"You're too fat to wear this"
Added 2025-06-19 18:26:40 +0000 UTCEver since I had cancer, I've heard this a lot.
The truth is, I'm not really happy with my body. I know it might sound absurd, but it's just how I feel at the moment.
I used to look better. The anti-nausea meds f*cked me up during chemo and made me a hungry beast, never feeling satiated. I could eat as much as physically possible and still feel hungry.
I gained 10kg/22 lbs. It was hard seeing myself change, and while I lost almost half of that today, it's still hard to see how much my body was altered.
It takes much more than I thought to discipline myself. In fact, I feel like I have no discipline. Losing weight isn't easy, I feel very addicted to sugar, I've always had a sweet tooth. Even realising those things isn't making it easier.
But I'm working on it. I'm trying. I'll keep trying and I will make it at some point.
People online don't care what you go through, or won't bother to understand your journey. They'll just comment mean things as a hobby and move on. It's fine, I'm putting myself out there after all, I'm used to it. It's just sad
I wasn't sure if I should share this but maybe talking about it makes it less of an obstacle
If you read until here, thank you
Have a frog πΈ
Comments
Every person has a preference in what they want to look at. A, preference may be different than B. Since there is no correct answer for beauty the only correct answer is how you feel about your looks.
jim zepeda
2025-08-03 11:06:39 +0000 UTCIn all honesty, these people are just envious because you are definitely not fat.
Envious Nova
2025-06-23 14:17:29 +0000 UTCπ Nice π
yenifer millan
2025-06-20 21:06:59 +0000 UTCYou can do it, you're a fighter that didn't gave up at a hard time, so I believe in you and believe that you can make your objectives, of you can sign up to a gym, a running club or something that you like to try me things 21 days of that and you'll start doing it automatically, my own experience, I was very skinny guy later a miss treated a stomach infection that hit me hard, lost a lot of muscle mass, got even skinnier, sick looking, then went to a gym and got healthier life also by the influence of other friends I did there
Alberto Falken
2025-06-20 13:00:45 +0000 UTC
