Gentle boyfriend refuses to rush (m4a)
Added 2024-03-04 05:07:05 +0000 UTCPOV: After a classic first date, your new guy-friend drives you home... and you surprise him by inviting him inside. The slow burn of romantic tension is already palpable, but when you reveal your secret -- that it's your first time -- it only grows. You two end up talking at length about consent, patience, and pleasure. And as you move forward, step by gentle step, it's clear that making you feel safe and supported is his top priority.
CW: This episode portrays sex and romance between a listener character who is sexually and romantically inexperienced and a speaker character who is sexually and romantically experienced. The speaker character takes a guiding & supportive role, asking lots of questions and checking in frequently as the sex scene unfolds.
Note that this content is entirely fictional and all sexual acts are simulated. All characters portrayed are 18+ years of age.

Comments
No but good guess!
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2025-09-21 12:53:00 +0000 UTCWas the movie Transformers? It's about Michael Bay, isn't it?
Kswf
2025-09-21 03:33:21 +0000 UTC" ... the mental image of the sinuous curve that goes down a man's back when he first enters ... " MJ - OMDarling Valentine, come write for me ... I'm dying. Nurse! Fresh panties - stat!
Skeletor
2025-08-23 05:17:23 +0000 UTCYou leveled the background noises of keys jingling, walking on gravel, the rustle of sheets so well with your voice. Like they put me there in the scene, but didn't distract by being too abrasive. Nice story-telling with sound. I actually dozed off in the middle listening to this the first time and was woken up by 46:13 ✨. Which was just so hot and sweet. The consent in this one was sexy as hell, also. Promise I'll listen again for the middle when I'm more awake. *Edit* 20:49 "I liked it when your breath touched my face." Such a nice detail. All the little texture changes of breath from 21:00 - 23:00 - mmpf. 35:43 gave me the mental image of the sinuous curve that goes down a man's back when he first enters, and, mmpf. 35:00ish on, it seems like you got closer to the mic and sounded so soft and breathy. That worked so well for giving the impression of the speaker and listener shifting position and being face to face. 41:14 YES! Ffs, yes. Men and women both get consent. Sorry for yelling. I've had to have that "You know you can say no at any point for any reason and it's okay?" conversation with every partner I've ever had, and I'm still upset about the number of them who were having that conversation for the first time. This one is definitely a dark horse episode. Love it.
MJ
2025-08-08 02:47:33 +0000 UTCSo beautifully done. Just amazing! ❤️
Peter Courtien
2025-02-14 23:06:35 +0000 UTCThere seems to be a stigma about sex on the first date, should you wait? Should you do what you want..? I feel that is should be based on the vibe, the connection, that it can happen naturally, and not just because you're in a bedroom, you're automatically supposed to. If the date was amazing, whether something happens or not but you still had a good time is what should matter... That said, the pace of this felt so natural, authentic, his reassurance of telling 'her' that nothing has to happen if you don't want it to, that he's perfectly fine just talking, even cuddling would be more than enough.. I often wonder if some of your stories are from personal experiences; or your imagination is so well structured to take us on journeys of exploring inhibitions we didn't know we had, or could have ..great story Deepdark 🥰🫦
LaShawn
2025-02-08 15:53:39 +0000 UTCSirrrr 😭 stahppp you cannot be doing this to me right now with my hormones already getting me all emotional 🫠 this was too fuckin sweet and the gentleness was so wholesome I can't 😭💕 my gosh I love this Also, just out of pure curiosity, do you actually have a scar like something similar to the story you told, or was that something you came up with? (I just think scars are cute too so I wanted to know 🥰 I think my heart nearly burst when she kissed it 😍)
Ann Harlow
2025-01-19 03:44:31 +0000 UTCWelcome, Sandra -- I'm glad you did too ✨
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2025-01-05 06:30:33 +0000 UTCOk as someone with a lot of insecurity because of my total lack of experience but the desire of intimacy I am extremely seen in this (minus the dates tho). I appreciate this kind of interactions to be honest, it's kind of... comforting. After a few months listening to the YT versions I am glad I gifted myself a subscription for Christmas 😂
Sandra
2024-12-30 14:58:46 +0000 UTCOkay, I lied -- I guess I *can* take more than one episode in a day! Just revisiting an oldie. Definitely a goodie! I think this one has my favourite finish 🤭
JL
2024-12-09 06:23:35 +0000 UTCThose soft pleas of “please” were something I think I felt deep in my soul❤️ Your care and concern made the whole scenario feel safe and loving. Perfect for a first time.
