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Grammys 2023 Reaction!

Despite collectively suffering through a deep ATW10-didnt-win-SOTY depression, we hope you guys enjoy this very candid reaction to the Grammys! 

Please tell us all your thoughts!!!

Grammys 2023 Reaction!

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I really needed this today. Thank you for always being there for us. I love you both more than words can say. Can’t wait for the Grammys again next month with this whole community!

Deborah

This is my favourite fucking video to watch just to see Bonny revert to being a seven year old that’s throwing a tantrum when Taylor doesn’t win SOTY

Josie Bicknelle

not her earrings being speak now purple and 1989 light blue, taylor told us about her next 2 re records with her dam earrings.

Katellini

Taylor not winning Song of the Year ever is as crazy as Beyonce NEVER winning Album of the Year. Craziness at the Grammys

TheYo Show

Favorite video EVER

Gabi

This whole reaction was Iconic and I am glad that Bonnie Raitt is still getting the well deserved recognition, but yeah ATWTTMTV definitely had it...And OMG Emily you can't just be saying stuff like that at the end b/c we all know that overlooked Taylor always gets her vengeance in the end with a world domination album! Thanks for this as always 🙌👑❤💙💜

Derick Mitchell Matthews

I’m sorry but the asmr at the end took me out😂😂

Jordan Bush

Emily, like me, I’m a Red fanatic! I know that loss means a lot 🥹 you held it together nicely

devin dear

Yay for making a girl cry at the end, guys!!! 🥺🥹

Brittany DeLara

We love you! Thank you for doing the smaller, intimate videos - always a bright star in our darkest nights ❤️

Rissy (Taylor's Version)

Taylor was robbed absolutely. I completely agree!! But Harry winning was very wholesome

Lauryn Brown

Me too… that was just the rudest slap in the face - like salt in the wound 🥺

Ally ❤️

It's the "FUCK off no one's ever looked that good" for me 🤣😭

Jason

the reaction to ATW10 not winning is SOOOooOoOOOo relatable. it's been almost a week and i'm STILL mad

kayla ramoutar

That scream from Em at the start was a shortened version to seeing Laura Dern in the Bejewelled MV!!!! Literally identical. I'm dying with laughter at it.

Tom

I live in the US and every time I watch one of your videos I’m reminded that I want to move to Australia as soon as humanly possible

Nicholas Carson

Ladies- thank you! Loved this as always!! Bonnie I hope you're ok! We're all here for you hun - you've got great friends and you're an amazing woman- you'll make it through whatever is getting at you. <3

Ashley Wright

I know it’s generally not your type of music – but I would love to see you reacting to Renaissance. It’s such a gem and empowers you so much when listening!

Andreas Mainka

My girlies!!!! Watching Taylor-the songwriter of our generation- lose SOTY for what is literally her magnum opus was truly devastating (and I agree, HUMILIATING for the grammys committee). But if theres one thing that can brighten a rough week its content from you guys! THank you for all the hard work youve been doing lately! It does not go unnoticed. And im SO glad you feel safe with us over on patreon. bonny, Im sorry youre going through a rough time. Sending you the biggest hug and warm croissant to get through 🥐 💕

Sam Obrien

Loved this casual video. Really felt like we’re just hanging!! I had almost all the same reactions. Truly disappointed and puzzled at SOTY. BUT harry’s house won so that’s a win 😊 Love y’all 🫶🏻

Emily Dickey

All the congrats to Bonnie, but when she said “I don’t write a lot of songs” in her speech for a songwriting award, I wanted to scream 🙃 it truly is a travesty Taylor has never won it, the Grammys need to get it together!

k80scorner

Random Question: which show of Harry’s are you guys going to? Where are you sitting? And what are you looking forward to the most?

Jenna Hannemann

after reading the comments from several of the Grammy voters, it is clear that a lot of them are not listening to the albums or the songs, just going with what they liked or their favorite artist or what was popular instead of actually understanding the categories. Some just didn't like Taylor, regardless of the song. This is the problem. If people cannot separate their biases and actually listen to the music, then nothing is going to change. they have how many members? >25,000 and maybe that is just too much. maybe there needs to be some qualifications. maybe you have to be a Grammy winner, or so many years in the business, or some qualifications that allow you to objectively rate these songs and albums regardless of genre.

