The Eternal Question: Sub or Dom?
Added 2023-08-05 16:23:26 +0000 UTCHappy Saturday, angels! Do you prefer submissive or dominant boyfriend episodes?
Don't worry – I'll definitely keep making both types of content, as both sides have ardent fans. But I'm very curious about your respective numbers. So please cast your votes and make yourselves known ✨
PS: For my Agate tier supporters and above, your monthly Spotify playlist is coming soon. Check your DMs!
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I second that 🙋🏼♀️ stoner boy is my favorite of all my favorites!
Thatgirlemerald
2023-09-29 07:36:13 +0000 UTCSubby , boyfriend DDA is so endearing… and its so hot to imagine domming you and u liking it tbh.. plus you just have that golden retriever boyfriend type of vibe ( for me ).. but with dom DDA I pretty much stop dead in my tracks and become a complete slave to you, want you in every hole, babies, multiple orgasms, rolling around everywhere, etc. 😁😁🌞💗👏🏻👏🏻
Stupid vein person
2023-09-28 23:04:18 +0000 UTCdon't care i just want stoner boy part 2
Addie Maureen
2023-09-19 01:13:57 +0000 UTCIt’s not the eternal question but I get where you’re going I know you want to reach the most listeners but I am looking for something to break barriers. Rooting for you 😛
deletedcomment
2023-08-12 02:19:40 +0000 UTCI wanna be selfish and not share with tons more people **pouts** but that’s not right, I’m being such a brat *sighs*
Myst Me
2023-08-10 14:05:44 +0000 UTCSomething about you angry turns me on idk lol 🤷🏻♀️ I like dominant 😈
Frances Anderson
2023-08-09 18:21:52 +0000 UTCWell looks like I got an answer to my question ☺️☺️ Fuck. Afterglow is *real* omg, thank you for reading our requests lol
Myst Me
2023-08-08 18:36:55 +0000 UTCSubby all the way!!
Sonny
2023-08-08 06:48:40 +0000 UTCI like dom to a certain degree, sometimes I have to tap out because some things trigger me in a bad way and I end up never finishing the audio. I really liked the robot companion one you did recently and I felt like that hit the sweet spot for me, demanding but in a polite way, and asking for consent gives me goosebumps so I really liked that vein of Dom content. I also really enjoy the soft stuff you do, especially on days where I have a very large cathartic cry lmaoo
Madz
2023-08-07 02:05:53 +0000 UTCAbsolutely!!
Laure
2023-08-06 19:54:14 +0000 UTCOh you evil! Eating the French fries 😱🤭
Myst Me
2023-08-06 16:55:17 +0000 UTCI prefer dom but the way you do sub makes me feel like I could be that b*tch
Ellie
2023-08-06 15:37:35 +0000 UTCBoth pls even though i kidda like subby a bit more
Thena
2023-08-06 13:36:34 +0000 UTCnot complain when I eat from all the packets of fries when i'm in charge of them on the way home.
Laeay
2023-08-06 07:17:39 +0000 UTCI think I def prefer dommy dda (cause I'm a sub lol), but I have enjoyed the subby audios! I also like the other non d/s content a lot!! Honestly, all of your audios are super creative; it's rare that I like every audio a creator puts out!
RaeJoi.art
2023-08-06 04:36:29 +0000 UTCBASED.
Zie
2023-08-06 04:21:56 +0000 UTC@Shelly alright, understandable, its just i thought too its odd to be just purely coincidence same name and stuff, welp same, i love vox too hehe
Zie
2023-08-06 04:21:29 +0000 UTCYes, huge turn on. Or they can just rub my feet, too 😉
Myst Me
2023-08-06 04:19:53 +0000 UTCSo what is daddy going to do with the results of this poll?? 🙃
Myst Me
2023-08-06 04:19:05 +0000 UTCI agree with those of you who are not really into the super rough degrading stuff. This is one of the many reasons I love DDA’s audios. I would highly recommend BoyfriendAudio also. 😊
Pam 701
2023-08-06 04:07:32 +0000 UTCVox is awesome - big fan here too!
