Friend Drama In AFRICA - Story Time
Added 2023-12-17 17:03:52 +0000 UTC
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I hope that girl did not ruin your trip to Ghana and you got to enjoy the beautiful weather and culture that my motherland has! ♥️ A shame she couldn't be a good friend or grown up.
Ohemaa MaMokowa
2024-05-17 13:45:23 +0000 UTCbetty is mad weird
Lexi
2024-03-26 22:19:21 +0000 UTCHonestly I feel like after the whole restaurant situation when Betty asked Judy if she was gone stay and eat there or go with her was probably her breaking point 😂 cause it seemed like she wanted Judy to herself and then she seen y’all was getting close and vibing and got jealous 🤣
Kymberlee J
2024-03-02 19:16:37 +0000 UTCYou sound like a good friend. I had secondhand annoyance watching this. As someone with limited patience, that second trip wouldn't even had happen. Judy sounds cool. Glad y'all got rid of her. Too grown to be on that bullshit. Come correct or don't come at all.
Muffinz Okuurr
2024-01-18 02:58:05 +0000 UTCShe ain’t nothing but a hater. Girl let’s travel together im fun!
Jyleke Carter
2024-01-07 20:42:47 +0000 UTCI see her name starts with a C? Is that C for crackhead? 😂😂
Ethyn Glenn
2024-01-03 06:37:55 +0000 UTCam i the only one who wants to see dee beat someone 💀
Lanita Rey
2023-12-29 00:18:10 +0000 UTCDee… I know this is off topic but ur videos are the only thing getting me through college right now 😅 so thank you.
Mazin
2023-12-25 21:13:30 +0000 UTCShe definitely wasn't showing any of this toxic behavior during our friendship. Aside from complaining about minor things during our last trip in Costa Rica, I never had any issues with her. But her behavior was so extreme in Ghana, it just revealed what type of person she was so I had to dead that friendship. This was also only a couple months after the Brazil incident with the other friend, so I was more adamant about getting rid of toxic people around me lol
Dee Shanell
2023-12-25 20:25:00 +0000 UTCIon know how tf u were friends w her for 2 years?!?! Even tho a lot of people may be like “oh maybe ur the problem for always having friend drama/breakups”… this just shows that ur a nice and caring friend because of how long u kept up w her bullshit. 😂 plus u handled this situation really well. (Btw I just got patreon, I just subbed and I been binge watching as many videos as I can 😭 love the content keep it up) You had every right to keep on ignoring her messages and enjoy the rest of ur trip w the other friend because when u start reasoning or just keeping up the conversation w someone that always complains, the issue will never end cuz they’ll always find something new to complain about.
Mazin
2023-12-25 11:05:19 +0000 UTCHey Dee I was wondering if you have any tips for planning a trip out the country? I am planning a trip to Brazil in December 😭
Lupê
2023-12-25 00:03:38 +0000 UTCVERY lol
Dee Shanell
2023-12-22 17:23:09 +0000 UTCOh shit, you watched the show lmao but yeahh the complaining is annoying. She did it on our first vacation but overall it was still a good trip and she said she would stop so I tried to give her another chance. But she did it times 10 in Ghana lol it definitely ruins the vibe
Dee Shanell
2023-12-22 17:22:48 +0000 UTCIt’s getting hard in these streets, sis
ClihMinaj
2023-12-22 17:16:52 +0000 UTClol I remember watching that season of “that show” and 2 episodes in shes already the center of drama arguing somebody down over appetizers! lol sounds a mess! The worst thing is traveling with a complainer or somebody all over the place. It peaks my anxiety and happened to me in Holland. My thing is you never know when you’ll have the opportunity to be in a certain place. So why let the little things ruin it. Say that sucks and just move on.
Cam G
2023-12-22 03:26:46 +0000 UTCnot her complaining about how long the ride back home, like girl.... i wouldve been taking a nap on my way back... longer the ride, the better. i just love sleeping lol. Dee, you be reacting the same way I would've reacted, idk if its bc we're both July Leos or what
Jayla Simmons
2023-12-20 16:49:51 +0000 UTCI don’t understand why some of my stories aligns with yours but with my so used to call “homeboys” 😂. I completely agree to the things that you did because I know for a fact I would have tbh!
