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[F4M] [F4A] Why Boys are Scary
Added 2021-10-04 15:01:02 +0000 UTCSo, a lifetime ago, I received a DM regarding something I said in my Dicks Vs Dildos audio; Specifically, that men are.. uh... kind of scary? Sometimes?
The DM was asking, how does someone of a male persuasion NOT come off as scary, and, I thought it was kind of worth rambling on? I can definitely get myself into trouble with that topic.
Thinking about considerate people gets me really hot and bothered... Helping people become more considerate makes me happy...
I did break this one up so all the talk is at the front and all the getting off is at the end. I don't want to make this a habit cause I'm lazy but HERE IS MY SOURCE ON EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE if you want to read more on the topic from a better source than a slut on the internet.
Ultimately, the answer to the question is complex, cause people are complex, go figure haha.
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I know it might be hard to believe, but Im also a pretty awkward introvert. Figuring out my confidence was all about *me* and how I carried myself has had a huge improvement on how I feel around people. Im so glad I could help! 💜
Bits
2021-10-06 19:41:18 +0000 UTCThanks for this, being an awkward introvert can make it hard to talk to people. So I needed this pep talk lol
Argon Coldfire
2021-10-06 19:25:01 +0000 UTC😳 I *do* like helping people... Do you think I could still get off tho? Thats like... a really fun part for me haha.
Bits
2021-10-05 19:51:21 +0000 UTCSo, I suppose I like to hit *that* point specifically so *I* don't forget what I'm here to do. Hahaha. I'm so happy that my thoughts are well received, but I would feel horrible if someone took my words the wrong way; I like to remind people to not take me *too* seriously. I'm just one lady after all. I cannot say enough good things about the Captain! She's so thoughtful and considerate with her answers... I've even written into her a long while ago and her advice is always so solidly grounded in common sense and like... being fair to people while being fair to yourself first, which I think is really important.
Bits
2021-10-05 19:49:59 +0000 UTCWhen are you starting your podcast? HealthyClicksHelfulbits.
ITZ
2021-10-05 18:48:25 +0000 UTCI can call you a dumb slut if you want*, but the truth is that you are super insightful. And even if you weren't, you are sharing your experience, which is valuable on its own. I checked that captain awkward blog, it looks like an amazing place for my socially anxious ass, thanks a lot for the discovery! *Ok, maybe at the point by the end were you fucked your train of thought away we could call you a dumb slut, hahaha.
Que (formerly known as tbd545)
2021-10-04 21:37:01 +0000 UTC
