Podcast E36: Ten Kink Things That Give Me The Ick.
Added 2022-09-15 05:47:23 +0000 UTCDecided to be a little fun this time and do a countdown of ten kink things that feel icky and cringey to me! I tried to be funny but most of these are just depressing? Sorry guys.
Comments
How can I like your writing so much when all of your top icks are the things that I liked about my relationship? I think it is different in the US though. I mean, the ideas in patriarchy are the same. But in the last generation a lot of people threw all these things on their heads, at least in some segments of society. I grew up in a liberal and egalitarian family. So did my Master. Then we had a relationship based on equality. We both worked. We combined our money but we always discussed and agreed on how it was going to be spent, there was no one person in control of the money. That is the typical pattern in the USA today, that or keeping separate accounts even for married people. But when I wanted to be submissive I went whole hog on that and we eventually adopted all the kinks you're talking about hating here and I loved it. All the control made me happy, because I knew it was not societally enforced for us, but it was chosen from a menu of possibilities when we had already experienced the equality option. We did the financial control, for brief periods the diet control, the play at patriarchy part, all those things and I really liked it. The only part I really didn't like, but wasn't able to refuse, was when covid came and we had the great toilet paper shortage because everyone was hoarding it here (funny now, stressful then) he told me how much toilet paper I could use and that chafed me and annoyed me because it wasn't enough. I ended up having to wash myself a lot and we didn't have bidet to make that easy. But now he is gone and I miss him so much that I'd gladly go back to the tp shortage if it would bring him back. I would get a bidet though. But I'd ask him if I could spend the money first. Now I have all the freedom that my finances will allow (he had life insurance so I'm doing fine moneywise). And I don't want freedom. But I can't see getting into another relationship being in my future either. I just want to be a slut. Sorry I'm writing a novel here. Ok, not the alpha submissive part because I agree that that is dumb and I agree with your reasoning on why it's dumb.
Anne
2022-10-15 13:04:01 +0000 UTCI'm in the us and cunt is the worst word possible for many people. This is driven by women and the fact that calling a women a cunt is like a super charged version of calling her a bitch. It's considered extreme misogyny and reducing a woman down to only her private part, as if she is nothing but that and therefore nearly completely useless except for that. Many women will not even say cunt they will say "He called her a c-word, can you believe it?"
Anne
2022-10-15 12:29:46 +0000 UTC
