Upcoming Patreon, R&P Q&A #235

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Cousin Eddie

Hi guys, new here, something about me and my situation. - 45y old, married 22 years, 2 teenage daughters - pro in financial space, hi earner, wife home + helping me part time with business - fit, but bit overweight, looking OK, womens react at me well - found red pill 2 years before as beta provider par excelance, did all stupid things in process like talking a lot, negotiating desire, doing red pill thing not for me but because I wanted to change her etc. - angry phase mostly behind me, pink googles out of my eyes - after main event - thaks to RP we have sex 2-3 times a week, before it was more like 2-3 times a month, mostly starfish - christian, traditional values, before I was lightning myself to keep other warm almost daily, learned to look for my own interest - finished books = all Rollos, all Brians, Glover Mr. Nice Guy, Smith When I say No, Gaines Woman Deserve Less, Strauss Game, Cooper Unplugged Alpha - books in progress = Buss Why woman have sex, Kay Man Sex Life Primer, Green Laws of Power, Friday My Secret Garden, Garcia Alpha God, Wayne Be a 3% Man - books in backlog = South Practical Female Psychology, Clarey Book of Numbers, Book of Pook ### my goals for now - weekly field reports with focus on internalize concepts of red pill to not need to thing about them but react instictively - learn to differentiate kind of shit tests and go thru them well, read situations like they really are - learn another assertive techniques other than brooken wheel and workable compromise - go bellow 20% body fat - sort my health, testosterone and energy levels (doctor allready booked) - sort it out future, now I am between I dont like her so much anymore and It can work, I can live like this Rian if you can talk a little about how I sort out what is shit test and what is not and how I can react based on my observation. I know you have video about that, I watchted it more times but still I am lost sometimes to sort it out in the middle of situation. Thanks qwe ry.

Been hitting the gym hard and seeing good results. Wife has taken notice and also has noticed the female attention I receive. Specifically, we have new neighbors and the wife is a babe. The neighbor wife and I seemingly have the same workout schedule and the other day she approached me in the gym asking me if I was her neighbor (which I'm confident she knew I was). I told my wife about the interaction and she's become convinced the neighbor is into me. I ignore it usually, but the other day she really got under my skin. This week my wife went to the gym with me and she noticed the neighbor eyeballing me and constantly getting in my "space". I played it aloof, but she noticed and so did I. Later at night my wife screwed my brains out likely due to passive dread. I obviously enjoyed it but the issue is she's still obsessed with the topic. Suggestions for killing the subject without losing cool and losing frame? I enjoy all this female attention but it's starting to cause stress!

A short one: Had some minor illness over the weekend. Effected the endurance of my voice. Went out yesterday. Went to my favorite club/bar. Ever Wednesday karaoke is there. Was standing at a bar talking to the waitress I know very well. Two ckicks and a guy were standing next my and drunk. One of the chicks was bumping into me a few times. I payed no attention. All of the sudden she gave me a tequila shot cause her girlfriend don't wanted to drink it. Started talking to her played my Dj game card. Invited her back for a shot. She wanted my number cause if she ever wants marry she needs a DJ she said. Then wanted to here a song. I knew my collegue wouldn't do that so I made her the offer to sing it with me. We went up to my collegue and gave him the song. Then she inveted my for another drink. Then I made some remark that I sometimes can be mean. Suddenly she accused me of being an arrogant asshole and I would belittle her and make fun of her. I was confused and only replied I have no problem with being an asshole and that she can go if she doesn't want to talk to me. Then she left. She only talked to me once again. When a watched for the waitress at the original bar she asked me if I'm a waiter too. Of course not I only watch the bar. That was tolaly strange. Went home not a lot later cause my voice was shot anyway. Isn't too good today either. Will be fine tomorrow. Update from the chick from a month ago: Haven't met her again since. I don't invest anything in her. Message her ever three days or so for a two or three meassages.

TheSilver Bishop