Becca
2024-12-03 05:52:32 +0000 UTCThanks, SafeScreaming! Glad you're here 💖
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2024-10-30 11:15:39 +0000 UTCThe sfw version on YouTube was what brought me here and I have to say i am 1000% satisfied with my subscription choice. There really is nothing sexier than enthusiastic consent and feeling safe. Bravo, also great voice DDA.
SafeScreaming
2024-10-30 08:08:22 +0000 UTCOk as a ridiculously impatient person, I have not given this one a shot. I am absolutely a rough and tumble kind of gal. But I really need to slow down and let myself enjoy things in general, so here we go. I mean…who better than you to help me keep an open mind? I swear, if I ever end up with a sugar sweet romantic type it will be all your fault.
Naomi
2024-10-02 01:16:57 +0000 UTCI had a similar experience! I clicked into this one just 'cause, then realized how refreshing and healing it was 💝
Olivia Jade
2024-09-11 23:54:36 +0000 UTCThis is officially my new comfort audio, perfect for when I just wanna feel cozy and soft... 💕☁️
Olivia Jade
2024-09-11 23:50:26 +0000 UTCI wish every girl would have such a sweet, loving and caring first time...
blue-eyed white
2024-08-30 23:05:05 +0000 UTCAs a turbo virgin myself, I really really appreciate this character! If more men were like this, the world would be a better place for sure. This is proof that asking for consent and checking in is indeed really sexy. ♥️ Thanks so much for this ✨
AFineCuppaTea
2024-08-25 18:19:28 +0000 UTCThis was like the best thing I’ve listened to, ever. I am melting. 🫠
KittyTheDevil
2024-07-28 04:50:18 +0000 UTCHmm..... Is it Avatar: The Way of Water? Btw, no offense re: Dune. Maybe if I had actually *seen* the film, then I wouldn't have made it my guess. 😜
JL
2024-07-23 23:01:07 +0000 UTCI liked Dune. Guess again 😎
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2024-07-23 10:57:13 +0000 UTCHaha, were you roasting Dune, by any chance? 😉 I really like this one. The speaker is so sweet and considerate. 💕 And the ending! Yowza!!
JL
2024-07-23 06:16:10 +0000 UTCJust recently found your YouTube and got curious. I know for sure that I'm asexual but never considered myself sex-repulsed cause I've got no problem reading all kinds of stuff. And I'm a real big fan of slowburn. Also thank you for mentioning how some people don't like kissing or more. Turns out LISTENING is a whole other thing than just reading and I'll gladly remain a virgin😅 but I'll definitely keep listening to the wholesome SFW parts. Your voice is really so relaxing and nice after stressful work and trouble sleeping, thank you for that🫶🏻☺️
Sirena
2024-07-18 00:29:09 +0000 UTCI needed this, I didn't even know how badly. Had to wipe tears away a few times. A healing and wholesome and somehow also incredibly hot experience. Like being put through an emotional washing machine. Thank you for this, the consent check ins and then the little moans of gratitude left tingles. Worth the sub just for this one
Rain
2024-07-13 20:00:05 +0000 UTCI only discovered your channel on YouTube last night and 2 minutes into the SFW version of this video I knew I had to sign up to Patreon 😍 Absolutely loved this- you are an incredible erotic voice artist!! 🔥🫶🏾
AfroAphrodite
2024-06-10 20:00:39 +0000 UTCWelcome 🥰
Benjamin Phillips
2024-05-31 14:10:27 +0000 UTCNew here ☺️. Already sweating 💧 by just hearing that heavy breathing and whisper. Really like this slow and gentle one 😌 thank you DDA
Ruby
2024-05-31 07:10:37 +0000 UTCGod, I have no words. This was so...hummm *chefs kiss* I definitely loved this one SO much, DD 🔥 Another one that just became a favorite! So perfect on so many levels. Phenomenal, DD 👏🏻🔥♥️
V
2024-05-22 00:35:17 +0000 UTCThis is a forever fave ❤️ As someone who can relate to the listener, this audio makes me feel seen and reassured. The tenderness, emotional intimacy and constant check-ins have me in a chokehold. I'd consider myself winning even if I only experience 2 out of 3 of those things. This was the perfect amount of sweet and sexy. Wholesome but hot AF at the same time.
