A Devotee's Question And Its Answer

I received a question I found interesting, and it is duplicative of a frequent proposition I receive. So I will post it here, both the question and my reply, for everyone's benefit.

 Dear Ms. Alder,

I am writing to You because of a question that occured to me recently. It's about progressing further in chastity.

I began to notice that Your commands had taken further control in my life. I'm not being chaste anymore just because I want to obey You, chastity seems as it would be a natural state I'm in, and not a temporary one. I hold on until I can, I listen to one of Your files with orgasm commands when I can't take it any longer, and after that, I immediately re-enter chastity.

I also feel like a switch had turned inside me. I realized I haven't been edgeing lately, like I wouldn't want anything else but Your voice to cause me pleasure.

I don't know if I managed to describe the state I'm in properly, but I hope I did, but I'd like to ask You a question. How You imagine a student, his behaviour, who is really great at being chaste? Were the feelings I described the part of Your concept when You planned the chastity files for Your students, or are they just my own reaction to Your suggestions?

I would be honoured if You'd answer my question(s)! I desperately crave to be a better student for You, and I would love to know how You imagine a student who is perfect at chastity, so that I could try to become one.

ANSWER 

In many ways, the classic model of post hypnotic suggestion leaves a lot to be desired. People think there is some easy road, some absolute conditioning.

In reality you can mayhaps be subconsciously primed to think of something now and then, or if you played the right mantra while you were asleep, a mantra identical to part of a file you frequently listened to while awake, it might reinforce a little bit of the training.

Way more appealing is post-hypnotic reminescence, post-hypnotic nostalgia, the post-hypnosis urge to return to a state.

A friend once told me - if you're genuine, people will want to hang out with you. They will then absorb by osmosis your general attitude.

My attitude has always been that one should get pleasure out of chastity for your own sake. Use it as a tool to elevate yourself, use it as an enhancement, an addition.

This is partly your own reaction, surely. But for you to generate your own - beneficial - reactions which also serve my goals, is the truest manifestation of deep submission.

Submission where you align in purpose with your dominant, attend to her words, anticipate her desires, then recreate those desires from full cloth inside your own head.

Yes it is truly your own reaction to chastity suggestion, but when you have enough fun that your mind forms new pathways dedicated to making chastity appealing, that is just normal conditioning. Not subliminal, not posthypnotic, a simple preference choice change and shift which is in its own way the truest monument to me which you could build.

I trust this has answered your question.
Aurelia