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SECRET SONGS Reaction: East Rutherford, NJ (Night 3)

with a lil bonus merch haul!!!!!

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You guys talking about wanting wanting Ivy and You’re Losing Me knowing what happens for your Aus shows 😭🥹

Steph

Back here December 2024…. This is magical to watch!!!

Becky Tucker

I was here on this night. I am not at all a 1989 stan so I was slightly disappointed (although I absolutely adore Clean so I was happy to hear it). In the days after, I realized that she gave us the opener and closer to 1989 which is kind of a sweet little treat, I'd say. Definitely would have rather have been there for Getaway Car with Jack but every night is special and I'm going to treasure the memories forever!

Paigelinagina

I was there and this night was soooo epiiiic 😭 also this was my first time visiting NY, so it felt like a gift lol aaaand Clean was my absolute #1 song of all time so both songs were chef's kiss

Laura Vargas

Yessssss such a great fathoming to do!

Geneva

Omg bahaha “this whole fandom deserves a break.” Literally when do we ever get the opportunity to say that?! 😂 This woman leaves us crumbs at all times but as soon as she gives us multiple pies, we’re like MA’AM WE NEED A BREATHER LOL

Geneva

Besties I would love to see you guys do a reaction/breakdown to Kelsea Ballerini’s short film/EP Rolling Up The Welcome Mat that came out in February. I really think you guys would love it!! It’s her best work yet imo! Love you besties 🩷🫶🏻

Megan Clemens

I don't have an iPhone 🥲

Maria Hatch

Probably most likely evermore since they did exile already and she’s only seeming to play her stuff (renegade was big red machine). I hope that for you!!

Hannah Rose

Where did you find this?!

Hannah Rose

Yes I use AirPlay too and love it!!

Hannah Rose

Emily this is SO random but where are your glasses from? I love them!!!

Cali

Someone needs to fathom how you’re losing me relates to the song Happiness in Evermore. It’s insane to me that Taylor wrote a song 3 years ago about a hypothetical 7-year relationship that was breaking down. Both songs occur in the middle of the breakdown, but Happiness feels like a very different stage of the grief cycle. You’re losing me is hovering between bargaining and denial. And Happiness is just beginning to reach acceptance… All I know is I am 100% not ready for that surprise song 😂

Sav Miller

You can go to TikTok and search something like Taylor Swift Eras Tour and then click the Live tab after you get your results. Or, on TikTok you can search @tess and click on her live feed because she always does a livestream where she finds them for you.

Aloha Record Sargent

Anyone tell me how to get to a livestream of the chicago concerts this weekend?

Meg H

💯

Starsonscars

I've just been having a moment because in New Years Day, she says " I want your midnights" and now this album is called Midnights and its over :( he's becoming a stranger whose laugh she could recognize anywhere

Kylee Newberry

Are you still planning on releasing your own merch? I know it was talked about a while ago but not sure if you’ve given an update about it xx

Courtney

Maybe Dear Reader was when she fully knew it was over. No more fathoming. The true end.

Ashley

If you have an IPhone you can airplay onto your TV. That’s what I do to watch these videos on my TV ☺️

Jennifer

Omgggg power throuple confirmed

Zosia Dabrowski

Thank you for replying! Love you guys ❤️❤️

Maria Hatch

ALWAYS WASH NEW CLOTHES BEFORE WEARING!!!!!!!! You never know where it's been and what can get absorbed into your skin. That's my mom advice for the evening, thank you.

Laurie A. V.

Omg exciting you guys will be there July 29th, that’s the show I’ll be at! I’m so excited I can’t wait 😄

Allison

i love you both with my whole heart which is why i’m sorry to break the news that she will be playing ivy chicago night 1

Anika W

Thank youuuu🫶🏼🫡

PaulaPaula

It would be so great if Patreon allowed an option for you to watch on your TV!! the reason we don’t upload to YouTube is because it goes through extra copyright checks and it becomes even trickier with video content (vs just audio reactions etc). Patreon allows us to upload with none of that, which is why so much of our video watching goes on here!

