Mistress Marley’s Sexcademy (18+)

How to Tap into Your Submissive Side

Added 2020-03-28 23:58:57 +0000 UTC

Some of us are excited by the idea of being submissive. We may like to be punished, told what to do, or serve someone that we are comfortable serving. In BDSM relationships, being a submissive is all about how well you can take direction, but still knowing that consent comes into play.

Sexual submission is a super common sexual fantasy, whether it’s in a kink or vanilla play scene. Knowing where to start can help to set the tone for a healthy D/s environment:

• Figure out your level of submission (how submissive you want to be, pain levels, tolerance levels, mental and emotional triggers)

• Determine how you want to live the lifestyle (part time or full time)

• Learn how to separate fantasy from reality

• Communicate with your master/owner/dom (never assume that they know how you’re feeling; be transparent)

• Do your research to figure out what kinks and fetishes may work for you. Attend workshops specifically for bottoms.

Most importantly:

SAFETY FIRST