SONG BREAKDOWN: That's When
Added 2023-04-09 20:00:02 +0000 UTC
Noooooo.... how do we tell you that That's When is the best vault track on Fearless????? sorry but it just IS!!!
I think this is your best video
Julianna Poulson
2024-01-05 17:36:52 +0000 UTC
I am sooo late but i just think "laughing when im crying" could have many meanings, and the first time it's used i thought of it as meaning that even when they're actually having this conversation about needing space, and it's really sad and they're crying, but they're still laughing. Like the first chorus of this song I can see as being a very literal back-and-forth dialogue and they've just had this sad convo about "I need time" and "I know" and she says "when can i come back?" and he makes some joke about "oh when i wake up in the morning!" or however it goes, but even in this sad conversation there's so much love and safety between them that they're literally laughing when they're crying
Julianna Poulson
2023-08-12 02:59:55 +0000 UTC
Hi know I’m a bit late but I think it’s interesting that Keith Urban does backing vocals on We Were Happy, because i always thought these songs were connected. Because to me that song is her realizing she doesn’t love him anymore and has to break up with him even though she doesn’t want to. So to me it would fit perfectly between her leaving and coming back in this song. Realizing she was wrong.
Aracely Castaneda
2023-05-18 04:30:32 +0000 UTC
So late to watch in this but omg you helped me fathom this song so much and now I have way more appreciation for it! OFFENSIVE
Hannah Rothausen
2023-04-30 05:11:35 +0000 UTC
Fathoming this video after the news about her and Joe broke out. 🫢 never associated this song to her personal life and this is a VT from 2007, but…… what if?
Momo's Bitch
2023-04-23 16:46:15 +0000 UTC
idk if someone has said this already but alsooo the fact that she's asking 'when can i come back' shows how much respect there is between the people in this relationship because she's understanding that SHE is in the wrong and that HE also might want time to do other things, she doesn't want to stop him doing that by coming back unannounced so she communicates and asks, 'when will YOU be ready for ME to come back because i don't want to make your life more complicated'
olivia
2023-04-22 12:44:56 +0000 UTC
Also just was listening again just now and wondering whether the “laughing when I was crying” line is Taylor getting that rush of love which results in a laugh through tears when he replies with “when I wake up in the morning, when it’s sunny or storming” cos it caught her off guard. She was crying while she was asking when she could come back and his answer made her laugh through her tears. Stop. That’s so beautiful.
That might’ve been obvious to all but I just got that 😂
Cara M
2023-04-18 04:09:03 +0000 UTC
The warm safe hug that is both this song AND your breakdown is exactly what the doctor ordered. I’m avoiding eras content for spoilers and I’m sad about the likely breakup so Fearless content is the soothing elixir my nervous system needs right now. Beautiful fathoming, Bonny, I feel it 💖
Cara M
2023-04-16 14:44:15 +0000 UTC
I love the augusty outro, because it sooo not obvious!! also, I feel like the layers of the song switched places, when Taylor sings "yeah" and together they sing "...when I'm laughing" and so on. But then the backing vocals are the chorus and I feel like normally that would be the opposite if that makes sense. ahhh. it's soooooooo good. omg. nooooo. and Keith has the nicest most comforting voice. he sounds like a hug. omg. no. will never get over this song. That's when forever!
sofie sandrini
2023-04-15 16:19:38 +0000 UTC
I know it's a lot to say, but this song is one of my faves, ever. ahhh. and Keith sound so good it shouldn't be allowed
sofie sandrini
2023-04-15 15:28:55 +0000 UTC
So happy you guys gave That’s when it’s moment. It’s been my favorite VT of fearless instantly and definitely one of my fave TS song. Like August, it just clicked. The meaning of it really allows for space in relationships, it’s not linear. Loving the more nuanced songs of hers lately. Makes me want to dust that guitar and play it so bad! 🌸
Adélaïde K
2023-04-14 14:31:21 +0000 UTC
I feel it!!!
Allie Ladner
2023-04-12 18:58:56 +0000 UTC
18:36-19:00 😃💗💖👍🏻😃😄😄🤗🤗🤗
Marion
2023-04-12 16:58:08 +0000 UTC
I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU GUYS SAID THAT IF JOE AND TAYLOR SPLIT YOU WON'T BELIEVE IN LOVE ... IT'S LIKE YOU GUYS SENSE IT THAT SOMETHING IS GOING OOOON 😯😯😯😯💙
Jasna
2023-04-12 16:27:33 +0000 UTC
The clown bahahaha
Alex Engstrom
2023-04-12 04:39:35 +0000 UTC
I agree you with you!!
