[Tier 3] Stray Kids - One Kid's Room 2024 Ep.06 I.N
Added 2025-03-31 12:00:14 +0000 UTCI.N did I.N. He is special. :D Our baby baguette is all grown up.
Unlike other members, relating to his character feels different because he is so uniquely I.N that it just feels more I.N than anything else XD Happy we learned more about him though. He is such a charming person. :')
Also, the whole 허세 thing is a combination of bluff/show-off/bravado, etc. so it's not just about actually showing off what you have but also about exaggerating and pretending to have something you don't. 아첨 is quite straight forward, referring to someone who always flatters relevant people in your line of work for personal gains, and being late is...well, being late.
Speaking of, what does YOUR order look like? Is there anyone who'd put being late first? Or maybe Flattering type first? Who else has Showoffs as the worst? Let us know :D And we'll see you in the next one with Hyunjin, where search for the most d'some-like member continues! XD
Love <3
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I'm two days late to the conversation, but: my personal order for the three things is buttering up first, boasting second and lateness third, but with the caveat that lateness and boasting would switch in the case of a person who runs late and doesn't communicate vs a person who keeps me updated. This is because what bothers me most about lateness isn't that someone is running behind, particularly if there's a good reason for it, but that I can't get on with anything in the interim if I don't know why they're late or when they're likely to show up. My brain just goes into wait mode, so I can't focus on work or reading or anything, but if I've got an update - even if the update changes to indicate an increased delay - then I can get something done, or, if there's a time pressure to whatever we're doing, make plans to compensate. This is also why, if a friend is reliably late by the same amount of time, then even though it's objectively rude, I cope with it better than if someone is late sporadically by different amounts, because I can factor in their lateness and thus account for it. Buttering up and boasting, by contrast, are both annoying behaviours, but buttering up bothers me more because it actively solicits a response, whereas boasting can just be ignored. Also, being Australian, I tend to find buttering up to be inherently demeaning, not just to the person who's doing it, but to whoever they're doing it to, because it's inherently working to create a difference in hierarchy between the two where one doesn't need to exist. Boasting, by contrast, is unpleasant and annoying, but it also speaks more to insecurity than anything else, and so it often comes across as pitiable, whereas buttering up can feel manipulative.
sysrae
2025-04-03 04:59:09 +0000 UTCI.N., yes, he is so special. Though he is the maknae, he nowadays feels to be so grown up. I mean, he is very sure about his values, his ethics, how you should treat others. While being hard on himself to live according to these values, he can forgive others missteps, but not forget. I think this is also a trade that appeals to Bang Chan, their value systems seem to be the same. This believe in humanitarian values lends him a greatness, a strength, that he seems more grown up than his years suggest.
Ideosycrat
2025-04-01 10:50:04 +0000 UTC
