The Role Of The Family In Manifestation

Throughout our lives we are all subject to manipulation and indoctrination, especially from young. As children we are thrown into institutions such as the education system and instantly taught what to think, but not how to think.

Notice the subtle difference in what I have just illustrated. It is the same as somebody feeding you without teaching you what food to eat or how much to eat; the food is just shoved in your face and you are forced to eat it or there are negative repercussions. 

Now, the education system isn't necessarily an entirely bad thing, but it is designed to create mindless workers with certain beliefs and values. But, that's a whole other article, this is about the family.

The Connection of Emotion & Beliefs

By now, you should know the major importance emotion holds in our lives. Emotion is one half of the formula of reality creation; thought + emotion = reality.

Evidently, families are extremely emotional. Whether the relationships are positive or negative, the family always holds sufficiently strong emotional ties.

Our families can drive us into the deepest hate and anger or the strongest love and gratitude. In fact, growing up we will all have more than likely experienced every emotion under the sun in regards to our families.

Your family holds an incredibly important role in your emotional attitudes towards certain situations.

Maybe you were taught to be brave and fight back if picked on; maybe you were told to be cautious and avoid conflict. Either way, almost all our values, beliefs, norms and emotions are tied up in how we were brought up in our family environment.

Growing up, I would always hear my dad say, 'You can never have enough money, even the richest man in the world could do with more'. He never meant any harm by saying this. If anything, my dad meant to inspire me to create wealth for myself. But, in reality, all that happened was that I adopted a scarcity mindset in regards to money.

This scarcity mindset would always manifest in my financial situation. I would be stingy with money but I'd always somehow find myself losing it. I never got paid much from anything and I was too scared to risk my money to make more. Eventually, through periods of introspection, I realised what had happened and I instantly got to work and rewiring my mind. 

It is important you all realise that you too will have mindlessly accepted beliefs from your family and these beliefs will be manifesting in your lives as you're reading this. Maybe you're aware of it, maybe you're not; the important thing is to work on rewiring your mind from their beliefs to your beliefs.

That's not to say your families haven't taught you anything valuable. It's just important to highlight the fact that throughout our childhoods we will have picked up beliefs from our families and, due to the strong emotional ties, those very beliefs (positive or negative) will be manifesting in our lives.

Trauma & Comfort

Now, not only do we acquire the majority of our beliefs through our families, but we also acquire characteristics, habits and memories that stay with us for life.

I want to illustrate the importance of how trauma and comfort (in the family) actually have a similar impact on one's life. You may think I'm smoking crack and I've lost all ability to reason from what I've just said, but before you pass judgement, please hear me out.

In the short-term, traumatic experiences are vastly different to comfortable experiences. However, in the long-term the effects can carry a similar level of negativity which manifests in different ways.

Trauma can damage people mentally (and physically). Once traumatic experiences are accepted by the subconscious, they manifest. This can be very painful and hard for the victim as it's not their fault but they still have to deal with the shit. 

I urge you, if you have suffered with traumatic experiences to start to analyse yourself. Journal your days, learn about your habits, your beliefs and characteristics. Meditate consistently. It's extremely important you do this as journaling, introspection and meditation are the keys to taking full control over your life. From there you can teach yourself and work on what you see that needs improvement.

* Please get professional help if you need it, there is no need whatsoever to suffer in silence.

For those that have lived / are living lives of comfort, life may seem relatively easy, chilled and you might adopt the mindset that you'll be 'just fine'. This is pure ignorance that has grown from your lack of hardship. 

Comfort breeds complacency, and complacency kills. Comfort kills discipline, motivation, work ethic and ambition. There's a saying about us men, 'give a man a full belly, good sex and a TV and he will lose all his ambition in the blink of an eye'. It's extremely important, if you've had an 'easy' life that you make it somewhat hard. Deliberately challenge yourself and develop discipline. Or your comfortable life will manifest in laziness and ultimately a lack of any form of achievement.

Present Day 

Some of you may still live in families that are toxic/negative. This can be to any degree, if negativity is present you must tread carefully. 

If you have desires of creating a better life, going further than your family has or being different, people will hate on you, drag you down, and wish failure upon you. Unfortunately in some circumstances, negativity can also come from the family.

It is important you do not try to change your family. Allow them to be who they are and act how they act. 

You must become clear on your goals and put yourself first. Build a wall around your mind and do not accept any hate, doubt or negativity. Literally do not believe it. Convince yourself it is all an illusion, a distraction, it has no roots in reality.

One day you might actually be able to change your family for the better by showing them results, but until then just get your head down and ignore them.

If you accept their negativity it WILL manifest.

And this goes for anything, anything the subconscious mind accepts will take its place in reality.

I hope this article helps you gain a better understanding of the importance of your family and your manifestation. Have a blessed day, family 💎