PurityofThought
2024-05-03 04:30:48 +0000 UTCI really like this character he made me laugh really hard when he started talking about the movie they watched! 🤣 He is so charmingly funny!!! I love him! Great work DDA!!!
SnackBar👅
2024-04-11 14:42:02 +0000 UTCThat was amazing ... romantic ... and hot. I wish my first time had been like that. Oh well. :)
Vala
2024-03-30 01:26:40 +0000 UTCI’m realizing being in the mountains at the time caused this issue 😮💨 beware, peeps!
Cat
2024-03-24 00:26:35 +0000 UTCThank you! Glad you're here ❤️
Benjamin Phillips
2024-03-20 12:02:00 +0000 UTCJust joined after listening to the snippet on youtube and I have to say this audio is the best at portraying an aching, loving first time audio. Its such a sexy audio, great job DDA.
Sierra
2024-03-20 03:19:13 +0000 UTCthis is so intimate that I wanna cry :c I've never liked sex... it's sad to realize that maybe is because I've never been with someone who treated me like this. Thanks, you made me feel safe and happy
gabriela tibaquira
2024-03-14 04:34:16 +0000 UTCAfter getting out of a 4 year relationship with someone who didn’t respect my boundaries I really needed this audio 🫶🫶
Kay Marguerite
2024-03-13 14:26:17 +0000 UTCAwww thank you Caterina ❤️☺️
CaramelSweetness26
2024-03-13 03:38:28 +0000 UTCWelcome ✨💖
Cat
2024-03-13 03:30:50 +0000 UTCHey everyone new to DDA’s patreon. I’m so excited to be here and support this delicious content. This one was the first one I heard and I loved it , it gave me all the feels. Cozy, romantic, consent, check ins and safe sexy fucking ! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💋💋💋
CaramelSweetness26
2024-03-13 03:26:16 +0000 UTCGreenest flag!!! I'm a slut for a slow burn so this is 👌 chef's kiss. Also it's unreal and scary (in a good way) how natural this whole thing feels, especially how the conversation flows?? The things you say? I keep randomly remembering that the scenario isn't real tf
theshrugslife
2024-03-12 09:32:57 +0000 UTCHow in the world can someone be so adorable and so unbelievably hot at the same time like...? Honestly, this is beautiful. The cutest, most loving/hottest, most sexy love making session ever. Great job >.<
Galaxy
2024-03-12 08:51:37 +0000 UTCI always enjoy the “first time” audios, they feel more realistic than others (imo). I THOROUGHLY enjoyed this one😭i also liked how it was the listeners first kiss, and how you mentioned how some people don’t like to kiss or do anything at all for that matter. Made me feel seen, thank you so much for this one! I’ll definitely have it on repeat😅❤️
HotshotBoriqua
2024-03-12 03:31:46 +0000 UTCI listened to this for the second time, and... my god... I don't know if it's because I'm a native French speaker but these words "vice versa" and "répertoire" tangle me so much ✨🦋. Your accent is so pleasant to the ear. Keep up the amazing work! and pleease 🙏, if you could use more words of Latin or French origin, I would really appreciate it ❤️❤️❤️☺️
Magdalena
2024-03-10 17:04:40 +0000 UTCNegative!
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2024-03-10 12:44:54 +0000 UTCThis is so cute and so so romantic🌹🌹
Thena
2024-03-09 01:25:47 +0000 UTCSo my heart feels like I was going steeply uphill on a treadmill for 48+ minutes… like it’s really pounding. I’m gonna to need a warning whether we should expect more slow burn/long uploads like this so I can up my workout routine ASAP otherwise by heart might explode 👿
Cat
2024-03-08 19:52:52 +0000 UTCWhy do I torture myself by listening to this in my shared office? One of my new favs! Thanks DDA!
