Focusing on a part of her body – Find something about her body that turns you on and focus on that, ignoring any other parts of her body that you might find boring or unattractive. For me I’ll focus on things like the size and curve of her ass, the thickness of her thighs, the cleavage between the top of her thighs and her hips when she sits down, the curve and sag of her tits, her eyes, her butt hole, her petite tiny frame. I can use a variety of different things to trigger a dirty perverted thought loop in my head. For example if I’m focusing on her butt hole I’ll imagine her saying things like “Please fuck my tight little asshole daddy, I want your big fat cock to stretch out my slutty asshole, I love getting my ass filled up by you daddy”. Then I can run that on loop again and again in my head to keep me excited and in a heightened state of sexual arousal.
Focusing on a part of her personality– This is incredibly easy to do if you two have genuine chemistry together, there’s going to something about the way she talks, the way she laughs, the way she smiles or the way she looks at you that just drives you wild. While you’re fucking her you can just whisper into her ear “Keep smiling at me” or “Keep giggling while I’m fucking you” to keep that trigger going and maintaining your state of arousal.
Smelling the back of her neck – This is a technique that myself and a lot of other male porn stars use to get ourselves aroused, by smelling the back of her neck we are breathing in a lot of female pheromones and thus triggering a physiological response. I’ll usually do this before we even start filming or photographing any of the sex in a scene to get my brain chemistry fired up and to tease/edge myself a little bit with excitement. The porn star Michael Vegas will even go as far as to smell a woman’s armpit in order to cause him to cum on command, there is erectile tissue in the nose that expands when you are aroused, so by overloading it with a dose of female pheromones from her armpit he causes himself to lose control and orgasm.
Grinding against her – I’ll usually do this from behind at the same time as I’m smelling the back of her neck, I’ll just grind my crotch into her booty to start the blood flow going to my dick and to create a nice sensation down there which will in turn trigger my sexual arousal.
Smelling and eating her pussy – I genuinely love the taste of pussy and I love getting a woman off, so if I have the opportunity to eat her out and turn her on I do it. I also like to smell the pubic mound just above her clit, where a lot of women like to grow a landing strip of pubic hair, this gives me a nice dose of female pheromones to get my brain chemistry fired up and thinking horny thoughts.