Saray Checo
2023-04-11 23:46:47 +0000 UTC
Yesssss this would be fantastic
Mads
2023-04-11 13:51:03 +0000 UTC
Oh no….that was a punch to the heart. Emily saying wouldn’t believe in love if Taylor and Joe broke up. 😔
Emma K
2023-04-11 01:09:53 +0000 UTC
Please react to the album Stick Season by Noah Kahan!! Lyricism is very similar to TS
Rachel L
2023-04-10 20:20:57 +0000 UTC
Can’t wait for Don’t You! It’s my favorite song on Fearless
Michelle Murray
2023-04-10 19:41:50 +0000 UTC
chats and reacts, bonny and emily (my name is emily<3) my favourite people, i think i speak on behalf of many when i say we would adore a melodrama breakdown pls and thank u xxxxx
Emily M
2023-04-10 19:07:25 +0000 UTC
I've always loved this song but neveeer fathomed this much of it, now i'll be obssesed !!
Sofia Luna
2023-04-10 18:41:57 +0000 UTC
Processing Taylor and Joe news was interesting. Day 1: OH NO! Day 2: Such a shame. Day 3: I wonder if we'll get some really great new breakup songs out of this...
Karen Valentino
2023-04-10 16:55:23 +0000 UTC
Hearing Em say she won’t believe in love if Keith & Nicole and/or taylor and joe breakup just hit me in the gut 🥲
Marie Guidry
2023-04-10 16:43:31 +0000 UTC
Love love love your interpretation of That's when!!! thanks for helping me fathom as always 💛
Maria Carmen
2023-04-10 16:11:05 +0000 UTC
Love this analysis ladies. I never gave this song the time of day tbh, cause when I heard the melody “la-haaa-fen and cry-hyyyy-en” I was turned off, but now I see the beauty in the words/context. Thank you my queens
Tracy
2023-04-10 15:55:02 +0000 UTC
for some reason i didn’t listen to that’s when for such a long time after it came out. must’ve forgot to put it in my playlist but after i rediscovered it WOW was i missing out. love it!
Juliana Martinez
2023-04-10 15:31:17 +0000 UTC
Yes, I feel it! That's When is definitely a Vault track standout with Mr Perfectly Fine. And I'm also a Bye Bye Baby fan too.
Joe Weaver
2023-04-10 14:23:14 +0000 UTC
We fully need a Tim McGraw feature on debut
Alice
2023-04-10 12:40:55 +0000 UTC
I full on sobbed to this
Alice
2023-04-10 12:40:28 +0000 UTC
lol. Aaron didn't work on August either. It was Betty that all 3 of them came together.
Heather Gunn
2023-04-10 12:26:26 +0000 UTC
The Timing of this video is quite comforting 🥹
Alice
2023-04-10 12:24:55 +0000 UTC
hahahashs i guess emily doesn't believe in love anymore? 🥹
Maya
2023-04-10 09:49:44 +0000 UTC
as always, you are bang on correct. I loved August instantly, and had the same reaction to That's when, and the outros just have the vibe. soooooo good.
Gee Vee
2023-04-10 09:00:42 +0000 UTC
omg the timing of this song breakdown. I had listened to all the girls you loved before right before i heard the sad news, and now I just can't listen to anything from Rep onwards for a while. This song gives us hope.
Gee Vee
2023-04-10 07:56:47 +0000 UTC
😭 TrIGgEReD
Emma
2023-04-10 07:26:36 +0000 UTC
This song reminds me of august not of the lyrics but in the music
Adam Moore
2023-04-10 03:34:05 +0000 UTC
Love is beautiful when it is bright. But it's like a star - you can still enjoy the light of the stars even after they are extinguished. Many stars we see in the night sky don't exist, but their light is still traveling to us. That's this and that's ok. Eventually these songs will be starlight to us
Rissy (Taylor's Version)
2023-04-10 03:21:14 +0000 UTC
Bonny, I always feel like you and I have the same taste in songs (although I absolutely share Emily’s love of Haunted - can’t wait for you to fathom on speak now TV) that’s when is 10000% the best vault track on fearless and I will never skip this song when it comes on 🥹🥹❤️❤️
Lynny Smith
2023-04-10 03:05:43 +0000 UTC
Ethan you do be speaking some truth
Chats & Reacts
2023-04-10 03:00:53 +0000 UTC
😭🙏💔
Chats & Reacts
2023-04-10 02:59:10 +0000 UTC
We have decided to do a live stream tomorrow morning 💔
Chats & Reacts
2023-04-10 02:55:20 +0000 UTC
keith urban is a superior man 🫶this is in my mom’s top songs ever so I have the best memories blasting it in the car. she loves blue ain’t your color too, you should give it a listen!
