How would/should you train Gabby? Let's see:. By the way, these iare only my thoughts and opinions.
First, a TRUE mistress teaches Gabby what mistresses, subs, and slaves are and their relationship to each other. This is classroom schooling (which Gabby excels in), no actual physical activity. With this knowledge, Gabby can decide if she actually wants to be a mistress, a sub, a slave, or a switch Also, Gabby will know if a mistress, sub, or slave is, um, misbehaving. This knowledge includes what all three do, the rules and boundaries all have to follow, consequences when a someone breaks rules and boundaries, and similar stuff. But, it has to be a complete course, EVERYTHING. IMO, this is knowledge Emma only partially has. Actualy, IMO, Emma may know but seems to ignore when it's convenient for her
Second, a TRUE mistress would teach Gabby how to thoroughly know and understand every person she interacts with. And I mean THOROUGH! Likes, dislikes, preferences, abilities, tolerances, even family members.
Third, a TRUE mistress will teach Gabby how to use all bondage equipment properly and safely. How? By physically using them on Gabby., then allowing Gabby to use them on the mistress, or, on a sub but under the supervision of the mistress. Why do this? 🤔 For safety reasons, plain and simple. As an example, hypothetically, if a mistress messed up using the water wheel, that could cause the death of someone. In BDSM, safety is utmost.
Fourth, a TRUE mistress would teach Gabby about pain and pleasure. Obviously Emma has taught Gabby about pleasure. Hmmm... can you overdo pleasure? 🤔 Each person is different. More reasearch needed on this. 😁 But pain? That's another game entirely. Each person's pain threshold is different. A mistress needs to know this! It's crucial! Some people get off sexually by pain. IMO, Emily/Jade did, which is why I called her a pain slut. Other people, well just a slap will break them down intro a sobbing mess. A mistress needs to know and understand this; she needs to truly understand her sub/slave inside and out. This understanding comes with time and experience, which Emma does not have.
Anything else I missed?
Larry_W
2024-11-23 16:31:15 +0000 UTC
Emma should not address Jessica because, as Larry pointed out, she is not her submissive! She should ask Gabby to give the order to Jessica to ask her to put her collar on. She just didn't beg but asked and where is Jessica's safety word? although I guess she can always say “RED” that's what the universal safety word is for?
Gabby should ask Jessica's safety word on the next page if she even wants to act out this scene with her!
It just makes me wonder, if a person has switch type tendencies in a bondage relationship then who decides which way they should lean, because here I guess Emma decides again for Gabby?
Larry chapter 42 page 4, first words “Jessica brings another starter.... “ answers your question from point 5, Jesssica was a waitress at the ceremony, she served the dishes and appetizers that Gabby's mom Elena made.
Wojtek
2024-11-23 16:04:54 +0000 UTC
Are you surprised about that? 😏
Btw relationships like this can exist. If the submissive is a switch, they can have a submissive of their own, as long as their Mistress allows it of course.
But yeah, like you said, Emma would only allow Gabby to play Mistress, on her own terms, whenever she feels like it
AnneCD88
2024-11-23 15:34:27 +0000 UTC
Anne, remember, Emma rold Gabby that she still needs to do her duties to Emma, that has not changed. Really? So, Emma pulls rank. Gabby will only be able to play 'mistress' when Emma allows. If Emma's rules still apply to Gabby, Gabby will not be able to 'teach' Emma any lessons, her contract denies it. Gabby is just a toy to Emma, so, at best, Gabby can be a 'toy mistress'.
Larry_W
2024-11-23 15:32:06 +0000 UTC
You might be right, about Emma trying to make Gabby admit of not being Mistress material. That would be typical sneaky Emma.
Unless she is sincere, and wants Gabby to be a dominant, to her not so latent switch side, but just doesn't know better, how to teach Gabby to be a dominant
AnneCD88
2024-11-23 12:01:24 +0000 UTC
Will Gabby use her safeword? 🤔 Yeah, I can see it happening. Will Emma be mad if she uses it? 🤔 I don't think so. Maybe Emma wants Gabby to use her safeword, to set boundaries. That would be a first for Gabby and it has to happen. This could be a good teaching moment for Gabby.
Larry_W
2024-11-23 11:54:16 +0000 UTC
Ok, I take back what I said about Emma being a possibly good teacher to Gabby in certain areas. Ms. Lindberg, does not have the skills to teach. Forcing to have someone, especially timid Gabby, with no real backbone or courage, to be a 'mistress', is, um, not fair. Unless Emma is trying to get Gabby to say that she herself is not a mistress, thereby canceling what Patricia said. That's sneaky and very devious, and, typically Emma. Gabby has to be taught what a real mistress is, how to act and treat her subs, how to protect her subs, literally all the basics in any of the contracts. I guess we'll just skip that part.
Larry_W
2024-11-23 11:51:20 +0000 UTC
Hmmm... so much to unpack here.
Jessica:
1. Unknown if she wanted to be submissive or dominant. She's a very good candidate to be a switch. Actually, if I remember correctly, she identified as one.
2. Jessica is not Emma's sub. Jessica never signed any contract. None of the worker bees did. Therefore, Jessica does not have a safeword..
3. Jessica is a friend to Gabby. Maybe that's why Gabby is hesitant.
4. Gabby realizes that Jessica only wants sex with Emma. Of course, everybody does. (sarcasn again)
5. Where was Jessica during the ceremony? If she was Emma's sub then she should have knelt by Emma.
Larry_W
2024-11-23 11:42:14 +0000 UTC
I was waiting to comment, wanted to think it over.
I'm sorry Emma, this isn't how it works. You can't just dress someone in tight latex, get a "submissive" to kneel before them, and say "okay, dominate her"... Becoming a dominant isn't by announcing yourself as one, but rather earning it. Gabby is definitely not ready for that. She'll either do something stupid, and hurt the girl, or it'll be too much for her, finally making her say the safeword. Let's hope the latter happens first, for both girls (Jessica's and Gabby's) sake.
Edit
Wait, does Jessica even have a safeword? What if Gabby does something, and she uses it? That would make Gabby think (rightly so) that she's not a good dom, no rather an inexperienced one, not ready to dominate anyone.
AnneCD88
2024-11-23 10:00:14 +0000 UTC
My first thought on the previous page was that the submissive who would be willing to take Gabby's dominance lessons would be Jessica, since she is on the spot. It's clear that Ms. Ferrara is not happy with this turn of events, not that Jessica? She'll get what she wanted, with a bonus! As for forcing to dominate, Maggie this just proves what kind of teacher Ms Lindberg is? The next pages promise to be interesting!
Wojtek
2024-11-23 08:35:26 +0000 UTC
I feel that gab... excuse me, Ms Ferrara will be saying Madagascar pretty soon. Or whatever her safe word is why couldn't it be a simple RED
Robmur
2024-11-23 08:14:38 +0000 UTC
Being forced to being dom is something new i think... will we hear a safeword from Gabby in next page?