Get well soon! (Or maybe you are already better now in which case hooray)
As problematic as Olmar is I can't help but sympathize with him. I think a lot of people have felt directionless with the idea that they are supposed to be a big deal. No easy fix for that and everyone handles those feelings differently. His dad probably could have raised him better but his focus was largely on running the farm. So there would be resentment there along with the idea that warriors are cool. Bad recipe.