(uncut) Queen Of Tears Ep 4
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43:32 "IN MY HOUSE" 😡😡 no literally, cause i would have gone to jail that day
Olive Abum
2024-04-17 01:18:40 +0000 UTCI am a new patreon, I usually don't comment but I must now. I really enjoyed your authentic reaction/comments. Please continue what you guys have been doing. You are doing great.
Kristine
2024-04-15 15:03:16 +0000 UTC@unphazed Lol. You said trolling at the end and i missed it. But you was spittin lmao
Rock Lee
2024-04-15 11:13:37 +0000 UTCThat sounds like a burn out just waiting to happen
strange& sleepless
2024-04-15 04:39:03 +0000 UTCWow. While i wont generalize men and woman. THIS IS ME. You accurately described my mental process. Thats exactly it. I wasn't gonna explain my feelings further because i already understood how I sounded and was just gonna take what came because i was prepared mentally lol.
Rock Lee
2024-04-15 03:19:45 +0000 UTCHey strange, men don't just want to be heard, they also want solutions. If they do share a weakness, they expect a solution because talking about a problem without a solution is called complaining. Sharing your weaknesses without sharing solutions is not sexy! Like if you tell your partner one of your weaknesses, you better have a solution. For example if you tell your girl you are bad at sports, the next sentence should be but I'm going to practice until I'm good at it. Don't just say I'm bad at sports and end it there! Also it should be known that everything is energy, vibration, and frequency. If you tell your wife you had a bad day at work, most likely you will feel negative emotions and what are emotions? emotions are energy in motion! your subconscious mind is always listening, so you complaining about your day at work to your wife means you are ungrateful that you have a job and according to the law of attraction, what you focus on expands so you telling your wife how bad your day was, the universe and subconscious mind hear this, since words are spell and thoughts are powerful, the universe will have no choice but to manifest bad experiences at your workplace! and this is all because you chose to be vulnerable with your partner instead of man up and being stoic not letting ANYTHING rattle your emotional state because your emotional state determines your reality. Just trolling btw, hope you have a great time reading this essay lol
Unfazed27
2024-04-15 02:52:40 +0000 UTCIt’s pointless to share you’re vulnerabilities with women. It doesn’t solve them and they just use it against you when they mad.
Pilausky
2024-04-15 00:32:09 +0000 UTCMakes sense
Rock Lee
2024-04-14 20:30:48 +0000 UTCI respect the point of view. I anticipated this type of remark.
Rock Lee
2024-04-14 20:30:23 +0000 UTCI can only speak for myself but I (as a woman) would have a hard time emotionally connecting to my partner if they were never vulnerable with me. And if I don't feel emotionally connected, I likely wouldn't feel comfortable being vulnerable in front of them either.
strange& sleepless
2024-04-14 20:14:37 +0000 UTCfrom my point of view, never sharing your weaknesses IS a weakness But do what you gotta do xD
strange& sleepless
2024-04-14 19:54:19 +0000 UTC😂 gotcha but it's all good 😂
Heavenly Demonic Emperor
2024-04-14 13:08:29 +0000 UTCI don’t retain names. Lol. So for us yea. Lol. Sorry
Rock Lee
2024-04-14 12:06:07 +0000 UTC26:10 so are we gonna skip the fact they name drop our Crash Landing Onto You Mc's there 😂
Heavenly Demonic Emperor
2024-04-14 11:30:59 +0000 UTCAs for me I blame them both for being not being open to each other about their feelings because if you look deeper both characters do alot behinds the scenes for the other.
Francis M
2024-04-14 10:33:32 +0000 UTCWhy wouldn’t people sympathize with him?
