to relive the tour for a bit each week! It may have been mentioned earlier and I could be wrong, but I thought Tay re-did Clean after saying she felt she sung it in the wrong key the first time?

matty67106

Hearing Emily explain when the TVs were recorded is truly mastermind logic. You both are the queens of fathoming 💜✨

Meg A.

I got ticketmaster production hold tickets for night 2 via text a week before 🥲🫠

Brandon N

She said she needed to replay clean because it was in the wrong key! She responded to a girl on Tik tok who was so sad she lost it and said don’t worry I p,ayes it in the wrong key so technically I need to do it again.

Erica Trull

I was at Arlington night 2!! I’m from Dallas (which is so funny because Arlington is trying so hard to be bigger than Dallas that they require the artist to call it Arlington - even though it’s Dallas haha) but getting those 2 songs actually ended me!!! It was superior! 😝

Erica Trull

I do wonder what we could get from rep re-recordings… will her relationship status affect vault song choices (more songs about insecurity in a relationship) and maybe a shaky breath…?!

Bridget Schulz

I was there for night1 . I’m the biggest SBT fan, so it was meant to be 🥰 funny I have an amazing video of the performance but I’m screaming the words over it 🫠

Michelle Lela

Tampa N1 (my night) was the first performance after the breakup was announced. It’ll be interesting going back to watch those performances with you.

Emzies

You girlies are so wonderful and superior. Thank you for being a bright light for us all!

Emzies

I absolutely love ur outfits!! Those colors on both of u are stunning! You both are dressed perfectly for Fall! 😍 even thou I guess technically u guys are headed into Spring now lol 😅😆

Jessica

N3 in Arlington must’ve felt similar to N1 in Minneapolis (the show I was at). N2 got Dear John and Daylight and I died dead. Paper Rings and ITWAM were great, but nowhere close to N2’s combo.

Jenna Bolmgren

The yellow dress didn’t make an appearance until N1 in Tampa 💛

Jenna Bolmgren

We had a piano speech for Houston n1 which is after this so she didn’t stop entirely, tho we know that did happen eventually. Can’t wait for y’all to revisit the Houston weekend!! 😁🤩😭

superscarf

I was there night 2!!! Still can’t believe I got DBATC & Clean. My (then) non-swifty husband was looking up lyrics on his phone to figure out the lyrics at the concert. Now he is a swifty :)

Amanda Ruth

I would literally die to hear Death By A Thousand Cuts live once in my life, and these people got the honor of Taylor loving it so much that she spontaneously sang it over for them. Such a superior song and bridge! Thank you for reviewing this moment!

Mex

loved being at N1 but missing DBATC by a day is my villain origin story

LV

Emily, that's is the cutest top EVER! Please tell me where did you get it?!

mckenna

I think she replayed Clean because she thought she could sing it better in a different key. But she didn't mess it up the first time.

MelTooWell

Isn't this the week she changed the opening of Folklore to The 1?

MelTooWell

Another superior video! I really feel like the break up was a bit before we got the official news. I’m guessing they waited until they had to say something before it got leaked

Tess7

“She didn’t preface that before Stay Stay Stay” hahahaha 💀💀💀💀.

Samantha Hall

haha there’s that scene in miss americana where she’s doing todrick’s nails and tells him she’s been doing hers herself ever since she “realized that i really liked having cute nails, but really can’t go in public”

Monica Gaura

i can’t get over bonny going on a rant about songs that mention the theme of “staying” and the archer and stay, stay, stay weren’t brought up 😂

Taylor Marie

This was extra chaotic 🤣. Loved it!

BrooklynSwifty

we all were expecting the clean repeat because she commented on tik tok about how she “performed it in the wrong key” on this night, alluding to the fact that she had “messed it up” and would play it again :)

Leah Alsobrooks

in terms of the re-recording convo, keep in mind that she couldn't start re-recording rep until like november 11th, 2022. there is NO WAY that she re-recorded rep in the span of a month cuz obviously her bday is december 13th (aka when she posted that pic) so i think she's been re-recording a lot of rep throughout this year

Katie LaFave

👀👀E M I L Y!!! I must know where your top is from💛😍

Lively_Ash

crying over the bombastic side eye emily gave bonny after she said "really?" to her saying shes a 1989 stan 😭

camryn

I was Arlington night 3…devastated I missed clean & DBATC by one night 😭😭😭😭😩😩😩😩😩😩 But a few days later the break up was announced so I then understood why we got the Lucky one 🫣 goodness knows how Joe doesn’t like fame 🥴🥴

Lively_Ash

I was night 3 too!💛

Lively_Ash

That is one of my absolute favourites and was a little disappointed she didn’t play it. But we had no idea why at the time 😞

F1Swiftie

Why did I also remember her starting over the first time with DBATC!? Regarding Clean I thought she commented on someone’s tiktok that she would play it a different key so she’d replay it?