Starbuck1234!

Bonny, your reaction was exactly mine, I had a little tantrum because ATW10 really is that bitch, and then realized that at least it's a song by ONE songwriter, a legend and calmed down. But first, I needed to vent. 😂

Sheila Ellis

wow didn't think of that, thats TEA Alice 💛

Chats & Reacts

oh no I am so sorry to hear that Lisa, thinking of you and sending love! Its been a hard week for many I feel 🫶🏼

Chats & Reacts

I completely get that 😩 I feel for Beyoncé too, even though I am not really a fan of her music, I respect her and can see how much it sucks that she hasn't won it before!

Chats & Reacts

OMG amazing hehehehe

Chats & Reacts

Hating Bonnie definitely isn't right 😞 but I agree Taylor partying afterwards shows her growth!!!! She can't be brought down, I think she knows now ✨

Chats & Reacts

3AM bestie 🤣 hope you get some sleep!! I agree that she deserved it so much and I think its so great that she can still be happy and have fun even when it didn't win! Totally agree I think she knows now how much her music means to people and doesn't need the grammys to validate ATW10. I think its good she went and worked the room and reminded everyone how bejewelled he is and how much of a star she is even when she doesn't win. Next year, she will win again!

Chats & Reacts

AW yay this is so great to hear, thanks Anna 💛

Chats & Reacts

YES Kienan we did but we didn't properly see those pics of them talking until after this video, hence why we didn't really chat about it. But it was so nice to see them being so friendly again and also how she stood up and supported him so much 🥹 awww thank you so much bestie, so glad it feels like that🫶🏼

Chats & Reacts

struggle townnnnn 🤣💀 I was also doing the same to make this video, Taylor fixes everything!!! and yesss I agree!

Chats & Reacts

Also she wore the navy blue dress for midnights but it’s also a very similar colour to the dress she wore to the Grammys during the speak now era. Plus the stones in the earrings are purple. So I think she was definitely still intending to release sntv next before she lost soty. So whatever happens next will definitely be due to what happened that night.

Alice

P.s. did you guys see the trial footage against ticket master of government officials quoting Taylor Swift lyrics? It’s the funniest thing 😂

Alice

Ya our girl was definitely toasted 😆

Alice

I think they don’t like her too. They need to re-elect academy members is what it is.

Alice

I feel like Midnights deserves AOTY it literally took all 10 top 10 spots. And anti-hero could be record of the year since it also charted #1 for so long.

Alice

I was honestly shocked. No song deserved it more. Not to say the song that won wasn’t great, but ATW10 is in a calibre of its own. Clearly the general public has spoken since it was the number one song for so long. Who are these people voting because they need to get better ears. We’ll just have to name an award after ATW10 because that’s the icon status it deserves. Also love you guys and hope Bonny is doing ok with everything she’s going through! Sending love❤️

Alice

Thank you so much for this warm and heartfelt video! I am also very happy for Harry. Taylor has won AOTY three times, so I feel that she is being appreciated by the Grammys.

Elvia Kristoffersen

We love you both so much. This was the first time I was able to cry about her losing. I was just so angry about it. It IS such a slap in the face… so hard. It was the song. I am looking forward to more response from y’all about what was going on in the room when Harry accepted AOTY and how Taylor showed up for him 🥹❤️ thank you both so much for opening your hearts to us. It’s an honor to be here and to share the ups and the downs!

Ally ❤️

thank you Emily for saying Taylor losing SOTY is an easter egg for 1989TV! It kinda might make sense because: a) she did the glambot this year and I can only find the last time she did it was for the year 1989 won at the grammys b) her outfit is a very similar style to her 1989 grammy outfit with the 2 piece top and skirt/dress c) she also started drinking early at the grammys so kinda feeling like she knew she wasnt gonna win so prepared all the easter eggs for 1989TV with the loss of a Red grammy connecting it to what inspired 1989 in the first place. I'm also choosing to think this if only for my own sanity.

Jaimie C

Aww Bon ❤️ I hope you’re doing okay - whatever you’re going through ❤️ sending positive vibes ✨ SOTY was a rough moment & I agree it’s embarrassing at this point, it’s like they’re going out of their way to not recognise Tay’s superior talent 😒 Really love that you guys have Patreon as your safe space to be your authentic selves - totally teared up a little when you said that 💖 you are both such beautiful people - inside & out - your friendship & life outlook is so inspiring 🙌 & you are so much fun!! We are lucky to be along for the ride 🥰

Laura (in my eras era) 🫶

Also, also, YAY FOR HARRY!!!