Emma The Sea Witch
2024-03-08 17:40:01 +0000 UTCListened to this a couple of times now (maybe a little more then a couple) and I've never wanted anything so badly😩 If I don't get this kind of love, patience a softness, I'll stay like I am for the rest of my life😂 besides, who needs a boyfriend anywas, when we have DDAs voice in our erars and "tools" to help us out.🫠
The queen of darkness
2024-03-08 14:13:15 +0000 UTCThis is so unrealistic n bizzare..n I cn never imagine anyone doing this...do it again...💗
Nandita
2024-03-08 06:14:38 +0000 UTCHeh! "POV: You (sexy, skittish horse)..."
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2024-03-08 01:27:26 +0000 UTCSweet and lovely. Perfect!
Geek Girl
2024-03-07 19:57:58 +0000 UTCOn one hand, I do not relate to this listener at all, to the extent that upon learning “I” have never kissed anyone before I literally laughed and said something filthy and disbelieving out loud. On the other hand, turns out I like being treated like some sort of sexy, skittish horse.
Fera
2024-03-07 13:54:09 +0000 UTCThank you, Sarah ❤️
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2024-03-07 03:19:17 +0000 UTCthis is who i want
Kayla
2024-03-06 21:35:14 +0000 UTCA gentle DDA always make me tear up for some reason 🥲 it warms my heart.
YuumiSnow
2024-03-06 11:08:55 +0000 UTCLove very much <3
Michiii
2024-03-06 06:31:38 +0000 UTCWhat a sweet and healthy story to listen to before falling asleep. ❤️❤️❤️ I liked the dynamic between the two characters. My big day of work tomorrow thanks you in advance! 😌💤
Magdalena
2024-03-06 04:19:20 +0000 UTCLate to the audio- I finally have time to myself to kick back and listen. What a treat fr, I love a good slow burn 🖤🖤🖤
Mina Bee
2024-03-06 01:32:34 +0000 UTCas someone who IS actually a virgin and inexperienced romantically, MUCH MUCH MUCH APPRECIATED 🩷 seriously, the inclusivity of going slow is so good!! plus, extremely hot 😌 LOL THANK YOU 🫶 and goddamn, a whole 48 minutes? JESUS, best VA award goes to you 🥇
𝓈𝒶𝓇𝒶𝒽 🌷
2024-03-05 14:27:38 +0000 UTCBinural ❤️ audio would intensify 🔥 your work. I think that your voice in our ears.... oh yes Daddy! I'll be a good girl 🥵😍 💖
Mooki
2024-03-05 12:57:41 +0000 UTCI've thought about it! There'd be a learning curve but it'd be fun for sure.
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2024-03-05 09:57:37 +0000 UTCOk, here's my guess: Wes Anderson's French Dispatch.
saurus
2024-03-05 09:15:22 +0000 UTC🫠 so good! A quick question from a recent subscriber, have you ever considered dual audio mics? Then you could make is feel like you are leaning in and like whispering directly into one ear…
Diabolikupcake
2024-03-05 08:52:21 +0000 UTCDamn, this one hit harder than expected. As a person whose first intimate relationship was with someone that constantly pushed back those boundaries and lines of consent, the first half made me want to tear up. Ngl , but in a good, healing way, thank you! Came for the smut, stayed for the therapy session
Kat
2024-03-05 07:03:40 +0000 UTCDefinitely one of the best ones you've ever done. The slow burn hit just right.