Pam 701
2023-08-06 03:59:23 +0000 UTCYes chef 🤣🤣
Laeay
2023-08-06 03:40:19 +0000 UTCI find that many men disguise themselves as dominant but really just want to hurt women. This is why I can't get into the degrading stuff.
Laeay
2023-08-06 02:34:47 +0000 UTCControversial opinion but I found your most recent sub content to be more soft Dom. Which is why I loved them so much. A man who tells you what he wants to do to you but also gets on his knees and begs.... fuck.
Laeay
2023-08-06 02:33:55 +0000 UTCI like both but the subby audios are some of my faves
SilentNicky
2023-08-06 01:44:44 +0000 UTCYes!
Frances Anderson
2023-08-05 23:57:12 +0000 UTCOh I totally know why that get you off - same reason it did me - I know EXACTLY what I’m about to get. And DAMM somehow that belt and zipper had an audible weight and sounded heavy which really translated 😉
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2023-08-05 23:29:54 +0000 UTC@Shelly! Omg you *must* be psychic cause I was just thinking of those belt sounds and unzipping zipper sounds on the way home from work 🤭🥵 😂 I don’t know why but ugh, they get me off!
Myst Me
2023-08-05 23:18:30 +0000 UTCYeah me too. Definitely dominant. There's no contest for me.
Kiara
2023-08-05 22:04:43 +0000 UTCBestie!!
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2023-08-05 21:49:22 +0000 UTC@Myst Me whaaaat. I’m not even sorry - when listening to audio the specific language is so key. But when Matthew was good he was sooo good. To be fair (@ me if you get the reference) he could take you to a somewhat dirty place but bring it back to being your best loving boyfriend so quick ugh he walked that fine line and he had incredible sounds especially the belt. Holy moly. @Myst Me I feel like we would be besties
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2023-08-05 21:48:09 +0000 UTC@Shelly~ grrrlll, I love Matthew (Auralescent), I wanna say he was one of the first asmr artists I stumbled upon!! Ahhh!! Girl, I’m sorry but I’m with you on same boat with me preferring female specific language to get really into it, but yeah I get it. We are so on the same wavelength. I’m totally introverted, too. 🥰🥰
Myst Me
2023-08-05 21:41:57 +0000 UTCYes 1000000%
Cel Ishtar
2023-08-05 21:35:37 +0000 UTCAll I hear is we need a part 3!! 👏👏💫
Myst Me
2023-08-05 21:34:20 +0000 UTCYesss JYMMA! I’m on the verge here. I don’t blame DDA for giving his listeners what they want or shaming others for what they want but I am struggling to detach when I love the voice so much. I am trying to focus on the few audios that somewhat fit me. Please let me know if you have a creator that i should check out.
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2023-08-05 21:29:25 +0000 UTCI lean a little bit more towards Dom, but there's just something about a man begging and whimpering that does it for me too, so it's kind of like 51% one way, 49% the other. I just can't stand abusive or toxic dynamics, anything else is pretty good though, especially from you.
JYMMA
2023-08-05 21:23:27 +0000 UTCI've literally stopped supporting creators when I found out they had lots of degradation, or portrayed the listener as a child, or dehumanized/abused the listener. I can't stand it and I try really hard not to kink shame, but it's honestly kind of gross.
JYMMA
2023-08-05 21:22:01 +0000 UTCFR!!!
