Friendship Heartbreak Herbal Blend

Friendship Heartbreak Herbal Blend 

Good morning moon babes! A few weeks ago on livestream you guys were asking me about friendship heartbreaks and how to overcome, heal and move on in a trusting way with others. I thought about this for a few days and wanted to share a blend I really like for situations like this.

I find that friendship breakups can be some of the hardest because you wholeheartedly end up trusting and sharing such vulnerable sides with your best friends. Growing, laughing, crying, and exploring with each other and with each other. This herbal blend will aid in healing, cleansing away the sad, lingering meanness/ anger, or heartache that surrounds the end of that friendship. I also like to cleanse anything that this person gave me that I do not wish to throw or give away with this herbal blend - allowing you to remember the good in the relationship instead of throwing everything away while still holding a beautiful energy.

You can use this blend and make a spell jar kit, you can blend this together into a bath and bathe in it (If you do I would recommend you do this for 3 days in a row.) You also can make a powder and dress candles with it, make sachets, hand washes before you have the final convo with them ect.

Things You'll Need:

-Rose for love and acceptance.

-Motherwort for warmth and loving energy and moving forward with protection.

-Butterfly pea for transformation and change.

-Fennel for support and communication

-Juniper for love and healing 

-Hyssop to cleanse away the negative energy surrounding the breakup in a positive way.

-Lavender

-Pink salt for cleansing 

-Rose water

-Rosehip

-Heather

-A bowl to mix and blend your herbs in.

-Pink chime candle for self love and love

-White chime candle for healing and to guide you towards new healthy relationships.

-Blue chime candle for the other person's healing journey.

-Pink or white sachet bag if you are making one or taking a bath with an organza bag.

How To Prep:

Cleanse your hands and tools with the rose water before beginning to get your herbal blend together. Do this at a sink and follow up with washing your hands with clean water, patting dry with a white cloth. Let whatever tools you want to cleanse air dry and then prep this mix at your altar.

For this I do water, liquor, or coffee libations for whatever spirits I want to involve in this spell if any. Lay any offerings, light YOUR favorite incense and begin prepping your blend placing one herb into your bowl at a time. This is the time to pray over each herb, reminisce about the best moments of the relationship, the moments you cherish and always will hold close to your heart. Pray that the moments that you want to forget no longer weigh heavily on you and that you both can move forward gracefully and with trust in new relationships.

Once your blend is ready you can allow it to charge on your altar in your bowl for 12 hours, letting the blue candle that you dress in olive oil, etch their name and birthday into it, and a small amount of the herbal blend. Let this candle burn on your altar near your bowl on a separate fireproof dish. Allow this to burn down completely then read the wax to see if there's any lingering feelings. Once your herbal blend has charged on your altar you can use it!

I hope those of you who utilize this blend like it and feel supported through this time. Ily

XOXO Anastasia