Bethanie Harris

Also, thanks for a real and amazing vid as always! :)

Bethanie Harris

WE RIOT AT DAWN!!! It is equally baffling and appauling that ATW did not receive Song of the Year!

Bethanie Harris

Agree Taylor had the best song. I think this tells us that voters won't be giving Taylor awards for re-recording (in any form).

Rachael Peroutky

I also think that ATW was allowed and was nominated, but this tells you that even though it qualifies, the voters don't like re-recorded music OR they don't like Taylor. This is not the first re-recorded song to actually win SOTY, ROTY, or AOTY. So, I have to think this is personal against her. If others have entered, been nominated, and have won in each of these categories for re-recorded music, then I'm not sure why Taylor is getting hate from the gp over submitting her work when it has not been criticized to this level before.

Starbuck1234!

Taylor not winning SOTY was a slap in the face, and I loooove Bonnie Raitt, i've seen her several times in concert. But was it SOTY? no. Sorry, Bonnie. But it wasn't. It was the least likely to win the award. I really liked Harry's album, I thought it was good. Did i think it was groundbreaking, paradigm shifting, transformative, a risk, or challenging? No. Was it unexpected and fresh? No. Sorry, I really liked it, it just wasn't any of those things for me. Still it was depressing to see / hear people yelling at him to get off the stage and that Beyonce' deserved it. Again, people can disagree with the end result but being hurtful and rude is just unacceptable. And, people need to get ready for next year because I doubt she will win SOTY next year either, Anti-Hero is not SOTY, maybe ROTY. But, not SOTY. They will not give it to her, and SOS is going to be the frontrunner (as of right now). Taylor would really have to do something groundbreaking to be awarded for ROTY or SOTY and AOTY is out of the picture I'm afraid.

Starbuck1234!

"I don't understand !!", "make it makes some sense !!" Bonny was literally having a mental breakdown over ATW10 lost and honestly my reaction was exactly the same <3

Chloé

I also thought Beyoncé should’ve won but it’s not Harry’s fault and yelling at him while he’s giving his acceptance speech is just disgusting

tasneem

I also think Beyoncé should’ve won album of the year more than Harry’s House like she deserved it and was robbed during lemonade era and has never won

tasneem

How could a song win for song of the year when no one has heard the damn song

tasneem

Yes, WORST GRAMMIES EVER, except for Harry Styles winning. Unbelievable that they reject Taylor Swift songwriting. WTH?

Lisa Kell

I am so sick for Taylor and Beyoncé I can’t even stand it. A slap in the face to the two most successful female artists of all time…

Abigail Collins

I 100% agree with your 3 like they all won at least one grammy and they all seemed to have a great time and cheer for each other which is nice to see.

tatiana

I mean the people voting and the director of the show are two different things also I think they were filming her because she was actually having fun and getting up for people and they also know they were a lot of people watching to see her so...

tatiana

Oh girls, I'm so sorry Bonnie is having a day of it. I feel for you. Got laid off this week. But all will be Okay. Just taking time today to blow off life and relax, so its a good day for all things Taylor. HUGS! Love you guys!

Lisa Kell

I LOVE YOU BOTH SO MUCH!!

Cassandra

Blows my mind that Taylor didn’t win SOTY. And never has… y’all are so right! Like who else deserves it more than her?? No one!

Erica Trull

I’m having such a hard time being excited for Harry even though I know he is worthy of AOTY… because I really wanted Beyoncé to win it. She’s also been snubbed in this category! She’s never won it 🤯 and Renaissance is a masterpiece!!

Erica Trull

I was having a shit day and you guys did make it better ❤️

Erica Trull

It's ok that Taylor didn't win, I have a feeling she will SWEEP all the awards next year for Midnights. Also, I didn't notice until I went on tik Tok afterwards but when someone yelled at Harry that Beyoncé should've won you just see Taylor popping out of her seat. It's so sweet, so endearing. I literally love her so much.