Chats & Reacts

If you hop on the desktop version of Patreon and go to the membership tab, you can join there 🥰 for some reason it doesn’t work on the app!

Chats & Reacts

So sorry bestie we should’ve specified 🤣

Chats & Reacts

<3

dimple

This was SO fun to watch because this was my showwwweee

Jaz

My friend and I were absolutely ~blessed~ and got to go to nights 2 and 3 in NJ and for WEEKS we talked about how we were glad we weren't going to night 1 because she would def play Welcome to NY then and we didn't feel we needed that in our lives. The way we cackled as soon as we fathomed what song she launched into with no preface 💀

Meghan Carty

her replaying clean the show before mine hurts 🥲

Kristen

Tell me how I’m just finding out now that the line is “blood runs COLD” 🫠🫠🫠

Christine Violet

Same

Heather Ann

Gals! I've been meaning to ask this. Is there a way you could post Patreon videos on YouTube in an "unlisted" way where people can only find them if they have the link? I'd really love to be able to watch these on my TV instead of my phone. Apologies if you've already covered here or on the discord why you're not doing it this way! Thanks!

Maria Hatch

I'm wondering if she's waiting to play the ones newer to streaming and releases so that the fans know them better? Maybe even because it helps her separate herself from the songs more when the fans make them about their lives etc so maybe You're Losing Me and even Hits Different won't come for a while. Just a theory though cause she really just whips stuff out sometimes, I never actually know what on earth will happen truly

Ryann

I’ll be at Chicago night 2 too!!! What section are you in?

Hannah Stiff

I'm so obsessed with You"re Losing Me, I don't even know how many times I've listened to it now, but I easily have the whole thing memorized. I'm so proud of Taylor, this song is incredible!

Jenny MacRunnel

OMG my heart just wept.

Clash Fan

Ngl I have the biggest crush on Emily ❤️

Karolina

Emily! I think you legit punched a hole in the roof for clean lol

devin dear

Also I’m going to be at Chicago night 3 and I’m excited!!

Landon Talbott

I’m thinking of getting a tattoo with “air is thick of loss and indecision” because they represents so much and the most relatable lyric

Landon Talbott

would love a 'you're losing me' breakdown like you did with the other midnights tracks once you've had a bit of time to fathom even more!

DaisieLore

Some of us are so grateful for the clean versions not just for kids but for US. When you’re a remarkable lyricist you don’t need foul language. You can get your point across in an incredibly powerful way without it. I don’t judge her or anyone who prefers it, but for those of us who don’t? Well, we love the clean versions and appreciate Taylor offering this option.

Kacey

I think they are supposed to look like "vintage tee"s

Robin Page

Obsessed with Emily’s dance solo 😂

Breejmc

🚨ALSO YOURE LOSING ME WAS WRITTEN BY TAYLOR JACK AND AARON!!🚨

PaulaPaula

Y’all I am so sorry but how do I get to the chats and reacts discord

PaulaPaula

Bonny, your midnights shirt looks super faded? Is it supposed to be that way?

JJ

Omg I also think you’re losing me has Imogene Heap vibes!

Shannon

can't believe we have to process the loss of clean again :(((

Jaden

Same 😭

Allie Ladner

Can we talk about Debut a bit? At first I thought she just didn’t want to give it attention during Eras or didn’t have time. Then I realized that if she gave Speak Now 3-4 min she could have done the same for Debut. That album is so great and I know she’s really proud of it. And we know she doesn’t leave things out without a reason. Anyone else fathom a big 20 year Debut…. something?? Not sure what. Also, I saw online someone point out that one of her Karma merch shirts online has butterflies on it. My peasant brain isn’t smart enough to figure it out but maybe yours is!!