Kayla
2024-03-05 05:08:41 +0000 UTCThank you don dark I'll be ok 🥹🥲❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
Doña Yayi
2024-03-05 04:08:06 +0000 UTCHaha it's not F&F, that's all I'll say
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2024-03-05 03:02:03 +0000 UTCIt's not Bay 😏
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2024-03-05 03:01:25 +0000 UTCAnother masterpiece ❤️❤️❤️🔥
IntoTheWild
2024-03-05 02:09:39 +0000 UTCThere is NOTHING hotter, than someone respecting your boundaries ❤️
Danka42
2024-03-05 00:57:13 +0000 UTCSo sorry it's been a rough spell, Doña -- I hope it passes very soon 🖤
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2024-03-05 00:46:14 +0000 UTC🫠 Please make more of these. You made that perfectly. (Blushing hard and looking down as I write this. Listening again.) My first two comments stand even more now that I realized I passed out halfway through the first time (Blushing harder out of embarrassment and shyness - Take that as a compliment your coice makes me that comfortable.) not realizing it and woke up imagining continuations of what might happen if it kept going...Second time through it continued better than I thought...Blushing harder.
MeridianSkye
2024-03-04 23:22:18 +0000 UTCThis is exactly what I have been looking for. It touched a part in me I've worked hard to seal of. There's a lot I could say about this one, but it would be to much. This audio is now my new all time favourite. Thank you, DDA. It was an amazing and absolute perfection👌🫶🥲
The queen of darkness
2024-03-04 22:06:17 +0000 UTCWoof — someone is feeling some type of way about a director. Hate to be that guy 😅 But in all seriousness you have quite the range of content on here which just shows how incredibly talented and versatile you are! This is an audio I didn’t know I needed but is very special to me ❤️
Jennifer Lopez
2024-03-04 18:38:54 +0000 UTCHe absolutely has the best. 😩💜
Pam 701
2024-03-04 18:34:49 +0000 UTCSometimes the greatest intimacy is the meeting between two minds. Thank you so much for such compassionate, erotic art
Jenima
2024-03-04 18:33:58 +0000 UTCHoly moly, this one is soooo slooooow and sensual, it drove me crazy (in a good way). The repeated checking in is so considerate and loving. All of your audios are incredibly good! Thanks, DDA! ❤️🥵🔥🥵❤️
Pam 701
2024-03-04 18:32:09 +0000 UTCThis was lovely 💕
IndyMndy
2024-03-04 18:18:02 +0000 UTCthis was so wholesome and so wonderful sexy, you did such an amazingly wonderful job, I'm so happy :'D
Queen Zelda
2024-03-04 18:06:24 +0000 UTCScars are a mark of a moment someone has been brave and beauty still shines threw inside out the person therfore no judgement should be made ❤❤
Cutie09💓
2024-03-04 17:35:28 +0000 UTCOMG ❤ ❤❤❤DDA YOUR A GOD HONESTLY BEING SO GENTLE AND SWEET TAKING STEP BY STEP OMG ITS BEYOND BEAUTIFUL EMPOWERING AND SCORCHING HOT 🔥 🥵 😍 💖 💕 ❤ YOU TRULY ARE A MASTER DDA WHEN COMES SEX EXPERIENCE ❤ ♥ JUST HOME SO I JUST GOT TOO LISTEN ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS 😍 I WISH THERE MORE SWEET CARING GUYS LIKE YOU 😊🧡❤
Cutie09💓
2024-03-04 17:19:24 +0000 UTCYou are so amazing DDA. Your gentle and patient approach in this one was really empowering and super hot!!
Jheni B.
2024-03-04 17:00:11 +0000 UTCI was thinking the same thing like thats way too specific 💀
fulminare
2024-03-04 15:48:40 +0000 UTCThat scar story was oddly specific, I feel like this really happened😂
Kanna Rose
2024-03-04 15:39:53 +0000 UTCWow. Ngl I wish my first time would been as understanding and loving as this. Thank you for this amazing audio
Mooki
2024-03-04 13:22:09 +0000 UTCI love this 🥹. I wish all guys were like this. Who didn’t mind waiting.
TheSweetForever
2024-03-04 12:19:36 +0000 UTCdid we go see a Michael Bay film? the description in the opener leads me to believe so😄
Ash
2024-03-04 09:19:28 +0000 UTCYet again you've read my mind and managed to nail the exact kinda thing I'm into 😭💕
weaseltongue
2024-03-04 08:07:09 +0000 UTCThe tenderness, the attention, the reassurance and constant monitoring of feelings? My god. It’s both incredibly precious and incredibly alluring all at once. 🥺
Bunnybear 🎀
2024-03-04 07:35:33 +0000 UTCOkay but like, new goal discovered 😍
Shelby
2024-03-04 07:27:12 +0000 UTCThe way I’m listening to this in my Uber and trying not to squeal! I couldn’t wait till I got home!
