FINDOM: DO’S AND DONT’S
Added 2020-05-20 14:29:32 +0000 UTCDO:
1. Communicate effectively with finsubs to let them know your financial expectations
2. Always have your payment methods easily accessible, especially for silent tributes
3. Post tributes that you get here and there; this sometimes encourages others finsubs to tribute
4. Write up debt contracts for finsubs who may be on more of a budget
DON’T:
1. Don’t mention findom on fetlife; the site will ban you for this language. It is ok to post within findom groups specifically
2. Never reach out to a finsub about sending you money; it’ll make you look desperate
3. Don’t have your real name on your findom payment methods
4. Do a cash meet without vetting the finsub
Comments
You shouldnt even be using PayPal in this line of work. IT IS NOT SAFE. I’ve stated this a lot in lessons and the zooms.
Mistress Marley
2025-03-17 00:54:16 +0000 UTCI'm trying to upgrade my paypal account to a business account but there's a notice saying once you upgrade to business account I can't receive friends and family payments. does that mean when I receive tributes and money, it will be put on hold?
Lexie
2025-03-16 22:42:11 +0000 UTCWhat's a good initial tribute for a sub? I had one send $100 and I thought that was low. He said he didn't want to disappoint me and asked what I was expecting and now I don't know what to say lol
Ashley Stafford
2024-03-05 16:23:14 +0000 UTCThey are trying to bait you
Mistress Marley
2023-12-06 14:50:22 +0000 UTCHi Mistress Marley I have one question about findom don't number two. So if we see a finsub paypig on Twitter and they are saying they got scammed and they want a real Dom if you inbox or like there post it gives off desperate
amiracle
2023-12-06 14:47:06 +0000 UTCIt’s okay to post within groups and list it in your fetishes.
Mistress Marley
2022-08-11 01:34:26 +0000 UTCHi Mistress Marley! Would you still recommend not mentioning findom on FetLife? I see that a lot of girls still are doing it now and they seem to still be thriving on Fetlife.
Queen Emmy
2022-08-11 01:23:52 +0000 UTCI see a lot of profiles on Fetlife with findom in the profile. How would you recommend letting people know that you're not there "just for fun" (but I'm not a pro-domme either)?
Goddess J
2020-10-22 00:46:34 +0000 UTCNot sure what you mean by “hold”. Can you clarify?
Mistress Marley
2020-09-14 16:03:09 +0000 UTCSo I just created a PayPal and it is a business account. It causes me to put things on hold. Should I worry about not receiving the money or tributes?
Dessi Dis'Asster
2020-09-14 14:41:10 +0000 UTCQuestion, for bgc is it optimum screening.com or .net ?
LOLITA WEBB
2020-09-04 02:36:36 +0000 UTCThanks babe!
Tae
2020-07-01 16:59:55 +0000 UTCYou’re better off doing it yourself. It’s not hard to get subs on your own and even if they find you subs, it’s not guaranteed that they will be the sub you need. There’s plenty of pages out there that will do free promo, I discussed it in the findom twitter lesson
Mistress Marley
2020-07-01 16:58:38 +0000 UTCI have a question. I was dm'd from a retweet page asking to pay $5 to retweet me and help get subs. Is that even a good idea? Would I be better off just doing it myself?
Tae
2020-07-01 16:54:09 +0000 UTCIs it a business account or normal account? If business account, you have to use the name on your ID. If business account, you can change it to a separate business name
Mistress Marley
2020-06-01 15:15:08 +0000 UTCHow do I remove my name from my paypal, because right now it is only saying my real name and I want to change that.
Butter Scotch
2020-06-01 15:05:58 +0000 UTC