Ava Jeffs
2023-04-10 02:53:50 +0000 UTC
I saw that on Twitter and I’m hoping toooo. 😭
Shyla Hoffpauir
2023-04-10 02:53:26 +0000 UTC
THE CHANCES.... WE ALSO BROKE DOWN SWEET NOTHING THIS DAY 😭 HELP... THE THINGS WE SAID....
Chats & Reacts
2023-04-10 02:53:19 +0000 UTC
💔 no im in denial....its will be okay.... they are still together... she will perform CIWYW on thursday....
Chats & Reacts
2023-04-10 02:52:14 +0000 UTC
I'm was still hoping Momma Swift told everyone no phones for the weekend, then saw the Liverpool leaks. 😭
Whatever you do, don't listen to YOYOK!
Rissy (Taylor's Version)
2023-04-10 02:51:31 +0000 UTC
Marissa we are all in mourning and denial together 💔
Chats & Reacts
2023-04-10 02:49:51 +0000 UTC
Bonny girl, YES I FEEL IT. I absolutely adore this song and I'm so happy to hear you giving the love it deserves!! I swear it gets better every time I hear it. And I have been having SUCH a moment with Keith Urban's music lately so now I love it even more
Daphne
2023-04-10 02:43:37 +0000 UTC
Taylor actually mentioned this song during her Sonwriter/Artist
Of The Decade Award acceptance speech in Nashville last year.
She said she wrote this song when she was 14 y/o with 2 co-
writers in Nashville. She made a joke about calling them to say she
was going to record it that it was "the longest hold a song has
ever had". I love this song as well and sad about the news today.
debra schane
2023-04-10 02:24:03 +0000 UTC
I also like the “when can I come back?” shows alongside the “hard to hear” line that she KNOWS this is hard for him & she doesn’t want to just blow in & out of his life whenever she wants to without him having a say in when HE’S okay with her coming back after she’s stepping away. that whole first part just shows that both of them are thinking of the other person during this situation: “I know you need to leave for a little while” / “when would YOU be okay with me coming back?”
Sierra Sather
2023-04-10 01:30:12 +0000 UTC
this video was actually all I needed today. The first part was hard but it made me happy the rest of the time
Shyla Hoffpauir
2023-04-10 01:05:20 +0000 UTC
Ladies, I needed you so much today. Thank you!! Came home from vacation to backed up plumbing in the house and the rumors. You made my day. 😘❤️
Layla4124
2023-04-10 01:01:42 +0000 UTC
RIGHT
Bethany Stone
2023-04-10 01:00:06 +0000 UTC
THATS WHEN IS ALL TIME FAVORITE SONG EVER 😤
Ashley Ontiveros
2023-04-10 00:48:43 +0000 UTC
the fact that we will get more vault tracks as superior as this one with rep tv and speak now tv and omg 1989 tv!!!!!!!!!
Natalie Lyddane
2023-04-10 00:13:49 +0000 UTC
And on Debut!
Ally ❤️
2023-04-09 23:30:51 +0000 UTC
Thank you for this videoooooo!!! That's when is THE most OFFENSIVE vault track on fearless
Ana Luiza reis de noronha
2023-04-09 22:24:09 +0000 UTC
Babes, august is a fully Jack song🙈🙈🙈
Aaron isn't on august, the one they all three worked on in folklore was betty🙈
Ileana Isabel
2023-04-09 21:27:35 +0000 UTC
That's When is a great song! I wonder if the pandemic was important in the creation of this song--that is, by the point in the pandemic when they were recording this, Jack and Taylor and probably everyone else had gotten so good at remote collaboration that they could imagine working with Keith while he was in Australia, when maybe pre-pandemic they would have thought they needed to be in the same place, and so never actually would have done it. One other small thing about this song--who actually has a front gate? Its giving like a Western ranch, or maybe an Australian sheep farm. Its not distracting in the song, but it is sort of funny to think about the fact that literally no one has a front gate anymore. I think this song could have gotten more attention--it could have been a country number 1.
MarkH
2023-04-09 21:25:43 +0000 UTC
Oh no, Emily! you really foreshadowed it at 2.05. 😭😭😭
Anna Miotello
2023-04-09 21:17:07 +0000 UTC
I really recommend you find the demo version of this song and listen to it! I think it’s on YouTube. It’s different and VERY interesting to fathom alongside this one!! 🤯
Katie K
2023-04-09 21:16:01 +0000 UTC
Loving all the content!