Heather Ann

I THOUGHT IT WAS CHATS & REACTS MERCH😭😭😭😭😭

Cassandra

Next week is my show in Chicago!!!! Now she doesn’t have strong connections to Chi. but it is K*nye’s home town so maybe we could get a fuck you song like TIWWCHNT or IFTYE. Also, Bon Iver is from Wisconsin very close to Chi so I am clowning hard for him to come and do Exile, Evermore, or Renegade!!! Rogue prediction would be The Lakes bc the stadium is on Lake Michigan! MIDWEST SWIFITES ITS OUR TURN!!!

Hannah Stiff

And can’t believe how long you had to wait for your merch order! I have a major merch addiction, lol… I just ordered the grey cropped Karma is a cat 🐈‍⬛ shirt and the Olivia galaxy popsocket! 😻 And *obviously* I would have continued ordering if everything else wasn’t totally sold out, lol… had to talk myself out of the puzzle! 🤣 The only reason I could is because I already have the unfinished Midnights clock puzzle 🧩 taking up half of my dining table! It’s *definitely* MEEEE. Hi. 🙋‍♀️ I’m the problem, it’s me. 🙇‍♀️😜 (BUT… it’s such fun! 😻📦)

Jentallygirl

I’m going to Night 3, also my first ever!!

Peter Oldham

I’m surprised y’all didn’t film a reaction to Ice Spice at the end for Karma tonight! I was caught off guard when she returned for night 2, wasn’t actually expecting that, lol… but I was (finally! sheesh 😉) ready tonight! 😂

Jentallygirl

The girl from the TikTok video where Taylor commented she’s gonna play Clean again actually gave Taylor the dates where she’s attending the tour, and she’s actually there that night, sobbing her eyes out because Taylor fulfilled her promise

RoyceT227

I would LOVE if y’all reacted to Lover again but through the kens of You’re Losing Me 😭😭😭😭😭💀💀💀

Lively_Ash

I think she is silent because she has an even bigger surprise for us, and she is leaving us in anticipation with the thought at what it might be.

Jen Manchulenko

love your 'silly note' - such TEA!! did not put that together. you are sooooo right. wow taylor loves her easter eggs at every chance doesn't she!

Jaimie C

You guys talking about how to adjust the chairs was my favorite part of the video 💛 love you both, thanks for blessing us with SO MUCH CONTENT lately!!

Maria Carmen

Listen around 2:40. https://youtu.be/2g2r5Q5CZhI

Alice

MUNA has opened twice before for Eras I believe! One was in Texas and one in ATL maybe?

Jenna Aguirre

you guys should come out with merch!!!💗💖

avieon ashford

Loving Em's glasses!

Candy

I’m going to Chicago night 2!!!! 🥳🥳🥳 it’s my first Taylor Swift concert ever!

Emma K

Can’t wait for the hits different and you’re losing me breakdown.. i’m ready to die 😭

Mia Gregorio

I’m a special ed teacher for kids with autism, and one of my students was going to night 3 with her older sisters, and so I asked her what her favorite Taylor song is. She said it is “Welcome to New York!” I was pretty surprised by that song choice since it is not really a fan favorite and probably came out when my student was like 2 years old! Anyway, I can’t believe Taylor played my sweet student’s favorite song on the night that she was there! 🥹

Nina Conte

just a silly note: she said to the crowd "you guys always give 113%" and then she played track 1+ track 13 :))))

maya zutra

Omg THIS!! I haven’t managed to listen to Sweet Nothing in a while because 😭 but I for a while I have thought the “all you ever wanted from me was…nothing” didn’t actually sound as positive as I first thought! Like want SOMETHING!! We all need to want something. Ohh Joe 😭😭💔

Katie K

Well this is highly useful information thank you so much for this!! 🫶

Katie K

You’re SO RIGHT about You’re Losing Me. It truly is superior and the most deep cutting of all her break up songs for me because of that meaning behind it and the devastation of how much she would be giving up of a life together of 6 years. It’s so relatable!! I can’t stop listening to it 😭 The Moment I Knew was definitely a fathom but she wasn’t losing so much then. There is also an unreleased song called Thirteen Blocks (Can’t Call It Love) - which I’ve had on my hard drive for about a decade, great song if you haven’t heard! - that has a similar fathoming but it’s more youthful or potentially fictional. The first time she performs Your Losing Me live we’re all going to DIE DEAD and that’s it 💀