Luqman Muhammad
2024-04-14 04:39:56 +0000 UTCI love your reactions because I didn't think of him as shitty as first but after you're watch through I have definitely switched sides haha
Elicia Mitchem
2024-04-14 03:52:10 +0000 UTCThank you
Rock Lee
2024-04-14 03:36:03 +0000 UTCDon’t feel bad about your reactions. A lot of people don’t like the ml because of everything you guys are pointing out. I’m surprised to see some people here sympathize with him but yeah. He’s meant to be flawed (the writers and actor confirmed it). We also expected to dislike the female lead but people instead gravitated towards her and want the best for her. Complex female characters also get a lot more hate than a complex male character so I’m happy to see this one is being done right. That’s why the show is called Queen of tears. She’s the source of all our tears because we wanna protect her but can’t. PSA both parents grieving is very tough but remember that the woman is the one carrying the child so her grieve will be so much more especially if she was wanted the baby
Majestic
2024-04-14 02:57:10 +0000 UTCIts cool. Thank you.
Rock Lee
2024-04-13 23:35:55 +0000 UTCjust to clarify, I'm sorry about wording the comment the way I did. I'll try to word my opinions better if I feel strongly again. Hadn't realized I was apart of a dogpiling in the comments.
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2024-04-13 21:02:19 +0000 UTCDirector and Lee's reactions are so damn relatable 😂 Because who could resist that beauty??
summer
2024-04-13 20:31:51 +0000 UTCAbsolutely, I didn't mean to make it sound like I want them to change the way they react. This is the first time i felt like ive needed to comment. Idk if there is a message history on pateron but you will see ive never participated in wanting reactors to change how they react. I will continue to watch because I enjoy these discussions. Disregard my last sentence please, but I still want my opinion out in the ether. I still strongly feel that the man doesn't deserve the hate. I don't want the crew to feel the same way just because I feel that way. But if I don't voice my opinions then I might as well never comment and interact
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2024-04-13 20:27:22 +0000 UTCExactly my point! Also, every single time he needs to make the first step when it comes to reconciling. . . Plus, I’m yet to see a scene in this drama where the FL defends or acknowledges her husband in front of him. The husband never changed! He just stop caring about a person that does not validate him or show him love. She never meets him halfway.. She doesn’t see the trauma she put him in
K.A
2024-04-13 20:19:19 +0000 UTCOh thank God we’re off streamable 🙏
Pilausky
2024-04-13 19:40:27 +0000 UTCLiterally this, worded better than I could. Wasn't until Queen of Tears that I remembered why I stopped reading comments after Start-Up because of how differently people treat male characters vs their female counterparts.
Kro
2024-04-13 18:35:41 +0000 UTCThis was a great episode! I feel like the orphan evil guy is going to betray the matchmaker or something cause he’s such a douche. I also feel like Hae-in will have an episode while at work cause it’s happening more than usual; poor girl. And our main couple most likely couldn’t recover after the lost of the baby (we don’t know how that happened yet, so I’m sure the show will throw pieces little by little), they don’t communicate and it might be why they are in this state of not sleeping on the same bed and their separation…
94_h
2024-04-13 18:26:43 +0000 UTCWant to start off by saying this is my first time commenting despite being a Patreon member for a while but I genuinely can’t stand seeing kdrama fans be like this amongst reactors. I enjoy your real reactions and thoughts even if I don’t agree with them. I think people really need to understand that both characters are flawed because we as humans are and that’s what makes this series so great! Now, some of these commenters have me confused because they tell you not to chose sides and stop hating on Hyunwoo while stating their on Hyunwoo’s side and making Haein out to be a horrible person. Haein just really doesn’t know how to communicate her feelings at all and yes I mean “doesn’t know”. People talk about how suffocating and terrible it is for Hyunwoo to deal with his in-laws but fail to recognize that those are Haein’s parents. Imagine how suffocating and emotionally stunting it must have been being RAISED by them. She literally didn’t even want to tell her parents about her illness because she assumes they wouldn’t care, if that doesn’t tell you just a bit of what she dealt with growing up idk what will. Anyways, this doesn’t excuse her not being communicative but just to explain why she isn’t. This is also NOT saying Hyunwoo’s feelings are invalid, they’re 100% valid!!! It’s more to say that THEY NEED TO COMMUNICATE!!!! Lastly, it really irks me how differently people treat male leads vs female leads. In most kdrama’s male leads are often the rich, cold ones with horrible communication skills and childhood trauma and everyone just babies their actions towards the female leads despite some things being dead wrong but now that Queen of Tears has a rich, cold female lead suddenly people realize how wrong these types of actions are (not communicating, only defending behind their back, let the parents walk all over them). Them rose tinted glasses come off so quick when it isn’t an attractive male lead doing it lol. Anyway’s that just me two cents, have fun with your reactions and don’t let those comments take away your authenticity!!! Sorry for the essay lol!!