Brianna

You two had the same exact look as the rest of us here including Bonnie with an IE

devin dear

Bonnie saying “he’s giving Christmas tree farm”, I spit my coffee out and woke my husband laughing so hard!!!!!!

devin dear

The Grammys did spread the wealth pretty well this year, but they always seem to F up some of the main awards pretty phenomenally… obviously SOTY, and even though I also love Harry, AOTY really should have gone to Beyoncé. Did you know she’s only won the big 3 awards ONCE EVER (SOTY for Single Ladies, which isn’t even the right award really, it should have been ROTY). But literally NEVER record or album… not for Lemonade (that was the year that Adele won and was a crying mess, saying she couldn’t accept it when Bey/Lemonade was literally HER biggest inspiration!) or for any of the other gazillion hits she’s had… she may be the most awarded artist in Grammy history, but only one time in the main award categories. That is truly shocking… it really does seem like the Grammys hold Beyoncé AND Taylor both to some some higher, arbitrary standard. Thankfully, Beyoncé was grateful and gracious AS ALWAYS, and I agree that Taylor did seem to have a great time, lol. She was the MOST STUNNING person in the room!! THAT DRESS THO… 😻 Ans Songbird was beautiful. Yaaaay for Jack too!!! ❤️🙌❤️

Jentallygirl

Taylor will definitely win song of the year next year for Anti-Hero. DEFINITELY!!

Cecilia Sparke

I hope too, but at the same time ATW deserved more.

Míša Janková

Losing my mind over Bonny saying today isn’t her day and Em immediately following that up by giving her a fright 😂😂

Michael Grice

Yeah, I wasn't a fan of Renaissance either. I couldn't get through two songs. I couldn't hear Beyonce sing over all the dance and electronic music. My favorite album of hers is 4.

Richard

Yeah, whoever gives hate like that are not real swifties. I am an OG, and I was very disappointed, but I never will do that to another artist. I will be just sad for Taylor.

Richard

Thanks, guys. I have some thoughts: 1. It is important to remember that ALL of the voters vote on the big 4 categories (song of the year, record of the year, album of the year, and best new artist). So the jazz people and the classical people and the mixers and the engineers and everyone. By contrast, best pop performance or album, or best dance/electronic performance or album, and the others, are only voted on by the people who identify as being in that field. The voting rules restrict you to voting in at most 3 different of those (pop, jazz, R&B, etc.) categories. This makes the big 4 inherently less predictable. 2. Taylor's people had to shoehorn ATW 10 into eligibility; that is why she chose the short film version. At least half of the content has to be new, and the short film version is the longest of them all. Some voters probably saw that as manipulating the system, and some might also have just not wanted to vote for a re-record. This does not take away from the basic fact that a lot of voters are just complete fucking idiots as well, but it might help a little to understand. I honestly was doubtful that Taylor could win because of this effect. 3. The Grammies did a good job this year sharing the wealth. Everyone who should have won something did win something: Beyonce, Taylor, Adele, Harry, Lizzo, Kendrick, Bad Bunny, my personal favorite goofballs Wet Leg, and I think Rosalia too if I remember right. So that is the good thing. 4. I wonder if Taylor went partially to remind people how bejeweled she actually is. She was working the room like some kind of congressman, the cameras kept going to her because she was always up and dancing, and she hosted an iconic after-party. She might have been laying the groundwork there for next year. The Grammies will always be enraging, I fear. But I was glad to rewatch with you!

MarkH

the ending was so comforting 🥹 thank you

addy

Sadly Harrys performance was a bit off because that thing was moving in the wrong direction! They had practiced it going the other way :/ That being said they did an incredible job, recreating the choreography mirrored (kinda).. Very professional! I think that's why he also sounds a bit nervous.