Hannah H

when taylor did clean the first time, a girl on tiktok was like crying and freaking out about it (duh obviously) & taylor commented on the tiktok saying she played it in a lower key than she wanted to, so she counted that as a mess up and that she'll do it again. the girl even replied to that comment with all the show dates she was going to and then taylor played clean again when the girl from tiktok was there.

Katie LaFave

Even when your videos are over and hour they never feel long enough!!

Keri 🫶🏻

love these videos.. so happy to revisit these offensive secret songs 🫶🏻

Mia Gregorio

this is also the weekend that she replaced invisible string with the 1

Katherine

THIS WAS MY WEEKEND! I took my daughter to N3. I also loved our Champagne Problems set. Before she got to the bridge she said, "You ready for the bridge?" We got long speeches before and after CP, before ALW10, and probably Secret Songs.

F1Swiftie

She replied to a girl on TikTok after the show and said “I think I could play this again in a different key” not a real mess up :)

Abby Thaine

I laughed this entire video. superior humans right here

Halie

Taylor Swift is such an icon and offensive all at once.

Jen Manchulenko

I think it’s also a bit intriguing that she said she can repeat a song if she messed it up BEFORE singing dbatc as if she knew she would fuck it up 👀 and also I think she said on tiktok to a girl she thinks she can sing clean in a higher key and that’s how we knew she would repeat it

Annika

I don’t want to seemed selfish or impatient but I was wondering when are we getting the SN vault songs breakdown because I know the info you will provide will be OFFENSIVE

YunWon

she replayed clean again because she played it on the wrong note, she said it on TikTok comments of the girl that Bonny mentioned

SHAD

I love all of us having the Mandela effect w these surprise songs😭😭😭

Olivia

SBT wasn’t the first red song!!! State of Grace was

Petey Montoya

So Emily, the way you are able to rattle off a series of very specific dates from Taylor’s timeline has me thinking your memory is JUST FINE. No more talk of having a bad memory!

Karen Valentino

she didn't fuck up Clean, but she did reply to that girl on tiktok saying that she could've sing it in a higher key so that's technically a mess up

Sivan Moshe

It's not quite like having the Eras Tour weekends back but it's nice to be able to revisit it all with the two of you each weekend like this!

Joe Weaver

My theory on timing of break-up. I feel it must have happened just before the tour. Otherwise Joe would have been at least one show no? I think Taylor's team intentionally let out the announcement the weekend they did because she didn't have a show that weekend so she didn't have to perform during that initial chaos and they could leak the movie shoot images the same time as a distraction. I don't think any of that was a coincidence - just Taylor and her team trying to drop the news that was destined to come out at the time they preferred. I went to night two of Glendale and as someone who has seen Taylor many times before I thought she seemed off, just a bit lifeless in the face through the show (could have been first weekend nerves though).

Rachael P

Monte Carlo's are the best biscuits 😋

AllyJane

SBT is actually a ukulele song

Katie LaFave

I was also FREAKING out in my hotel room the night before when she switched invisible string to the 1, it’s in my top five on folklore 😭 I was sooo happy to here it live

j🪩

remember that when the news broke about the breakup, there were no shows that weekend cuz of easter and that she was actually filming the i can see you music video!!!

Katie LaFave

Haven’t even watch the video yet, but I have to say Emily I LOVE your top!!

Timothy Newton

Off topic question, but bonny ( and emily if shes watching) how are we liking gilmore girls?? Its always been one of my favorite shows, so I simply need to know Thank you both for doing these so we still have something to look forward to every weekend!! Its very much appreciate 🩷

Halie

i’ve replayed emily lowering the table and bonny sipping her tea so many times 😂😂😂

Taylor Marie

AGHHHHH MY WEEKEND!!!!!!! i will NEVER recover from n2

Taylor Marie

n2 was my night I wish i could relive it 😫 I was truly shocked and SO blessed to receive my fav 1989 and lover songs I literally have a 5 second video of me screaming OH MY GOD after she said clean 😭😭🩵

j🪩

i’ve rewatched the first 10 seconds like 4 times already i’m dying poor ari chicken

Ava Joyce

Yay!!

Becky Tucker

I AM LITERALLY CRYING IM SO GLAD YOU GUYS LOVE THE BRACELETS 😭😭 I wear my Dorothea one everyday🫶 also everyone (me) remembers where they were when she played DBATC and Clean….CLEAN TV WILL BE THE END OF ME I WILL ASCEND

Ava Jeffs

love you both🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵

Carol Bermond

Im obsessed with how often you’re posting videos!! I get so amped every time i see a notification

Shannon Gilhooly


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