Katie K

Muna were my openers in Atlanta, actually! Love them

Kat

omg the phone case is so prettyyy

Nin

Emily I love you haha

Nin

Emily, I wanna see your TS50 update with Hits different on it. :)

Vladimir

Em, I'm as much of a Clean stan as you are and I simply must agree, this song cleanses on a different level

Nin

I agree! I almost never skip it. It just always puts me in a good mood haha

Emmie Kruger

nope, it‘s actually my favourite opener!! or at least equally offensive as ready for it!

mieke

Loved the Emily moment with clean ahaha

Ashley Wright

I saw that the girl who Taylor replied to on Tik Tok about Clean, how she “could’ve played it in a higher key so it was technically a mess up” WAS THERE LAST NIGHT!! Coincidence?! 👀

Katie K

no, i love it, it's such a bop, especially when you're entering a city haha

Emma Skilbeck

I think everyone in New York would love Welcome to New York, mostly because a good portion of the crowd are likely people who live in the city and moved there for the ‘New York life’ so it probably hits different for them! Also the fact she repeated clean means maroon could be repeated…..imagine maroon and Ivy on the same night, July 29th 😭😭😭

Georgia Thompson-Chase

Superior interpretive dance Emily 🤌

Laura (in my eras era) 🫶

Omg I accidentally listened to the clean version of hits different when till dawn first came out and I thought she changed it and I was so upset for like 2 mins 💀

Fahmeen

Absolutely concerning how she hasn’t had her little chats before the songs! And 1989 opener and closer? Taylor.

Candice Plendl

Am I the only person that actually likes welcome to New York? :D

Emmie Kruger

Watching at 3:30 in the morning and semi-dozed off but woke up terrified that I heard vibrations-sounds of someone running up the stairs in my house. Pulled out my AirPods only to see that Bonny had just ran up her stairs with a package. Lol

JC S

Echoing the comments of love for Em’s glasses 🫶🏽 loved to see all the unboxings too lol I’m inspired to get a purple case now too— thanks Bonny 🥰💜 I’m going to another show (Seattle N2) and I’m reeeeeally hoping that they are a part of evermore set every night that they open I would dieeeee

kienan

It's so beautiful live on the piano. I cry every single time.

Clash Fan

I know it's a weird thing to say but I know how precious those shirts are and they never last as long as you want.

Clash Fan

Losing clean not once but twice now feels like a personal attack 😭😭

Jas

Em in those glasses!! <33

Bobhog

SAME!!!

Aloha Record Sargent

um thank you SO much for assisting in my adulting, life lessons like these don’t come easy

Taylor Marie

I had this same thought

Ash W

THANK YOU x1000!!! 💖💖💖💖💖💖 I was with my mom at the concert and it was so beautiful! My mom said she has never seen me happier🥹

PaulaPaula

Pro tip to extend the life of your shirts. Soak them in a little cold water and white vinegar before you wash your shirts. It will set the color so they don't fade as much. Kind of how you die an Easter egg. Not important for the white shirt as it is for the darker colors. It's not the silk screen you are setting it's the shirt itself.

Clash Fan

no weekend night or show night feels complete until i stay up to 1:30 am to watch your reactions 💖 also i was there for the first performance of clean and i’m so happy she decided to play it again in this key, it sounds soooo good

Taylor Marie

Do we think there is any connection to her playing Clean, and You're Losing Me? I think a lot of us thought that You're Losing Me had Imogen Heap / Clean vibes. Interesting....

Aloha Record Sargent

I sobbed and sang on the couch while live-streaming, just like the first time clean happened! :(((( lol but seriously, this is the redemption story we love to see!! I’m so happy for you!

