(uncut) The Love Next Door EP 10
Added 2024-10-01 23:04:17 +0000 UTC
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Comments
Where can I Watch 1 to 9 because there are no links đ on those
Shakira
2024-10-15 17:08:25 +0000 UTCGod, this is such a good show. I didn't know I was going to get so much about healing and relationship here. With the amount of times I've teared up in these last 2 episodes I'm seriously asking myself what's wrong with me? lol like, for real. Pms is over for me, why am I getting all of these tears?? The show is hitting me hard, man. I really love this cast. All my ships are sailing and and I even love the exes. When Choisseung brought her to the airport to say bye to her ex fiance--like, for real???? GOD! So many tears. What a guy. Such a good show, man.
raeven b.
2024-10-03 18:20:55 +0000 UTCAnd I say that with the grain of salt because sometimes people just need to hear it
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 14:38:18 +0000 UTCIâm taught if youâre very frustrated you should not talk to that person while you were in that state even if everything youâre feeling is justified as you can hear with my own commentary anytime you comment out of frustration it doesnât come out well.
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 14:38:02 +0000 UTCItâs a very complicated scenario, for me once the mother let her anger out on the drum set I was fine. Thatâs why she has a drum set to help her manage her frustration it just didnât need to be targeted towards her child in this scenario given what she went through
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 14:37:26 +0000 UTCThank you and I consider your entire response reasonable.
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 14:36:39 +0000 UTCNah I think emotional moments just create a difference of opinions, for every one of this moment - we get many other great ones because you wear your thoughts openly. Didnât mean to box you guys in as well, and happy youâre choosing to parent differently - all the blessings to your kid. What I meant was in the east this is still more or less the norm. I used to live in Asia and then moved to Canada, and Iâve absorbed a lot of the culture here, which could be similar to you guys hence why youâre different as parents compared to your parents. Also, I think every new generation just tries to do better than the previous generation. My parents parents were a lot stricter and more rigid than mine and Iâm sure Iâll learn from what I didnât like about my parents when I become one, and on and on it goes. ++ what even is the right response when your kid says they had cancer 3 years ago, you already feel like youâve failed as parents at that point and it takes a while to realize itâs not about YOU, they couldâve done it out of love. Complicated shit. Mom in this case hugged her sobbed, got angry, got sad, then did better.
Zzzboy888
2024-10-03 14:29:46 +0000 UTCShe has a lot of support this episode. Understandable
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 13:51:42 +0000 UTCthis is the only episode when i considered the mom's reaction to be justified.
Manha
2024-10-03 13:41:06 +0000 UTCThanks ZZZBOY888
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 13:40:31 +0000 UTCThanks Zzz, im being told my commentary made it difficult to watch. I donât wanna make peopleâs experience a bad one. My parents are Jamaican and my wife is Mexican. We both experience different cultures as well. Cant even put us in a box as westerners lol. The episode is very relatable because we experience this parenting and took a different path as parents.
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 13:40:17 +0000 UTCDonât think you need to hold back your thoughts - as the episode went on you acknowledged that the mom really does love her etc. Just think different cultures, eastern/western have different parenting styles and different ways of expressing love/care/hurt/anger, this wouldnât be a normal western parents reaction but very common eastern reaction. No point in holding back your thoughts, authenticity is best, this way everyone can explore all the different opinions that come up!
Zzzboy888
2024-10-03 13:18:46 +0000 UTCDonât think you need to hold back your thoughts - as the episode went on you acknowledged that the mom really does love her etc. Just think different cultures, eastern/western have different parenting styles and different ways of expressing love/care/hurt/anger, this wouldnât be a normal western parents reaction but very common eastern reaction. No point in holding back your thoughts, authenticity is best, this way everyone can explore all the different opinions that come up!
Zzzboy888
2024-10-03 13:18:14 +0000 UTCVery relatable
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 11:21:21 +0000 UTCYou both make sense to me.
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 11:21:11 +0000 UTCThanks for sharing
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 11:20:52 +0000 UTCI hear ya.
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 11:20:40 +0000 UTCI respect what you wrote about us. Sorry about that reaction. Iâll hold back my opinions of her in the remaining episodes or characters that frustrate me.
Rock Lee
2024-10-03 11:16:36 +0000 UTCthe mom is 100% justified in her reaction
liah
2024-10-03 03:39:24 +0000 UTCI understood the family and friends' response to a certain degree, but I did feel that it was too much. In my opinion, cancer is one of these things that warrant selfishness. It's like depression or grief. You don't ask someone in the bottom of a pit or drowning at sea to think about others. They're barely surviving, they have enough on their plate. Of course they'll be selfish. Of course they'll make the wrong decisions. It's a little bit selfish of THEM to be angry that when she was at her worst she didn't think about them. And I'm saying this as someone who lived it. My dad did this to us years ago. He was told he had cancer (it was a false positive, he did not). He waited until all the exams were done and months had passed to tell us he had had a scare. I didn't mind. I knew he went through hell and if it felt better for him at the time that's what matters. He had to do what he needed to do to manage an impossible situation.
Gianella B.