Kay
2024-04-13 17:35:34 +0000 UTChe even made a reference to Jiwon's role in Fight for my Way in the first episode when he got drunk, he was quoting her aegyo from that role
Mochi
2024-04-13 16:35:21 +0000 UTCShe really does be behind the scenes setting people straight about her man and I love that.
raeven b.
2024-04-13 15:44:08 +0000 UTCIdk why there’s still this whole picking sides thing after episodes 2-3. It’s pretty clear by this point they both love each other and they don’t necessarily mean the things they say. I didn’t see your comments directed towards the husband as hate, you’re supposed to be frustrated with them, or him or her. We get to watch them slowly ‘redeem’ themselves and fall in love with one another all over again. Don’t censor yourselves!!
Kro
2024-04-13 15:14:46 +0000 UTCSorry wrote fast and forgot I was trying to say Hae-Yin. Still not good with remembering correctly Korean names even after watching kdrama for years.
Thamor
2024-04-13 14:44:04 +0000 UTCHey I say do whatever you want, hate, dislike or anything else u feel, it is authentic. At the end of the day it is what it is, we are watching this emotionally and it just makes everyone overly sensitive. And for those comparing what you would do in rl I say “chill” this is entertainment at its finest. Now that being said…let me stir the pot a little 😈 😈 😈 I say let that man have his freedom I’m all for the husband over here. I’m taking sides I don’t care. This is not rl. Nothing wrong with the queen but I just relate to him more I was him once upon a time(minus the billions of course🤣🤣🤣) but I get him. I do take sides my emotions are invested and I love the real raw reactions we get from u guys. I guess the queen has her reasons too I just don’t care rn I just want his freedom 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 So …. To all who don’t agree… 🥊 🥊 🥊 fight me in the comments #suminslogic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LightMyPath Star
2024-04-13 14:40:09 +0000 UTCThank you Appleee
Rock Lee
2024-04-13 14:28:09 +0000 UTCIt's their reaction not yours. Others want to hear their raw opinions and reactions and prefer not to filter them just for the sake of pleasing some patreons. Hope you stop commenting like this too.
Appleee
2024-04-13 13:59:54 +0000 UTCSorry but who's Ye Jin?
Appleee
2024-04-13 13:57:29 +0000 UTCOk. This starts to cut into authenticity. You have a right to your feelings. I can give into your request. We have to withhold how we feel or cut them from the discussion. You want authentic thoughts or us to cater to individuals and keep more thoughts off the video
Rock Lee
2024-04-13 13:31:00 +0000 UTCMr Yoon really acting like man a yard (as Jamaicans would say) in someone else's house is crazy. But I love that Haein is a "my man my man my man" girl because she does have a good man lol. Mr Yoon says she "relies" on him but Hyunwoo complements the life she wants and can be reliable in the ways she needs
Sal
2024-04-13 12:28:59 +0000 UTCHonestly what I understand is that all their problems stem from the wife's inability to be truthful and honest with her husband. She treats him to his face like a client, while behind his back we see that she loves him, but the husband never see this side of her which is the root cause of their problems.
