ASMR soft spoken chit chat & makeup (ugly angle lol)
Added 2023-02-13 19:51:47 +0000 UTC
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It took me a while to sit and listen and take it all in to consider, as opposed to my usual zenning out reaction to your videos. So, from the top. Your makeup is lovely, and the process makes a good... background element to start the video with. "Introvert" and "Extrovert" are labels, which means they can be both convenient for describing things, but also can be limiting.. "I'm an introvert, I shouldn't like going out and doing ". I love the rare occasions I happen to go out with friends or coworkers. I find them too rare. And I find the places we go sometimes too loud, but I do enjoy being out in a lively place. And yet, I often spend a whole evening at home without speaking to anyone. I find it easier to share and be open on the internet as well, because there is (though in some ways it is just an illusion of) distance, there's a sense that these people you interact with, in a limited manner, via the videos, are safe and easy to talk to. I would tell people in my life things, if they really asked. But so many people seem to think an answer of "nothing planned" to the question of "what do you have on this weekend?" is a purely good, unconstrained thing. It certainly can be. But when it's nigh on every weekend... ehh. I don't have a TikTok account. I made my Instagram account basically to follow you and a couple others (and I was already in the Meta/Facebook realm so it wasn't like I was enlarging my digital footprint), but I don't see myself bothering with TikTok. I dislike Youtube Shorts - and not just because there's no volume control on a desktop browser; it's the whole tiny bite sized video. I would much rather watch a longer indepth piece. But I wish you luck with it. Do it for fun, if you want to. Medusa could be awesome. I wonder how similar your setup will be to ASMR Glow's. Wednesday was good but the character is... hard to relax with, which I feel makes that theme for ASMR a lot more tricky. Morticia can lean into a wholesome ~motherly vibe while still being gothic, so I think it will be more inherently soothing if you do one. Burnout.. is tricky. And motivation is tricky. There's different types. I am dealing with "I need a solid break and a holiday" burnout. But I can't decide on what to do for said holiday, because so many places, so many ideas sound... good. But nothing sounds great. Nothing leaps out at me. I don't where to start or to go first. And so, somewhat like you, I often paralysed by choice. I observe that a boat/swim tour of Croatia sounds amazing... then I remember I haven't done any swimming in ...too many years so, maybe later for that once I've gotten back into swimming, but then I consider the other ideas and some have the same problem, some seem... well, not pointless, but lacklustre to go on your own rather than as a couple, and some simply don't sound quite as good or it's a tour group so you're stuck staying in hostels.. and what's the point, why go if you don't think you're going to enjoy yourself and... so on and so forth. Thoughts spiralling. Thoughts spiralling, annoyingly, of course increases your feeling of frazzledness, of stressedness, of being worn at the seams. My advice though, is to try and make bigger, more daunting decisions seem smaller. When I finally booked in for laser eye surgery last year, I had spent months trivialising the whole thing. "Yeah, might as well just do it." Doesn't help for deciding between things as much, but if that trivialising helps you unwrap the options a bit, might be easier to compare them. Finally, you look amazing on both profiles. Deal with it <3
Just some Fish
2023-02-20 11:16:43 +0000 UTCthank you 🫶 for taking the time and giving me feedback, it touches me a lot
MissASMR
2023-02-15 17:02:37 +0000 UTCIm trying to squeeze in a lot of thoughts to keep it brief (if i can) , but I think firstly, you need to let go of the idea that you owe people videos. You don't. Life happens and sometimes you gotta prioritize things over others. And if you put yourself in the mind of your viewer, we're just happy to see you again really, it's not like "where are my four videos 😡??? She was supposed to make 6 but she made 4 🤬".... 😂😂 That'd be very stressful, because if according to your plans you were meant to make one video this week, now you're thinking of five or six ideas, for 5 or 6 or however many videos you were intending to have out by this time, all in the short time frame you normally dedicate to one video.. Of course it's exhausting and at the same time you're jeopardising the quality of your videos for the sake of quantity. I think that we all have our own reasons for wanting to share or create content.. So if were you, I would try to put content creation into perspective relative to my priorities in life. I would ask myself, what do i want from my channels and social media? Is it about making money? Is it about fame? Is it love for what i do? Is it about Validation? Acceptance? Other reasons? I believe your honest answer to questions of that nature will dictate your approach to content creation, and you'll have a clearer vision of whether you should treat it as a job, passion, or a way to connect, what you can expect, what your plan is and how stressful/unstressful your relationship is with making videos. And let's just assume for arguments sake that YouTube and tiktok are just a means to making money (because who wouldn't love that YouTube money 🤑), I would still treat it as job in the sense that it requires a certain amount of time from me, but I also won't let it chip into the personal time I reserve for myself. I'll dedicate 4pm-8pm or whatever to it, if im happy with my performance today then awesome, and if not, I have another chance tomorrow from 4-8, as long as i know i tried my best. On a side note, and I won't go into the tiktok rabbithole because this will be twice as long, but if you happen to watch the "diary of a ceo" podcast or Lex Friedman on YouTube, they both highlighted that the key change that produced noticable success for their channels was uploading with consistency... Steven Bartlett mentioned that the turning point for his channel in terms of increase and retention of viewers/subscribers really happened when he started uploading a video every Monday no matter what happened!! So that's an outlook to consider!
Motaz
2023-02-14 22:02:50 +0000 UTCFor real! It's nearly impossible to find something about shushanna that isn't gorgeous!
Jake D.
2023-02-14 18:11:30 +0000 UTC"Ugly angle" my foot! Ugly angle would be grainy footage of the outside of your elbow :P I will have more nuanced commentary once I've actually watched but for now I just wanted to offer a counter to self depreciation.
Just some Fish
2023-02-14 07:44:27 +0000 UTCI like the laid back chitchat videos
Oliver Jayawant
2023-02-13 20:13:19 +0000 UTC