2024-10-02 23:49:23 +0000 UTCIt takes two to tango means exactly what it means. There is always something you could have done in a relationship to make it better. Trying to make only one person accountable is why so many relationships fail. I think ML's reaction is 100% right. He started out blaming her (and rightfully so), then thought about what HE could have done differently to avoid the situation. By the end of the day, if he HAD reached out and asked the right questions, things would have been different, so there was something he could have done to prevent it. Sure, he did not know anything. But he could have done it without knowing. I also have a problem with people asking too much of those who undergo mental health issues. I've been clinically depressed and trust me, you literally have no energy (physical or psychological) for anything. Talking to others becomes a chore, and you don't want to burden them with your depression. You can't ask someone in that situation to just act normal and communicate as if nothing was happening. It's like asking someone who broke both legs to walk. Friends and family have to step up their game for a while. Until they can walk again.
Gianella B.
2024-10-02 23:44:16 +0000 UTCYâall are so hard on the mum , it made it difficult to watch and understand yâall point of view. Every move she was making was unbelievable for yâall Lmaoo. I found her reaction understandable. She could not, in the moment, have an âappropriate reactionâ since itâs just not a âappropriate situationâ that her daughter put her in. Also she is blaming herself like crazy for being hard on her daughter to succeed. She would have never done this if she knew her daughter was sick. She literally treated her boy like a baby just because he was sick as a kid, I doubt she would have told seok-ryu to suck it up and work if she knew what she was going through. Be lenient, parents are human too
koma
2024-10-02 14:59:17 +0000 UTCMe too. I had a very serious burn on my foot which caused me to not walk for at least 2 weeks. And I did not tell anyone around me. Needless to say that it wasnât the solution. I learned how much hurt I did to my family then.
koma
2024-10-02 14:46:14 +0000 UTCShe was in the wrong 100% . She should feel bad about what she did. She should feel terrible actually. Her mom reaction is justified because how can you give birth to a whole human with all the strength that you have, take care of her, make sacrifices and have her hide that she is at the brink of death??? Thatâs just foul. Seok-ryu wronged her family and wronged her own self. Itâs not my business, but if that woman resembles your mum, then you have a good mum. A lousy mom I give you that, but at least a mom that cares. Donât take it for granted. Some people canât even get their mom to care about their terminal illnesses.
koma
2024-10-02 14:44:43 +0000 UTCThis was interesting to watch. As someone who can 100% relate to Seokryuâs whole family situation because it mirrors so much of my own, I still felt like she was the one in the wrong here with the way she handled everything about her sickness. The main reason she fell into depression is very much because her entire support system through that consisted of exactly one person because he happened to be there at the time, which is also insane to put on someone. She thinks she is being selfless by not telling people but ultimately she is being selfish because she is not doing something for them, she is doing it for herself. She is the one that doesnât have the courage to tell them the truth. And again, I have been Seokryu, and I will be the first to say I was wrong too.
zaphyre
2024-10-02 10:16:06 +0000 UTCNah, I blame Bae Seok for all of this. Despite her mom giving her a hard time, making a decision to have a life-threatening surgery to remove 80% of your stomach and not telling your parents was selfish and irresponsible. Her fiancé at the time should have made her contact them. Now her mom and dad have to live with knowing all the times they talked to her on the phone thinking everything was okay, she was suffering through the most unimaginable pain while dealing with depression and choosing to hide it. I get the isolation, fatigue, dark thoughts, etc. that comes with depression. That hole is deep. Still, she was talking with her parents and kept hiding it. It's not like she became a recluse and was dodging them. Yes, her mom is a jerk and said unspeakable things that she will have to atone for; yet, there is no excuse for the pain she caused her family by hiding her diagnosis. She needs empathy and understanding now; yet, she has a habit of selfishly taking away the opportunity for her loved ones to support her when she needs it. Understandably, she did not want them to worry, but what if she died during surgery or had complications? What then? What was her excuse for not telling them when she got better? They still would not know if Choi hadn't found the hospital papers. I get Choi wanting to blame himself but I'm not going for that. She left and went to the US all while barely keeping in touch with her two best friends. Choi seeing her for the first time in years coming out of the same residence at night with a man he knew nothing about probably killed him emotionally. He had no idea she had a boyfriend. Not taking her calls was the right thing to do for his emotional stability. He needed time to sort out his emotions. He should not blame himself for something he was not privy to. None of her texts to him screamed importance or emergency. In his mind, he needed to get it together before accepting that the love of his life was loving another. Of all her texts to him, why not say, "Call me it is important or I really need to talk to you?" Instead, she kept texting him like any of us would if we had a friend who was mad at us. Judging from her behavior with her parents, she would have continued to hide it from him even if he answered her calls. Choi's internal dialogue is the perfect example of how we justify blaming ourselves once we become aware of what we did not know. Choi telling himself Bae was alone for a long time when she wasn't (she had a supportive fiance). Him saying he was out of reach to her when he wasn't ( he would respond to her via text. He just kept it short and sweet). It always fascinates me how our ability to empathize with one's peril often justifies us turning a blind eye to their accountability.
Bran Bran
2024-10-02 05:55:57 +0000 UTCFeels so relatable this show, they do a great job of showing that nobody is really perfect and everyoneâs just trying their best and learning from the mistakes
Zzzboy888
2024-10-02 02:18:00 +0000 UTC