Kristen G

GUYS, I thought it was UR merch ! 😭 anyway, slay

sofie sandrini

Do y’all sleep?!!! Thanks for all the content Bon & Em 💕✨

Can

Okayyyy, so Mother definitely said NJ/NY is my baby and I love her THE MOST!! lol This weekend was offensively superior and I say that as someone who was at the Speak Now TV announcement show. Sooo happy for the besties there but like y’all said, super mad for me haha! love you two sm!!!

Kristen G

Emily we have the same Top 4 Songs ( All too well 10, ivy, august and cardigan). The fifth one is Ready for it for me - such a banger 😅

Saskia 🩶🤎🖤🤍

I definitely understand since it’s such a specific song it probably isn’t listened to or related to as much but it slays

Morgan Murdock

I was there too tonight!! Seeing clean live changed my life. Taylor crushed my dreams by playing it earlier on tour so she basically healed my heart by playing it for us tonight. I was sooo excited to see your reaction for it. It’s literally 2:30am here and I didn’t want to go to bed until y’all posted!!!

PaulaPaula

emily i am also loving your darker, natural hair growing in ☺️

Katie LaFave

ya i get that. i heard what you said in the video about the song. i was more talking about swifties in general. like i see it all over twitter how people don't like it.

Katie LaFave

I'm so fucked up over the fact that this show was the last one before the one I’ll literally be at. So ready and so NOT ready. The secret song reactions have been such a welcome serotonin boost and merch mini-haul on this one, too-! J’adore 💘💘💘 Also the glasses are so cute!!!

Ash W

thanks bestie!!

Chats & Reacts

No I must say I did think of you bestie because how dare she not give you clean??????

Chats & Reacts

I said in this video that its a bop and a great song but its just not as special as other songs! With the hype around secret songs and what people want at their show, I just don't think that this is the song that many people are anticipating when they feel so deeply connected to, and seen, by the emotions that are held in most other songs Taylor has written. But it's still good :)

Chats & Reacts

i love that she did the 1989 album opener & closer as surprise songs!

Katie LaFave

i’ve been binge watching your videos all day and i was so excited when I got the notification for this video!! ❤️❤️

Alisha Bulmer

emily i love your glasses

Katie LaFave

ya i always see people talking about how they don't like it. like i don't relate to it either, but then again the only song of hers that i relate to is the man. i don't need to relate to a song in order to like it. welcome to new york is a great song that deserves more love & respect!!!

Katie LaFave

I’m home sick and I’ve just had NOTHING to take my mind off You’re Losing Me. The references, the sadness, the SOBBING. I need to get back to work y’all fr

Cara M

I want to point out the lyric change in "sweet nothing" when Taylor said all you wanted from me is "nothing". I always thought that sounded sad and actually not good. And in context of "you're losing me" when she says "do something risk something choose something". It kinda feels like the relationship was stagnant. Taylor wanted more. Marriage and getting out in the World together etc and Joe didn't. He wanted nothing!

Bianca Doyle

Your tweet was devastating!!! I can’t wait for the fathoming!

Ally ❤️

yesss i love a merch haul! i have era's tour merch on it's way!

Alisha Bulmer

PEOPLE HATE IT?

khushi04

ITS ONE OF MY STAN SONGS I FEEL OFFENDED

Morgan Murdock

beyond obsessed with the 1989 shirt

Alex Fraser

so excited to watch!!

Alisha Bulmer

i just don't understand why everyone hates welcome to new york??!!

Katie LaFave

i’m really distraught over clean being played again… also over her lack of words the last two nights hahah

sammi snyder

You guys hard work is literally on Taylor’s level right now 🥲

Paul Zhang

I’m spoiled as hell with the last 2 nights but me not being at the one show she played clean again in New York for clean is my 13th reason….also I wrote Taylor a letter that I gave andrea yesterday (sweetest woman alive) and I wrote so much about clean which is kind of fucking me up 😭 anywho love you girls

Ava Jeffs

Merch haul? Exciting! I have merch on the way finally. 🥳

Joe Weaver


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