Sleep Deprived Therapy Time: Episode 8
Added 2023-01-03 19:24:04 +0000 UTCAsk us more questions for next episode of Therapy Time!
With Love,
Mika & Aztro
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Fellas. I'm about to go off to university in the summer and it's really making me reflect a lot on my life thus far. I was born England, but for over a decade I've been living in first Zambia and now China. Basically, I'm going back to the UK for uni, but I'm almost wondering if I'll 'remember' the culture enough to fit in? Culture shock is a bitch, and after going through it twice in super different places I really don't feel like I 'belong' to my home country anymore, which is... kind of depressing? But also kind of cool? Like when I hear you guys on the pod talk about a mostly shared experience growing up in a similar place, I feel kind of jealous since there probably isn't a single person in the world who I could have a conversation like that with. Basically, the question I'm asking is do you think any of this really matters? I think I'm just overthinking things and it wont be that much of an issue, but I like a lot of your guys' takes so I'm curious to see what you think about this. Thanks for taking the time to read.
NATO
2023-02-02 05:24:40 +0000 UTCHey big guys. I got another big problem this week. Whenever I start singing I give people the dancing mania plague because I just sing so well and they all die. 🥲. I don’t know what to do because I love to sing (it’s my passion) but everyone around me starts dancing until they die! Thanks big guys for the help. -wonka
Wonka Vision
2023-01-22 23:28:49 +0000 UTChihi im wondering as two multi talented baddies, how do yall find balance in your hobbies, im really into drag, art, music and games but i have a hard time doing one without feeling like im neglecting the other. more music related i also wanted to ask what inspires your music, do you think of a concept first or is there a lyric that comes to mind first, thanks in advance for everything i really appreciate you guys <3
javvbones
2023-01-20 20:16:21 +0000 UTCHey boys, Valentine's Day is right around the corner by the time this episode comes out, so I'm wondering (and maybe others as well) how do you talk to girls. Or how do you go about cutting ties with a girl you've been talking to. Her and I have been only texting each other and interacting over the internet for over a year at this point, and our conversations have become dry and uninteresting.
Mandalore
2023-01-15 10:00:57 +0000 UTChi sleep deprived patreon. im geno and im looking for advice on how to deal with toxic friends. lately i've had to deal with 2 friends of mine treating me horribly, and i dont quite know what i should do becuase i dont wanna stop being friends with them but im worried i'll have to.what do i do?
kawlllzzz
2023-01-15 07:41:10 +0000 UTCHi guys, Hope you guys are doing great. Lately Ive been having a tough time, I am dealing with a break up and my dog of 14 years and who I consider a brother, passed away and its been hard on me, i have friends around me who help and support me but despite having people around me I have this weird empty feeling, this empty void inside of me, I tried everything to get rid of it but that same feeling is always there, I still love and miss my ex and its been hard on me. I just started to do nothing and let this empty feeling consume me, It hurts, especially being alone with my thoughts. How can i get rid of this feeling, how can I get better after dealing with death and a break up? Thank you guys, this podcast and your videos and music have helped me so much during this difficult time in my life, Thank you guys
Rayz17
2023-01-12 06:47:53 +0000 UTChi guys spacelamp here, happy new year. I hope January went well for you guys. Do either of you have anything you are making solo or together this year that you are excited for / can talk about. Would really love to hear some new Lilac Boy and Alex Unknown records or collabs, vinyl releases, streams, live streams/shows, games, videos etc. :^)
spacelampsix
2023-01-11 03:31:19 +0000 UTCThat's not even close, digimon easily.