Noa
2023-08-05 21:12:23 +0000 UTCthere is NOTHING like the subby audios fr. You’re doing it sooo well bc you have such a dominant and masculine voice and when you make a subby audio there’s this contrast that i LOVE
Noa
2023-08-05 21:12:11 +0000 UTC@Zie my curiosity is peaked. I wish I knew who you were / what you were talking about
deletedcomment
2023-08-05 21:05:50 +0000 UTCDon’t get me wrong here, I’m a sucker for subby DDA, but the line “You understand? …Good baby” has me 🫠
Sim
2023-08-05 21:05:12 +0000 UTCI’ll step out of my deep lurking listener hole to comment for this. I am weak for dom. But the priest series got me here. So take that how you will
Cel Ishtar
2023-08-05 21:02:19 +0000 UTCNo I’m sorry to say. I’m not a vtuber and only follow occasionally. I really like Vox Akuma for his voice
deletedcomment
2023-08-05 20:30:09 +0000 UTCCompletely going off on a galactic level connection @Myst Me ! I never subscribed to patreon before DDA but there is this creator Auralescent that managed to seem dirty but respectful/worshipful and gave that true bf experience but he isn’t active anymore (I discovered way after the fact). I may get canceled for this, but he also went so far to the ‘for all’ content that I couldn’t follow. I really like that female specific language to get to the “grand finale” *blush*. To each their own of course! And the parasocial aspect is a definite concern. Even considering myself a rational adult I struggle which is why I understand I can’t separate sex from feelings particularly as a female but what to do when chronically single?! It seems like a lesser evil to consume this fantasy content than to go out in the real world and engage in risky behavior. I feel you on the not being able to talk to people. I still (even behind a screen )struggle to converse sometimes! I am a completely shy introvert and participate (if only audibly) in things I could never irl.
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2023-08-05 20:26:07 +0000 UTCYyaaassss
Zie
2023-08-05 20:07:59 +0000 UTC@Shelly, now that you’ve mentioned vtubers, your name is very familiar to me… but i dont wanna assume… by chance, do u think u recognize me? Lol
Zie
2023-08-05 20:06:19 +0000 UTC@Shelly~ yasss girl! Totally agree with what you’re spitting. Yes, I also did think if me being a subscriber (ok I’m referring to a different creator for this 1 example) for certain content made me sort of the problem, but selfishly (for my stand point) I decided I can’t worry about everyone & I’m not their parent & I choose what I consume. Yes, sometimes I have to realize I’m one of many of DDA’s fans cause parasocial relationships (especially for me sometimes) can be heart breaking. Btw I’m so glad to be able to interact with you about this! I mean no one knows I listen to bf role play asmr so I don’t have anyone to converse with…
Myst Me
2023-08-05 20:04:34 +0000 UTCPouring one out for us 1%ers rn. 💀 we will find our place eventually 🙏
deletedcomment
2023-08-05 19:52:45 +0000 UTCI like both, whichever one you do I enjoy. Normally with a few ASMR peeps I follow they are stronger in just one, but I find you are great at both along with your writing really selling whichever you are doing. (I would love a audio with a few mommy's thrown in thou please :3 )
EriksBlue
2023-08-05 19:51:20 +0000 UTCThat is awesome and I will NOT ignore your plushies and shirts. I applaud it lol. I miss the days when people felt ok to be different and not all alike and we all still could vibe in a group. I feel like the 90s was a bit of a golden era for that. We have gone so far off the rails now. *Showing my age*
deletedcomment
2023-08-05 19:50:58 +0000 UTCFacts!!!! I am a generation before total internet and sometimes it’s even hard for me to remember this doesn’t represent total reality and I worry we are making girls feel like they have to totally degrade themselves to be passionate and hot and not realize that even if it is a Roleplay you both agree to and once it’s over there is a different dynamic. Are we part of the problem? So many aspects to consider. And you are right, I think DDA tries to walk the line. At the end of the day, he is trying to please the larger number of subscribers. I feel like we just vibed on this topic 🤍
deletedcomment
2023-08-05 19:39:39 +0000 UTC@Shelly, actually I just really like the word “mystical” & “mystique” because you know goth. (Covers face and blush!!) but that phase of my life is over. I’m a normie!! (Pls ignore my many plushies and anime shirts)
Myst Me
2023-08-05 19:37:27 +0000 UTCActually I kinda did a deep think about this, I mean it seems like allot of asmr on YouTube really normalize degradation (and yes I realize it’s a fantasy role play), but I do worry for younger people who might think “everyone” is doing it and go beyond what they feel comfortable. So anyways, that’s why I really like deep dark cause he’s respectful and so many of his audios he asks if he can do something before hand and idk, something about his voice sounds really sincere (or it could be you know, good acting 😝)
Myst Me
2023-08-05 19:34:12 +0000 UTCEvery time I see your name I think of the Vtuber Mysta Rias…is this related or am I reaching??
deletedcomment
2023-08-05 19:14:05 +0000 UTCLet’s start a petition lol. Nice to know I’m not alone after all!
deletedcomment
2023-08-05 18:59:57 +0000 UTCSub sub sub!!!!!
