SEPARATING KINK FROM VANILLA LIFE
Added 2020-05-07 14:04:41 +0000 UTCYou can make kink a big part of your life, but you also have to remember that sometimes you will have to “come down” from the experience, especially after a session. Unless you consider yourself a lifestyle kinkster, it is okay to not practice BDSM 24/7. Take some time to unplug if you need to.
One way to do this after session is to relax. We call this coming down from “Dom/me space” or “sub space”. This can involve talking casually about the scene you just did, drinking water, going to sleep, or doing anything else that relaxes you. See it as a form of your own personal aftercare. Congratulate yourself for making it through session successfully and safely.
Another option is to monitor your social media. I myself follow a lot of kinky people and sex workers, which can get overwhelming and pour into normal every day life. Sometimes I will hide certain posts from others and just interact with my vanilla friends and family. You can also do this by having a separate Instagram.
Always remember that you are more than just your kinky or sexual fantasy life. Remember self care always. ❤️