MELANIN DES0
2023-12-20 11:40:40 +0000 UTCSomebody clip “I will drop you where the fuck you stand” and add that to a Stan Twitter compilation 😅
Azu Eleonu
2023-12-20 05:18:21 +0000 UTC31:59 do you not remember saying this? I didn’t make that up. Don’t think I’m being judgemental I think you are 100% right in this story but I also think you have poor judgment on who you make ur friends if this constantly happens to you… this isn’t an attack I support u bruh lol
Jay
2023-12-19 22:00:59 +0000 UTCMOST of the population live normal lives wym lmao have normal jobs, make "normal" amounts of money (most of the population being within a certain tax bracket, etc). So yes, my life is very different and as a result I've had several friends and even boyfriends be envious of me and it reflects in their treatment of me. I feel like you're oddly hearing what you want based on your own beliefs. This is why I was hesitant to even share these stories on here because people do weird shit like this then come off judgemental based on inaccurate info they made up. Go back and listen again, I said my other friend told me she was talking shit about me on IG once I got back from Brazil. And I never said they're not "cool", not sure where you pulled that from. Those two barely even know each other, they're only friends on IG. I'm certain you live a very different life than me...everyone treats me different based on what I have, so the dynamics of my friendships and relationships are gonna be very different than the "norm" based on that alone. So no, you're not gonna relate, not sure why you're trying to
Dee Shanell
2023-12-19 21:33:12 +0000 UTCSure but nobody lives a normal life I get what you saying tho. But friendships and relationships is something that everybody can relate to. Are you saying situations like this come from your lifestyle? Even when you said the girl u still friends with only told you the other one was talking shit about you only after they stopped being cool. That’s not weird ? Lol I’m genuinely curious. But I guess you don’t live a normal life so it wouldn’t make sense to me.
Jay
2023-12-19 19:15:55 +0000 UTCwhen she said "two" I just knew from that moment that I would've stopped responding atp.
Alton Alexander
2023-12-19 17:10:58 +0000 UTCThank you! I'm definitely making sure my kindness isn't taken for weakness these days though
Dee Shanell
2023-12-19 15:39:38 +0000 UTCYou may be right, it might not be normal but obviously I don't live a "normal" life. I don't make a normal amount of money, have a normal job nor do I live a normal lifestyle...sooo of course my life experiences are not gonna be normal lol and for the record, this was my friend for over 2 years and we hung out a LOT, so you're inaccurate with that assumption. I didn't just meet this girl and randomly call her my friend tf 😂
Dee Shanell
2023-12-19 15:37:44 +0000 UTCIt's not normal for YOU. If you've paid attention to these past 2 stories, both of her friends were clearly jealous of her. Maybe you don't have anything to be jealous of so you haven't experienced this 💀 she said she went on another trip with this friend the previous yr so it doesn't sound like she called her her friend too lightly, sounds like she knew her a while
Sharma Sue
2023-12-19 02:58:32 +0000 UTC“Ok best of luck” GURLLL BYEEE. Dee I’m sorry u went through this. This whole situation is definitely giving childish behavior when she’s a grown ass women that can own up to her shit and apologize for what she did to y’all. 🙄🩷 ( I love these stories lmao )
Jeremy
2023-12-19 00:39:53 +0000 UTCDee you really are a patient friend honestly. It seems like you give them kindness and patience and they always try to do too much lol
Amenra Malone
2023-12-19 00:06:08 +0000 UTCi think this happens more often to ppl who call others their friends too lightly. its not normal to to constantly have toxic friendships an having to cut ppl off.
Jay
2023-12-19 00:03:32 +0000 UTCI wouldn't have responded to her at all so she's lucky she even got that response from Judy. She was talking down to them, what did she expect???
Sharma Sue
2023-12-18 21:48:56 +0000 UTCThis is a goofy question, toxic people are everywhere lol you can't escape them no matter how hard you try
Sharma Sue
2023-12-18 21:46:38 +0000 UTCwhere do y’all find friendships like this
Jay
2023-12-18 19:58:44 +0000 UTCYeah sis is slow lol
Dee Shanell
2023-12-18 15:42:02 +0000 UTCDefinitely was giving hater vibes
Dee Shanell
2023-12-18 15:41:37 +0000 UTCYou should go back and look at the texts at 15:55. She said "wya I don't get why yall not texting back that shit rude af". I'm not responding to nobody when they disrespectful and cursing at me. If you want information, ask like you got some sense lol of course I didn't wanna be around her at that point
Dee Shanell
2023-12-18 15:41:09 +0000 UTCThe only thing issue that I can kind of agree with is the club situation. When she was asking where y’all were at, Judy only communicated that y’all were still there with no location. At this point since she is asking y’all can assume that she is there searching for y’all. When someone asks me where I am in the club where it’s a sea of people. I would typically say yes I’m still here, and in the back near the restroom or something like that where they can easily find me. The vibe from that text seemed like y’all didn’t want her to be around y'all at that point which she probably felt too. However, she still was overreacting to the situation in general.
Volflion
2023-12-18 15:00:37 +0000 UTC“Betty” saying you just wanted to “flex your money” makes it sound like she probably already had some weird undercover pressure for you. But I am lovinggg these story times 😂
reylt
2023-12-18 13:04:51 +0000 UTCNah you weren't wrong Dee. I do think that she was maybe looking for an okay after she texted y'all. I think communication could have been better but it's really not really y'all fault. She was looking for someone to entertain her BS and found the wrong ones. Everything else was her fault and she sound self centered.