Amy
2023-08-05 18:56:24 +0000 UTC😩 yes
theshrugslife
2023-08-05 18:55:02 +0000 UTCI support this movement too bestie 💜
theshrugslife
2023-08-05 18:54:24 +0000 UTCI am a switch but I am definitely team subby DDA. There are so many audios of Sub!Listener but not many for Dom!Listener, and your sub content really satisfied something that I've been missing in BF style audios. Of course I'll take literally anything you put out, but that's my opinion on the matter! 😊
Lakora
2023-08-05 18:49:04 +0000 UTCI swear?! I feel like so damn old fashioned these days. Everyone wants to be choked and degraded and I’m like a teeny bit of rough or dominant is good,but after that you lose me. I don’t want to feel straight filthy but I get shafted (no pun intended) on content. I would love to find some content more in my taste. I do keep coming back for DDAs voice but at some point it spoils the experience to feel too beyond my comfort level
deletedcomment
2023-08-05 18:35:14 +0000 UTC2 switches locked in a passion fuelled battle royal for dominance? That might just be my lifes story, but it's a good time 😘
Rag Doll
2023-08-05 18:35:08 +0000 UTCTbh your subby audios are what got me to finally decide to make you my first creator to be a patron to, but it’s still very dependent on what current mood im in so it’s definitely best to have a good balance of both. Like say, you just upload a dom DDA, then the next one could be sub DDA or if you uploaded two dom DDA’s then the next ones can also be two sub DDA— good balance. Like fr a balance is good but either way, I’m sure I’ll still love all of them 🥰💕
Zie
2023-08-05 18:34:41 +0000 UTCDefinitely dominant def love when my husband does dominant things for me. Or tells me to do things without saying please. Makes me feral lol 😂
Frances Anderson
2023-08-05 18:34:31 +0000 UTCVanilla sex & intimacy is the best tho ❤️🔥❤️❤️🔥
Myst Me
2023-08-05 18:31:56 +0000 UTCI guess I’m vanilla but I just want intimacy and some hot sex but not with anything that’s going to make me feel degraded. I listen because your voice and acting can do things to me even when I may not want it to. I mean there is a fine line to be walked there, but for me I am just about the m4f boyfriend sexy times and making me feel those things makes me crazy. Of course I’m constantly outnumbered here. Sadge
deletedcomment
2023-08-05 18:18:31 +0000 UTC^Yes to pent-up, can't control myself stuff :'(
theshrugslife
2023-08-05 18:06:52 +0000 UTCAs a switch who likes both I'm here to say I'll have whatever you cook up chef 🍽️
theshrugslife
2023-08-05 18:06:08 +0000 UTCSubby or pleasure Dom!!!
timberlace
2023-08-05 18:06:00 +0000 UTCMost of the time I prefer the dom audios, but when you throw a sub one in once in a while, holy crap! I particularly like a dom character being restrained and teased, and to their surprise, really liking it. That is SO hot! Even better is when a dom character is restrained, but after a good amount of teasing can’t take it anymore and manages to break free and flip the situation. OK, is it getting hot in here? Whatever you do DDA, I am here for it! ❤️🥰❤️
Pam 701
2023-08-05 18:04:04 +0000 UTC@Chiara, omg not a single sub??? Puh~lease listen to : “ letting your subby boyfriend fix your mood” rn! You will listen on repeat! (I’m telling on myself lol)
Myst Me
2023-08-05 17:36:03 +0000 UTCI prefer the situational ones that could go either or both. Specifically when he holds himself in check and then just can't anymore. But maybe he takes charge, maybe he does what he's told, or he asks/tries and maybe we agree, maybe we don't.