Khy
2024-03-04 07:25:50 +0000 UTCThat's okay girl. You have these audios till you find the right guy. 😊
Sugar and Spice
2024-03-04 07:05:23 +0000 UTCI stayed up late to listen to this audio and it was worth it. 🫠 The excruciating slow pace was sooo good. I felt my heart race almost throughout the entire audio. The playfulness, laughing, and check ins made it feel like these characters had a well established friendship before dating. Characters out here living my slow burn romance fantasy. Can't wait till the next update!❤️
Sugar and Spice
2024-03-04 07:03:37 +0000 UTCMore jokes! “Oh your bed, let’s stretch out” as if he doesn’t know. Conversation about a, let’s call it what it was, Fast and the Furious movie (my guess), as if we aren’t trying to make something happen. Cause this man was 100% invited in just to stretch and talk movies. The jokes!
Cevchat
2024-03-04 06:45:53 +0000 UTCI was not expecting this to touch my heart as much as it did. I don’t even know what to say. The check ins and everything. This is truly a beautiful audio DDA 🫂🩷
aevis
2024-03-04 06:36:38 +0000 UTCthis is so me
amani!
2024-03-04 06:31:43 +0000 UTCwhat is it finna play? ... WOAAH
Pebbles
2024-03-04 06:24:46 +0000 UTC“You’re so wet on my cock” SIR IM GOING TO FAINT 🗣️‼️
fulminare
2024-03-04 06:13:36 +0000 UTClea
2024-03-04 06:07:48 +0000 UTCFinally one NOT during work hours 🤣 Thank you for your content always! 💟
Angelie⁷
2024-03-04 05:49:23 +0000 UTCGet of my bed with ur outside pants! I'm 3min in
Dakoteh
2024-03-04 05:26:25 +0000 UTCAww I hope you feel comfort throughout the next month.❤️ Your comments are the best here. 😊
Sugar and Spice
2024-03-04 05:23:47 +0000 UTCIve been feelin so alone and blue these few days. So sad and even lethargic. Dificult times are approaching and especially next month. Well i see this notification and i am ready to have my heart caressed and other places and hopefully the sad memories that plague my thoughts and hurt my heart will go away. Ive mourned for such a long time. Don dark ❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 you are awesome and even if i havent hewrd this wonderful audio yet i know this will be 🤌💋❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Doña Yayi
2024-03-04 05:16:48 +0000 UTC48 min! we have been blessed ladies and gentlemen 😩
Thalia Ramos
2024-03-04 05:16:42 +0000 UTC48mins😵omggg
Lexx
2024-03-04 05:15:51 +0000 UTCHehe I was listening to the janitor audio when the notification came in. I think I'll save this one for tomorrow. As sexy as your voice is, it is still past midnight and I am still sick.
Mandi
2024-03-04 05:14:47 +0000 UTCHonestly though, was thinking of if you ever did this kind of audio, and then it appears.
Khloi Otaku
2024-03-04 05:14:25 +0000 UTCA dream that hasn't come true for me, a 24 year old virgin 😅 Never found the right guy sadly
Khloi Otaku
2024-03-04 05:13:11 +0000 UTCI love how you always release these right as I’m figuring out what to listen to as I go to sleep. You’re a real pal for that 🖤
Backie Jurkhart
2024-03-04 05:11:53 +0000 UTCI was working on my college assignment butttt I think I’ll pause that (≧◡≦) ♡
Lauren ♡
2024-03-04 05:11:05 +0000 UTComg it’s a long one i’m so excited
amani!
2024-03-04 05:10:25 +0000 UTCperfect for a night after a long, shitty day at work ❤️❤️
fulminare
2024-03-04 05:09:15 +0000 UTCPerfect midnight treat hehe thank you 🤭🩷
Mel
2024-03-04 05:08:48 +0000 UTCYes I ran when the notification rang! No judgment…
Tiffy
2024-03-04 05:08:20 +0000 UTC