Jay Hardaite
2023-01-10 13:59:53 +0000 UTChi :) i have a therapy time question: how do i deal with my recent friend's death? mood dampener alert lol. my close friend passed away back in october, just after i started a new job and i really have been struggling to come to terms with her death. it was sudden and unexpected so it hit quite hard. now im no stranger to death, i had 3 family members pass away back in 2022 but this one has seemed to have affected me the most. i think its because of the unexpected and unexplained way she died thats just keeping me in this weird dark pit right now. just seriously died in the middle of the night. no warnings or anything. finding her just so cold and still was the most traumatic thing i think i can honestly say ive experienced in this lifetime. christmas and new years didnt even feel real. in a time where everyone around you is so happy and jolly, it was so unnerving. now, im stuck in this world of dull things and unfamiliar feelings. it doesnt help with the fact i have autism and bpd so i feel as if im really in the deep end at the moment. just wanted to ask if there is any ways to feel better i guess? i know you arent exactly professionals and yes i am currently seeking actual help. but i just want to know if everything will be ok i guess? thanks for reading this long ass depressing message lol. hope you guys are well :) - abi (abitheangel :]) ps. i am happy for the info to be shared on the therapy time pod. :)
Abi
2023-01-08 19:34:03 +0000 UTCnote: genuinely so sorry about how long this ended up love this show!! now listen to my problems for the amount of money i make in two hours!! thank you :) so some context in order to not sound like a total asshole, i’m a pretty stereotypical autistic individual. i’m fairly antisocial, logical, hyper interested in fish biology, and subscribed to apandah. this often leads to conflicts with friendships, as i’m not very empathetic. I have a school friend who is the opposite of most of my prominent characteristics. They’re loud, outgoing, mercurial, and quite sensitive. Since it is difficult for me to make and keep friends, I usually take what I can get, and at the end of the day, they’re still a good person who has never wronged me conspicuously, but this conflict of traits between us has lead to quite a few incidents, more notably in recent time. This friend often comes to me often with petty problems I don’t see the point in getting upset over in a rational sense, and despite knowing they can’t help being upset it leads to me finding it difficult to relate, and effectively comfort them. People crying makes me extremely uncomfortable, which is something they do a lot, and i’m not very good at reading social cues so it’s hard to tell when they want a hug (which is another thing that puts me on edge sensory-wise) or want sympathetic words instead of an actual solution until i’m being yelled at for providing one and not the other. I enjoy being friends with this individual, but not to the point where I think I can put up with their emotional baggage dumping, and criticism as to how i deal with it, just to apologize the next day and promise it won’t happen again until the process inevitably resets. How do you tell a person you don’t want to be their friend anymore without hurting them in the process? thank you guys !! -🐠
yvolk
2023-01-07 23:27:01 +0000 UTCHeyo Aztro and Mika, awesome people, I just wanna say that this is my first time listening to the therapy episodes but I do wanna thank sdp as a whole because the podcast really just helped get through a really bad time in my life. But I do have a question not really relating to mental health but just a general question: do you guys read books, and if so what kind of stuff do you like to read because im trying to get into reading lol. Sincerely from Ooum, to the best podcast in the world >:) (edit after being on sdp #91, Thanks Mika for actually telling me i was intelligent idk why i sounded so disappointed in the call its just my voice LOL but dw I found everything very funny 💀 and plus it was a day before my birthday and that was probably the best birthday gift I’ve gotten my whole life)
Ooum Phrommany
2023-01-07 07:20:30 +0000 UTCYo, would you rather eat a bug or cockroaches or you know jump of a cliff?
Bosnian Gamer 2014
2023-01-06 07:20:25 +0000 UTCWho would win: 1 million lions or every digimon in existence?
Nazo The Ultimate
2023-01-05 20:15:28 +0000 UTCHello you two amazing people, first of all I wanted to thank you both for your advice. I’ve been needing to rethink a lot of stuff about myself personally so the stuff you said about procrastination is extremely helpful. Right now I don’t have anything much to share regarding my anxieties or flaws, so I’m curious who do you think would win in a battle: a Grizzly Bear or Two Chimpanzees? Stay safe and continue being awesome!
Tyler
2023-01-05 18:21:24 +0000 UTCHello to my favorite professional unlicensed therapists (you are barely beating the Gecko)! Would you rather struggle with depression and no anxiety, or with anxiety but no depression? As an unanxious clinically depressed person, I wonder what life is like on the other side of the coin.
IvanCito
2023-01-04 16:25:06 +0000 UTCGreat Advice, my neighbours have now been abolished. Anyways it's that time of the year again and love contaminates the air. I need help on how to tell someone you really hate them instead of loving them, something like a Rose with no Rose and just thorns.
Suilverio
2023-01-03 20:56:33 +0000 UTC