Maya

I truly had the exact same reaction to the song of the year. My soul left my body 😭 you guys are amazing ❤️

Lara James

Yay for my patient forgetting about his session at my work so I could watch this instead 🥰🥰🥰 I love you guys so much! I‘m a therapist and my work can get dark and heavy sometimes! Watching your videos helps me recharge with light and love and bubbliness. Thank you for being your wonderful authentic selves. 🥰🥰🥰

Anna

Beyonce is hit and miss with me musically too, I didn't like any of Renaissance either. At the same time I totally agree that she deserved the win. Renaissance was apparently a big throwback to an old school African American house/trap genre that originally paved the way for America's musical development in the 90s, which is one reason I always appreciate and respect her--even when I don't personally like her sound, she's always setting out with a specific and razor sharp intent to lift up her community. A major icon, I love that she and Taylor have always been on each other's side. <3

Brittany Diamond

This reaction is everything. I am gutted about SOTY you are totally right if she doesn’t win it for that wtf is she going to win it for 🫠🤯🤒 watching her have a great time was iconic tho. That glam bot stopped my heart. Seriously though this songwriting genius hasn’t won SOTY?! I’m baffled. Winning video of the year was v exciting tho and I’m sure this means a lot to her as she directed it and this is a passion she’s more recently discovered. So there’s always that

Zoe Knox

Thank you for this - and everything ❤️ My god I was sad when she didn’t win for ATW10! Travesty!! But looking back on the past nominations for SOTY I can start to understand why she didn’t win in earlier years - it’s always the singles that are put forward, and we know they aren’t always her best songs! Here’s hoping for anti-hero - pop perfection and lyrical masterpiece 🤞🤞🤞

Ruby Ozolins

To clarify, I think she deserves the wins as she's really successful and loved obviously

Clara Schneider

I'm actually not a fan of beyonce. Yes, there's a few older songs I quite like, but I listened to renaissance and I didn't enjoy any of the songs tbh. I think pretty much everyone being obsessed with her is an america thing as my friends are also not really into her (we're german)

Clara Schneider

Absolutely offensive that harry won aoty! I stan the right person

Clara Schneider

I was looking forward to this video all year :) thank you so much x

Ruth Van Malderen

When I was watching the Grammys and Taylor did not win SOTY my heart hurt. We all know she deserved it but if anyone else had to win it was I'm happy it was Bonnie Raitt. She is a true legend and a lovely person. Bonnie was getting alot of hate from Swifties and it has to stop. I'm sure you saw by now the pictures from Taylor's after party. She was definitely not at home crying like other years. She was having the time of her life (and drunk) and I'm so happy for her. Thanks for doing this video. Love to see your reactions. Love you both.

debra schane

you guys are the best ❤️

rowan

I hope Anti-Hero gets nominated and win SOTY next year! #manifesting

Jeejay

I love you two so much. You are all of us.

Aloha Record Sargent

oop just saw that you saw photos of them together so I'm sure you know hehe BUT just wanna say THANK YOU for casual, authentic selves videos like this... I was literally smiling the entire hour, feeling like I was a couch friend or something right there with you. Sending massive hugs to Bonny and hoping that things are at least a little better than they were when this was recorded xx love you both sm!!!!!!

kienan

Literally 3 AM here but watching this video LMAO. I found it really disheartening and very sad that they brought her to the Grammys, filmed her the majority of the time to not have her win. I’m just glad that her mindset around the Grammys has changed and that all too well 10 was the song for the fans at the end of the day, and that song will always be a winner in my eyes. She doesn’t need a award to validate that. Love you both ❤️

Reese

ok so excited to watch this

addy

the ASMR part 🤣🤣 manifesting 1989 part 2 🙏🏻

mieke

Thank you guys this is the PERFECT content it wouldn't have been that much fun watching the grammys alone but now I'm watching with you ♥️

Anna

Please tell me you guys saw that Taylor ran over to talk to Harry for like a minute and a half during the song Bad Habit which has lyrics like "Would you mind if I tried to make a pass at it? Were you not too good for me, my dear?" She was singing and dancing and then something clicked in her and she rushed over to him... concerning lollll

kienan

Can't wait to watch!! Thanks for filming this babes! Em I hope you're recovering from tooth pain! 🌻

Maria Carmen

I’m leaving struggle town and ran here as fast as I could. Last night seem to be the first time in a long time where I felt like it was a party, and everyone was happy to be around each other.

Julia George

2:17 am but i'm staying up to watch y'all's reactions 🥰

Isabel Villanueva

She was having the best time it was actually so nice to see 🥰

Chats & Reacts

Aw omg we love youuuu 🤍🤍🤍

Chats & Reacts

Omg yay!! 💛 This will be so fun to rewatch. I loved watching the cameras stay on Taylor, queen of dancing and drinking lol ✨

kienan

literally dropped everything (now) and sat down to watch this

Jeremiah Bell


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