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So you want to be my sub. Read this first. Are my expectations clear?

Added 2023-01-29 18:01:56 +0000 UTC

As an Sub under consideration your first requirement is to let go of any expectations you have of me. To submit to me means to succumb to my will and my expectations. I make no promises to fulfil your desires, I am not a service top. Do not think your money buys me. I owe you nothing but an open ear and the graciousness to allow you into my life.

You will find a way to be useful to me, helping me grow and improve my life. In the bedroom I already have everything I need, you can't help me there. As a Demisexual my turn-ons are highly connected to my emotions. Make me feel something and I'll reward you with an authentic D/s experience that is customized to be for your specific needs. No 2 subs are the same and the who I am to them as their dominate will also be different.

Secondly, I don't ever want to be the cause of your depression or hardship in life. So if I feel like you're taking things too far, I will put my foot down and say no. And I want you to communicate with me as well. Know your limits and play within them. My job is to push you to the edge and your job is tell me where that edge is when we find it.

With me it's far less about the physical and very much about the mental elements in BDSM. It's about a mutual, respectful agreement to tantalize each other fantasies. So you will communicate with me about your limits and feelings. I am not a mind reader. And if you ever need to go, talk to me so we can put closure to something we shared and move on with warm feelings.

You will worship me because it feels good to you and because it is your choice. Not because I demand it. I don't need it, I want it! But only if you are gifting it me willingly. I take no pleasure in collecting empty submission.

You will disregard everything you believe about "Femdom" and will dedicate yourself to learning who I am and how I do things and respect me as the unique playfully seductive woman I am.

Are my expectations clear? Say Yes Madame I consent to your expectations. Join the SM Insider Tier and send me a private message to formally introduce yourself so we can get to know each other