Marie Clark
2023-08-05 17:33:00 +0000 UTCYaasss!! 👏👏
Myst Me
2023-08-05 17:32:01 +0000 UTCCan't choose one or the other. I like both dom and sub don dark!!!!!! You are sexy in both roles!!!! And i really do enjoy alot of your sub audios it does things to me. I am a dom so i like to imagine all the things i would do, all the yummy punishments I would throw your way before i reward you in the most exquisite ways 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 . When i listen to your dom ones i imagine myself submitting to you ready to take my sweet punishment until im rewarded. I normally do not submit but holy gawds a man with such a delicious voice i wouldn’t mind submitting and listen to every command!!!!! Keep doin both dom and sub don dark you are amazing in both roles 🤌💋❤️🔥👏👏👏👏👏
Doña Yayi
2023-08-05 17:31:51 +0000 UTCIt is great to have variety. It would also be wonderful to have some where the woman takes the lead (not necessarily in an overtly dominant way). It’s also swell to hear pet names other than ‘baby’ and ‘girl’
Jenima
2023-08-05 17:30:59 +0000 UTCthe dom ones are *definitely* my favorite above all. there are still some enjoyable parts in the sub ones, though! I just can't rly get into them bc I can't at all relate. like I cannot function in the dom position. doesn't rly help when I immediately melt under any mildy intimate physical contact (even so much as a kiss on the lips) either lol? gonna be honest, feeling a bit like the character in your last audio... minus the helpful friend part RIP💀💀
Pidgeon
2023-08-05 17:29:59 +0000 UTCI like the one where me made out best friend beg. Just more begging audios in general.
xiPastel
2023-08-05 17:17:07 +0000 UTCYeah its my most listened to audio.. im not even religious but thinking about making someone go against their beliefs is satisfying 😅
xiPastel
2023-08-05 17:16:02 +0000 UTCI'm so sub that I didn't even listen to a single sub one yet, but maybe I should try out of curiosity.
Kiara
2023-08-05 17:03:21 +0000 UTCI prefer dom, I’m a sub so yeah… but your sub audios do hit different, honestly I’m quite surprised by how much I like your sub audios, hearing you beg is like 💗💫💗. {I think for me personally my main point of contention with many asmr role plays is degradation. (I *don’t* want to knock anyone’s kink right now) Especially when there isn’t a warning! I can take a little bit but then I get triggered. So I really appreciate how most of your role plays don’t have it. Sorry that was a bit of a tangent.} but yeah, pretty much everything you do is awesome, sub or dom 🥰
Myst Me
2023-08-05 16:51:20 +0000 UTCMy full vote goes to the voice.
Kiara
2023-08-05 16:50:28 +0000 UTCLol, I go with your vote 😁
Myst Me
2023-08-05 16:47:39 +0000 UTCI like the priest serie
Vanessa Ribeiro de Freitas
2023-08-05 16:45:01 +0000 UTCI agree with sugarcookieprincess
Evann Daigle
2023-08-05 16:44:20 +0000 UTCAbsolutely weak for the Dominant content. Though I think we’d all take you any way we can get you.
LittleMai
2023-08-05 16:42:43 +0000 UTChearing someone so deep voiced be submissive is literally the best 🩷
sugarcookieprincess
2023-08-05 16:41:49 +0000 UTCI’m all about the Dom. Yandere is my absolute favourite 😻
Lyn Whiting
2023-08-05 16:40:08 +0000 UTCI love both, but I really love when you use "The voice" in dom and, sub DDA is just the cutest
Jordy Kassie Winchester
2023-08-05 16:37:09 +0000 UTCLike 75/25 dom vs sub.
Amandroid
2023-08-05 16:30:43 +0000 UTCDom, but making them beg on occasions is fun. 😘
freakingMIAowt
2023-08-05 16:28:32 +0000 UTCI love both equally but there is something different about the sub audios. Never thought I’d be into that until I started listening to your audios. Love them.
TheSweetForever
2023-08-05 16:25:11 +0000 UTCI love all your audios❤️
Aiza
2023-08-05 16:24:04 +0000 UTC
