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#DearDiary - Bras suck!

Added 2018-10-13 21:20:45 +0000 UTC

unboxing video may be short, but here's the Real Talk:

I've been body shamed more than I care to think about, and 99.9% of the time it's been about me not wearing a bra (for variety it's occasionally about my ass hanging out of my shorts). This is in fact the main point of contention between my dad and I, and nothing makes me feel quite as ashamed and embarrassed and downright furious then when he makes a scene about it by snapping his fingers on my clothes. At this point, if I want to avoid a fight when I visit my family, I have to adjust what I wear so they feel more comfortable.

But screw that. I don't want to conform to others' views of what is "appropriate" or "proper" when it comes to how I dress. I dress for fun, for comfort, for myself.

I use my body as my main artistic medium, and that includes what I decide to wear or not wear. That's what I love about this "bras suck" shirt & gorgeous vibrator Bellesa just sent me- both of them let me declare my bodily autonomy loud 'n proud. They remind me to own who I am, and to not be ashamed of having tits and a vagina. Honestly, it feels like something only a by-women-for-women company would truly understand <3

// for full transparency: Bellesa did gift these items to me, but I make it a point NOT to advertise for anything I don't morally stand behind. Although I can't speak to their videos or erotica, I'm excited to see a company that doesn't shy away from the full spectrum of self-pleasuring needs :)