My Classmate Emma Lindberg - Chapter 41, Page 17
Added 2024-10-15 07:00:04 +0000 UTC
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I like it being so official
Zershon88
2024-10-18 06:05:07 +0000 UTCAh, thank you Anne and Larry from y'all's definition I have been gaslighting myself since first grade đ”âđ« so I'm probably immune to the gaslighter as I have over 60 + years 9f doing it to myself. I. E. doubting myself and not thinking I have any value in anything and of course my opinion doesn't matter least that what I gots from the bullies in school đ€š but thanks for clearing it up and informing me with my luck a gaslighter might get boomeranged and I get what they is doing đ
Robmur
2024-10-17 23:32:17 +0000 UTCLarry, I have no idea, who you're thinking about *coughs* Emma đ€Ł Thanks for the more detailed explanation, I wrote my response when I woke up, off the top of my head. But yeah, it's not a thing, any decent person would do to anyone, especially not their partner. Unfortinately Emma is perfect in using it, though to be fair, Gabby's "love" for her, makes her the perfect subject for gaslighting. We've already seen Emma do it earlier in the story đ
AnneCD88
2024-10-17 13:57:37 +0000 UTCRobmur, Anne is correct. gaslighting; gaslights transitive verb 1 : to psychologically manipulate (a person) usually over an extended period of time so that the victim questions the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and experiences confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, and doubts concerning their own emotional or mental stability : to subject (someone) to gaslighting I think the above is from the Merriam-Webster dictionary. Anyway, I also agree with Anne, it is a disgusting manipulation technique. Usually it's used by a narcissistic person to make the victim question their own reality and sometimes their own sanity. Why do they do it? One word, control. Now who do we know would do that? Try looking at abusive partners, cheaters, power people, like bad doms, etc. The worst is that they use a sliver of truth while gaslighting to make people question themselves. đ€
Larry_W
2024-10-17 13:23:19 +0000 UTCNext page plz
Supersandy
2024-10-17 10:41:06 +0000 UTCBasically, gaslighting is a psychological and emotional manipulation technique, that makes people, who are right in an argument or any situation beleive, they're actually wrong. Imo it's a disgusting thing to do, because it really messes with the head, it makes the person who it's used on, question their own perception of reality.
AnneCD88
2024-10-17 04:07:58 +0000 UTCLarry as always you seem to be the one that knows what is what here. Now my question is compleatly off topic but I have read it a few times in these posts as the story has progressed usually I can figure out what s does means by his it is used but dang if'n I can figure out what exactly is meant by " gaslighting" someone
Robmur
2024-10-17 03:02:25 +0000 UTCAnne and Robmur, we do not have the actual verbage of each specific section so we will never know for sure what is actually in the contract. However, I've reread the part about modifications and it points heavily in the direction of whatever the dom wants goes; the sub does not seem to have a say. I'm sure that the slave, yes slave, not sub, not girlfriend, not mate, will be manipulated and gaslighted into believing that it was her idea, not the mistress'. The slave will do what the dom wants out of 'love'. Anne, you are definitely correct in saying that Emma and Patricia would manipulate Gabby AND Elena into whatever body modifications Patricia and Emma want. Gabby is too in 'love' and too gullible with Emma to stage any type of protest. Elena, um, I'm not certain what her issue is. Maybe she is just tired of responsibility and just wanted someone to take over and take care of her, especially someone with money, i.e. a sugar mommy. If I remember correctly, and most probably not, Gabby only protested because of jealousy??? Am I correct in this? đ€ YES, I know in her MIND and THOUGHTS she had issues, but both Emma and Patricia have manipulated her to quell them. If this ceremony goes south with an iron branding, I think Gabby will flip out. I'm expecting, and hoping for, some major drama. đ Wouldn't it be nice to see Gabby break up with Emma? I can see a confrontation with Patricia, Emma, and even Elena. Such drama! Such fun! đ€Ł
Larry_W
2024-10-15 20:42:51 +0000 UTCYeah, that's my issue... in any real D/S relationship, the sub has the last word about go/no go for anything... But here it's different. Emma wouldn't do it against Gabby's will either... she would manipulate her into agreeing đ
AnneCD88
2024-10-15 11:02:24 +0000 UTCYea, ok I should have read this post before statinb my previous statement and yea, it does sound like the slave can have there body modified against their will
Robmur
2024-10-15 10:39:27 +0000 UTCAnneCD88 I checked the last post and towards the bottom there was something about enhancements and following the care act do I think it is covered
Robmur
2024-10-15 10:36:37 +0000 UTCWe still haven't heard about, whether or not "property" is allowed to deny any "enhancement" the owner wishes to make... đ€ Even in a D/S relationship, I sure as hell wouldn't allow anyone to make permanent body modifications "enhancements" (piercing, tattoo, plastic surgery), if I didn't agree to it. That's exactly what safewords are for. But to be fair, the "D/S relationships" in this story, are slaves and slave owners, not Dominants and Submissives...
AnneCD88
2024-10-15 07:05:43 +0000 UTC