Thamor
2024-04-13 12:10:39 +0000 UTCI am still 100% with Hyun-Woo as the husband has every right still to behave like how he does. Just for clarification he wouldn't be behaving like this if Hae-Yin would be truthful in front of him about the things she does behind his back. Like I said in earlier episode comment, it's just one big miscommunication and misunderstandings, but what I see is that the wife is much more to blame for that than the husband. I do have sympathy and rooting for the to win this tumor, but in my mind that tumor isn't the cause for their marriage problems and should be separate from it. Ps. I had one of those exact MP3 players, I like how small they were to use for walks and in my work.
Thamor
2024-04-13 12:09:21 +0000 UTC100% agree, I don't dislike her. But her personality is hiding every good thing she does from her husband is what is causing the rift between them in these 4 episodes. She isn't being honest and truthful when facing her husband.
Thamor
2024-04-13 12:05:46 +0000 UTCThe baby part broke them and will probably reunite them if they talk about it later on. Also, I loved the way she helped out his family during the election.
KPK
2024-04-13 10:12:20 +0000 UTCThis episode made me completely understand why the husband (Hyun-woo) reached his breaking point in episode 1. The family asking the couple to have the baby and then the wife acting like it's nothing despite their history - yep, hard not to feel any negative feelings towards them all in this situation. Of course we as the audience know that the wife was only pretending, but what a terrible choice that was... Again, I feel so bad for these two. And rooting for them both! Side note: Maybe it's just me, but I honestly don't buy that the husband actually wanted his wife dead at any point. Sure, he must have felt temporary relief after being scared to ask for divorce, but when she was actually about to die (from the boar attack), he instinctively stepped in to save her, without any hesitation.
Marvelous JJ
2024-04-13 09:19:35 +0000 UTCI agree
XSHINeeBAP
2024-04-13 08:13:51 +0000 UTCI don’t care what anyone says I’m team Hyun-woo! lol I feel like people are siding with the Female lead (or being more sympathetic) because she is sick. I believe that the FL is more toxic and caused more damaged to their marriage than the ML.
K.A
2024-04-13 08:05:25 +0000 UTCjust for reference, at 26:12 when he was talking about Hyunbin and Son Ye Jin those are the real names of the main leads in "Crash Landing on You", they were mentioned bc they got married irl and even had a baby together.
zuhaaa
2024-04-13 07:14:10 +0000 UTC27:35 Omg I didn't expect him to do the Suzy smile 🤣
Dilmurod
2024-04-13 07:07:49 +0000 UTCThat crashing landing on you reference, the writer knows what shes doing
Dilmurod
2024-04-13 07:01:34 +0000 UTCside with the wife all day everyday, but i just find it hard to watch the beginning discussions about the hubby. why can't we just empathize with both? im glad the end talks made it sound more like yall understand both sides of the relationship, but i hope theres not going to be reaction after reaction shitting on the man
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2024-04-13 05:56:04 +0000 UTCFinally we come to this episode...one of the most relatable things about Hae-in's personality is the overcorrection to hyper independence and forced indifference to emotions because of how she was raised and the trauma she has felt. It's SO relatable and I keep saying it like a broken record but I lived this. My marriage literally fell apart for these same reasons. Neither of us could communicate properly and unfortunately...I was so hyperindependent that I couldn't trust or rely on my partner in the ways he needed to be needed and vice versa same for my partner. Shoutout to yall for your very honest and vulnerable opinions. I really enjoy yall's takes and thoughts when it comes to this show. I'm very glad we are getting to the meat of what is happening between this couple and seeing how the family is developing personalities and individuality is such a wild journey.
Mochi
2024-04-13 02:42:21 +0000 UTCThank youuuuu! 🫶
Appleee
2024-04-13 02:37:55 +0000 UTComg again :O what a good friday
cloudy
2024-04-13 02:20:19 +0000 UTCI was literally just thinking about how excited I was for you guys to get into this episode (cause a new one drops tmr) and then you posted lmao🥰👍🏾
Brooklynn Turner
2024-04-13 00:49:30 +0000 UTC