Lauren
2023-12-18 06:22:29 +0000 UTCLooking at the lack of correct grammar and spelling in those texts from her makes me afraid of how little some ppl care about maintaining their education after high school
Michael Stanton
2023-12-18 02:10:24 +0000 UTCTea Time w/ Dee has become my favorite thing. keep em comin, Queen! 😭❤️
MykeYonce
2023-12-18 01:12:54 +0000 UTCLmao deadass
Dee Shanell
2023-12-17 23:38:11 +0000 UTC🤣
Alyssa Mena
2023-12-17 22:42:23 +0000 UTCThe plot to a tubi movie
ClihMinaj
2023-12-17 22:18:50 +0000 UTCI use to be like Petty Betty when i was teen, I'm glad my friends called me out on that, because i realise i was in the wrong and thats something i really regret. No you aint in the wrong, i feel like you shouldve beat the shit out of her, but respect for keeping your cool. Cant wait for the travel vlog.
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2023-12-17 20:44:22 +0000 UTCDefinitely! And you may be on to something about her wanting Judy to herself...Betty made a pass at me early in our friendship so I wouldn't be surprised, but that's a story for another day chile lmao
Dee Shanell
2023-12-17 20:27:40 +0000 UTC😂 stay tuned!
Dee Shanell
2023-12-17 20:25:16 +0000 UTCYeah I need to start doing that. I'm always trying to give people room to be flawed human beings and give them chances to grow and improve but clearly that's not working well for me lol
Dee Shanell
2023-12-17 20:24:49 +0000 UTCShe didn't 😂
Dee Shanell
2023-12-17 20:20:48 +0000 UTCshe sounds like a friend I used to have. thought everything revolved around her, only wanted me to herself, & never took accountability for anything. that’s what Betty sounds like it. like her issue was really with you & wanted Judy to herself 😂 cus why she was talking about you & tryna get Judy to leave you at the restaurant alone. yeah hater fasho lol
Kels McCall
2023-12-17 19:59:38 +0000 UTCoh dee this is the best one so far 😂😂😂😂 keep em going!!! when the next one ?
Jaee Johnson
2023-12-17 19:32:39 +0000 UTCIdk why but this week I've been heavy on this zodiac signs type research lately & now I'm starting to think it would be cool if I had more Leo friends in my life cause how you explained yourself & handled these situations, I identify with cool blooded but in honesty the more I was listening to you talk, I released that I was more like Jade cause once you piss me off, I first initially need space, then I have to gather my thoughts & once I'm able to explain my feelings & I see that the person is still playing in my face, I just cut communication off entirely.
Darian Diamond
2023-12-17 19:16:16 +0000 UTCBut you didn't win tho LMAO
Cedric Birgans
2023-12-17 19:03:14 +0000 UTC😂😂 keep ignoring, don’t let em win!!!
saba_nana
2023-12-17 18:59:46 +0000 UTCThank God! The devil is testing me, he tryna have me beat one of these girls' ass and go to jail 😭
Dee Shanell
2023-12-17 18:51:17 +0000 UTCur drama always wild 😭 thank god these friends are GONE!!
saba_nana
2023-12-17 18:40:17 +0000 UTCWow glad you got away from that friend, that's such an unfair burden to put on you
Dee Shanell
2023-12-17 17:52:24 +0000 UTCShe for sure has some unresolved issues because it wasn't that deep at all, we were so confused lol
Dee Shanell
2023-12-17 17:51:23 +0000 UTCYeahh as long as no one finds any of these ex friends and says anything, I'll keep this segment going. I don't need any additional drama with these crazy girls lol
Dee Shanell
2023-12-17 17:49:34 +0000 UTCThis sounds like a classic case of happy hoes aint hatin and hatin hoes aint happy lmao. One thing I can't stand though is someone who constantly complains like things are not always gonna go your way, do some soul searchin and make peace with it lol.
Zion
2023-12-17 17:44:01 +0000 UTCI had a similar experience not with traveling, but with a close friend. It ended with her blaming me for her mental health and suicidal thoughts. So this was a good reminder that cutting her off was a good decision. Much love Dee!
Gage Brown
2023-12-17 17:42:19 +0000 UTCIm not all the way finished with the video but so far, it seems like the friend got severe abandonment issues with a touch of narcissism and anger. There is nothing anybody can do for her if she dont decide to go to therapy about that. She took yall falling back deeper than what it actually was because she got triggers that even she probaly dont know about.
lilrickyfrm51
2023-12-17 17:41:39 +0000 UTCWe LOVE when Dee drags people. This is a great segment
Azu Eleonu
2023-12-17 17:22:05 +0000 UTCTea with Dee will be my fav segment of the patreon! Now all we have to do is not too much so she don’t tell us to go to hell and cut the segment 😭
Ben Turner
2023-12-17 17:06:57 +0000 UTCouuuu I had the post notifications on let me get some food and watch so I can be nosy
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2023-12-17 17:05:18 +0000 UTC
