Quick Update
Added 2025-03-30 03:18:44 +0000 UTCHey folks,
This is going to just be a quick update. I missed the Tuesday update, and AMA week didn't really happen, because this month has gone from starting on an OK note to being a pit of stress for me. I'm behind on messages and comments here, and need to open up the Discord again too - a hallmark of me having a rough time is closing down on communication. Healthy? Definitely not.
Long-story short, my sister is continuing to deal with the heavy after effects of a severe mental health episode, and I'm her primary emotional support. I don't begrudge her this at all - she's an extremely heartfelt, kind and caring person who works with people in need when she's in a good head space. Being able to be a support for her when this happens is a blessing because I know she's not alone. It's also very much NOT great for me writing fun, sexy stories. (Oh, and did we talk about how this last AMA set of chapters was starting with Therapy? Yeah. Oof.)
I've got stress hives. I'm emotionally exhausted. I feel guilt over not getting enough done here and keeping on top of things earlier in the month, setting me up for a hard end of the month. This is the life of a writer, sometimes.
I've been writing like mad the last two days to try and catch back up. It's unlikely I can get everything still owed for the month done in the next two days (the 6 sponsored sets plus an FoF bonus), but I'll hopefully get at least a couple more out or better before the month turnover. But I also really, really need to file my taxes. Oh, and submit my presentation pitches to the writing conference I want to go to at the end of the year.
Alright, maybe this isn't SO quick an update.
I'll be working on Le Francais next - hopefully I can get it at least mostly done tonight, which leaves tomorrow open for me to tackle either OFG or the D&D Group story as a bigger release. I'll probably start responding to messages and comments here tomorrow - I'm in a writing zone right now (can you tell by how much I'm writing here?) so getting right back into another story should be productive.
Cheers folks,
~Break.
Comments
Like a few others have already said, take care of you and your family first. Y'alls health is always more important than trying to pound out some chapters, especially when you are not in the right headspace for it.
J N
2025-04-02 23:59:57 +0000 UTCTake care of yourself. We love your writing but family and self care should be your priority and if we need to wait a bit longer so you can taks care of that so be it. Its better than you burning yourself out. Take care and hope your sisters doing better
Spacecadet5380
2025-04-02 07:11:16 +0000 UTCUnfortunately I have not gotten an approved fix through from the Patreon auto-moderation yet. I'm working on it!
BreaktheBar
2025-04-01 03:06:45 +0000 UTCWhat they said.
patient1
2025-03-31 05:27:36 +0000 UTCAs someone who supports a sibling dealing with mental health issues related to a debilitating auto immune illness, I can understand your headspace. Please take time for yourself and if needed, get therapy or talk to someone yourself so you can support both you and your sister effectively without losing yourself in the process. Bottling this up as you say is far from healthy so find some kind of outlet to deal with it. Physical activity might also help. Take timeout as needed and take care of yourself.
Jupiter765
2025-03-30 22:44:04 +0000 UTCI strongly encourage to take care of yourself, first and foremost. If you don't, you are at risk of burning out and losing more in the long term. Best of wishes to you and your family.
lostone2
2025-03-30 17:20:10 +0000 UTCAs someone who has been support for family going through both mental and physical trials, I understand how brain-draining it is. From the other comments I've read here, it seems nobody is going to be concerned about a couple late stories. Family comes first man; take care of your sister and your own health and us Patrons will still be here.
Erik Hamsher
2025-03-30 16:05:15 +0000 UTCdon't stress it! remember you need to take care of yourself along with your sister. wishing you both a little peace and comfort.
Rick Shaw
2025-03-30 15:00:05 +0000 UTCI'll add to the general sentiment here: Family first, always! After that, when you can, drop us a line to let us know you're still kicking and it's all good.
Grayghost
2025-03-30 12:30:33 +0000 UTCI and I forgot to mention, if you put it to a vote, I think you would see the vast majority supporting you taking a week or more off to support your family.
DevilDoc82
2025-03-30 12:11:11 +0000 UTCLook mate. You should never feel bad about putting family first. Coming from someone who didn't know he had sisters till close to 40...... spend as much time with them as you're able. Be that rock when she needs it. As much as I enjoy reading your work, I'll be just fine if you took a couple of weeks off from the schedule you've got mapped out in your head. If someone has a problem with it, bucket. Ban and ignore their stupid job. And if that's not enough, I know some guys with boats and a couple of swamps with gators in them.
DevilDoc82
2025-03-30 12:08:52 +0000 UTCYup, break, I'm with the rest of the gang. We're fans because the writing is so well done. But we provide our patronage here because we believe in supporting the real life, flesh and blood, actual human who creates that art. Without a healthy YOU, the art can't exist. Best wishes to you and your sister.
TRT
2025-03-30 08:43:13 +0000 UTCI can get by without your stories a lot better than you missing out on the needs of your family and your own self Take care of you and family and DON’T feel guilty about it
Gene Hill
2025-03-30 08:03:54 +0000 UTCFamily first my guy and take care of yourself we can wait a little bit longer for our smut don't burn yourself out. I literally remember reading don't years ago and not ever expecting you to go back to writing and here we are I waited ages for an update I can wait some more.
SovietDegendays
2025-03-30 07:46:52 +0000 UTCWhats up with QTNW #37. Take care of yourself. And as always, Stay Safe & Keep Well.
Admiral Ale
2025-03-30 05:39:35 +0000 UTCFamily... and Taxes - sounds like two more important priorities this next week! Thoughts and good wishes!
WSV
2025-03-30 04:08:52 +0000 UTCWorry about taking care of you and your families mental and physical health and then worry about writing. We will be here when you are ready to go again.
Peter Diven
2025-03-30 03:51:27 +0000 UTCFamily first, brother. We'll still be here.
Juggermouse
2025-03-30 03:46:02 +0000 UTCFuck man screw the writing your sister is blood so much more important than us fans of yours. So I’m 100% positive we all will feel the same look out for your sister buddy she is much more important seriously now please keep yer chin up please and be the shoulder she needs.
Jim lynch
2025-03-30 03:24:07 +0000 UTCYou and your sister and in my thoughts and prayers.
Tammy Hoffman
2025-03-30 03:22:40 +0000 UTCVery glad you're able to be there for your sister. Get plenty of rest. We'll hang tight for you until things improve.
Trav
2025-03-30 03:22:39 +0000 UTC
