He already looked pushy before when he insisted for their marriage, this whole "we don't live that long" seems his go-to argument for emotional manipulation, but seems unlike the marriage bit, it's not working for what he wants
Grey Hawk
2024-02-29 16:39:52 +0000 UTC
This is a big discussion point for relationships that should be dealt with before going too far. A "maybe" is one thing, and determining a final yes or no later is acceptable in that particular case, but if it's a hard "no" right from the start and pressure is applied anyway in that direction? That's a serious problem.
Yes, people can change their minds over time, change is normal, but one should NEVER push for that change against a refusal this hard and strong. It's a huge warning sign that one of the parties sees that relationship as one-sided instead of a mutual partnership - even leaving out the abuse Buck's already leveling against Moxy.
Zhon Lord
2024-02-29 10:51:41 +0000 UTC
Oof yeah this one's a deal breaker and one I personally relate to.