Bobhog
2023-04-09 21:14:12 +0000 UTC
That's when is such a masterpiece of a song, it is so illegal that it exsists, and Keith Urban on top of that.
Jen Manchulenko
2023-04-09 21:07:30 +0000 UTC
2:05 😫😭
Laura (in my eras era) 🫶
2023-04-09 21:07:12 +0000 UTC
Please let it be like this someday:
Taylor: “I need some time, need some space to think about all of this”
Joe: “i know”
Taylor: “when can I come back?”
Joe: “that’s when… when i wake up in the morning. That’s when… when it’s sunny or storming. Laughing, when I’m crying. And that’s when… I’ll be waiting at the front gate. That’s when… when I see your face. I’ll let you in, and baby, that’s when”
Mia Hauffe
2023-04-09 21:06:16 +0000 UTC
hardcore AGREE!!!!! that's when stans rise!!!
Julia Fisher
2023-04-09 20:54:21 +0000 UTC
That’s what I was gonna say 😭😭definitely didn’t age well 😭
Mia Hauffe
2023-04-09 20:51:09 +0000 UTC
I'm so excited 😍😍 That's When is also my favorite vault track!!!
Ileana Isabel
2023-04-09 20:41:44 +0000 UTC
I don't believe anything in the fake media until I hear it from Taylor swift. I don't know why the media always does this Taylor. So tired of all the false rumors about her and Joe over the years.
Richard
2023-04-09 20:37:12 +0000 UTC
I hope we can have a Keith Urban guest appearance on the tour.
Joe Weaver
2023-04-09 20:30:00 +0000 UTC
Noooooo not Emily saying if Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn break up I won't believe in love anymore
Rebecca
2023-04-09 20:29:54 +0000 UTC
girls please do a breakdown of “all of the girls you loved before”
Mia Gregorio
2023-04-09 20:26:05 +0000 UTC
I mistakenly listened to afterglow today and bawled. I hope she’s okay.
Josh
2023-04-09 20:24:29 +0000 UTC
Thanks for uploading this today girls!! This is what we needed 💕❤️
Katie K
2023-04-09 20:16:48 +0000 UTC
the 🤡 moment is sending me 🤣🤣
mieke
2023-04-09 20:14:33 +0000 UTC
I cannot even listen to a song of her today without crying 😭
Stephani
2023-04-09 20:14:15 +0000 UTC
😂😂😂
Rissy (Taylor's Version)
2023-04-09 20:13:53 +0000 UTC
02:06 did not age well ._.
Karolina Hołub
2023-04-09 20:12:31 +0000 UTC
noooo 2:09
james
2023-04-09 20:11:25 +0000 UTC
Hi besties! could you please make a video commenting about Joe and Tay :( I know it’s not our business to talk about them but I think we all are kinda grieving this supposed break up in a strange way and it would be nice to have the support of this community
Luna Rodriguez Espinoza
2023-04-09 20:09:16 +0000 UTC
you guys doing damage control on this chaotic day
james
2023-04-09 20:08:50 +0000 UTC
Oh, I love this for today. ❤️
Tara
2023-04-09 20:08:44 +0000 UTC
Noo 2.09😭
Anna B
2023-04-09 20:06:37 +0000 UTC
OHMYGOD EMILYYYYYTY TWO MINUTES IN 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Emma Baumert
2023-04-09 20:06:18 +0000 UTC
Thank you! I needed this today! 💛💛💛
Iga W.
2023-04-09 20:06:15 +0000 UTC
That’s When supremacy! definitely my #1 pick for my surprise song 💛
Anissa Kazi
2023-04-09 20:05:09 +0000 UTC
I know who this is now. Rissy!
Joe Weaver
2023-04-09 20:04:54 +0000 UTC
Let’s go cry
Shyla Hoffpauir
2023-04-09 20:04:11 +0000 UTC
Hahahha
Shyla Hoffpauir
2023-04-09 20:04:04 +0000 UTC
Emily and Bonny, thank you thank you thank you for posting today something to watch. Sending love to you both!!!
Rissy (Taylor's Version)
2023-04-09 20:04:00 +0000 UTC
Omg nooooottttt today
Shyla Hoffpauir
2023-04-09 20:03:58 +0000 UTC
Needed this today ❤️🩹
Emma Baumert
2023-04-09 20:03:17 +0000 UTC
we need that norman fucking rockwell breakdown‼️‼️AND MELODRAMA OMG
Ethan Nguyen
2023-04-09 20:03:01 +0000 UTC