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Dong Drama Report: Twisted Fantasies and The Bottle [SFW]

Trigger Warning: Discussions of abuse regarding the Depp/Heard case and in general.

Link to the Tweet with the Product HERE 

Link the the Tweet with the Apology HERE 

So, a shop dropped a new model and the model marketing is #notgreat. I wanted to talk about it cause it.... opened the door, so to speak (That's a legal joke, I'm fucking hilarious), to talk about the parts of the recent case that have left me bothered in the aftermath. 

I feel like this is a discussion on.... optics, intention, art, spicy social issues, accountability and how we interact with them. Theres more in here; It's very much a rambly wander through the woods of "What the fuck is this?" and me wanting to talk about how men arent encouraged enough to come forward when they experience abuse and how its a massive disservice to everyone. I kind of got lost in the weeds a bit.... come along?  

I feel like I came away from my thoughts here with more questions regarding problematic content.... which is a topic that is close to my heart for personal reasons *gestures at her small little bubble of filth that we are all sitting in*.

I also feel like.... a lot of stuff that happens in the Fantasy Dong niche isn't always super well documented or easy to find and this is just one take on what has happened here. 

Because this is a moral issue rather than a quality issue, I cant really say "Dont Buy This, Its Not Safe" but.... the attitude that drove the design doesn't feel very safe. Shop at you own discretion, I think. That's the one power the consumer has in Capitalism, and there are so many great shops. Again, Howling Horrors handled their oopsie in a really graceful way, so, it can be done. Why not support shops that are creating positivity rather than one that puts out something with such.... cruelty behind it? 

Just... how unfortunate.... 

Dong Drama Report: Twisted Fantasies and The Bottle [SFW]

Comments

I hope you are never in that situation again man. You deserve someone kind and loving.

Vilicious

I'm so sorry you had to go through that, Flex. Thats kind of the exact thing Im talking about where, yeah, that's straight up wrong. Im so happy to hear you are out of it now and that other person was so wrong. I hear a lot of arguments that minimize the shit guys go through in abuse situations cause of some non-existent "gender war". How about, just don't hit people? That's an okay answer, right? Unless they ask for it, of course. Play safe, consent is the fun maker.

Bits

I completely agree with you on acknowledging abuse. When I was with my ex I chalked up being hit, threatened and screamed at as just things women just did when they're mad. Later after I told someone and they said I was abused I didn't and still have trouble recognizing and accepting it. On Twisted, they needs to stop smoking whatever they smoking and realize reddit karma≠sales.

FatGuyFlex


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