Suki Update!
Added 2018-11-10 05:23:58 +0000 UTCOkay.. I tried splitting up the soft body model between upper and lower body. It was still slow as !$&#?!. So I bit the bullet and completely remodeld it. It is now simming 500% faster. At least. This is great news. But I did split up the upper and lower body. So the upper body is done, tomorrow I expect I'll finish the lower body.