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(uncut) Queen Of Tears Ep 3 READ CAPTION

Yall got me writing thesis' now

Ladies and gentlemen, when it comes to the heartbreaking ordeal of divorce between two individuals who once shared love, there are no victors. It's a tangled mess, fraught with conflicting perspectives. Each party sees things through their own unique lens, and it's all too easy to align with one side while dismissing the validity of the other. But let's not forget, there are three sides to every story: his side, her side, and the complete picture.

To truly understand, we must set aside our own biases and immerse ourselves in the intricacies of another person's life. We must consider how they process information, their upbringing, their sense of right and wrong, and so much more. It's a complex tapestry woven from individual experiences and beliefs.

Episode 2 of the show really stirred up some intense emotions among viewers, and it's no wonder given the raw intensity of the narrative. Now, as for where my allegiance lies... well, let's just say I'm firmly on Team Wife, albeit for my own reasons. I'm someone who can usually separate logic from emotion and choose accordingly. Logically, I recognize that blame isn't the answer; it's clear there's a breakdown in communication and other factors at play. But where's the fun in being strictly logical, especially when it comes to TV? So, I'm going with my gut and rooting for Wifey. Call me a hopeless romantic or a simp, but that's where my heart lies.

So, that's my reaction and take on the matter. Enjoy the rest of the show, and may it continue to captivate and provoke thought.

PS...The husband is a great man, and completely understandable in how he feels..
Also TeamGreen when house of dragons comes back




if your curious how i write these

"keep my same style of communciation and writing level..just make this easy to read and fix confusing grammar "Folks, there are no winners in a divorce of two people who loved/loved each other. It's messy. Each party has a perspective unique to them and if thats the perspective you focus on, you may easily pick a side and disregard the legitmacy of the other party.There is 3 sides. His persepctive, her perspective, and the complete perspective. It requires you to but away a bit of your own personal bias and rules and truly submerge into a persons scenerio, taking into account how they process information, how they were raised, what they know to be right or wrong, etc.I found people got very passionate and personal on episode 2...lol..thats because the show is REALLY intense. That being said..............we are generally Teamwife for different reasons lol. Speaking for myself. I am the type who seperates logical and emotion and can pick either for the situation I am in. Logically i find there is no person to blame...the 2 have a communication problem...among a few other variables....but being held to logic is not a fun way to watch TV...so i am going with my feelings and what i want to think...and what I want is to cheer for Wifey..lol i'm such a simp...so that is the reaction and the take...enjoy your watch"

ChatGPT

ChatGPT

Ladies and gentlemen, when it comes to the heartbreaking ordeal of divorce between two individuals who once shared love, there are no victors. It's a tangled mess, fraught with conflicting perspectives. Each party sees things through their own unique lens, and it's all too easy to align with one side while dismissing the validity of the other. But let's not forget, there are three sides to every story: his side, her side, and the complete picture.

To truly understand, we must set aside our own biases and immerse ourselves in the intricacies of another person's life. We must consider how they process information, their upbringing, their sense of right and wrong, and so much more. It's a complex tapestry woven from individual experiences and beliefs.

Episode 2 of the show really stirred up some intense emotions among viewers, and it's no wonder given the raw intensity of the narrative. Now, as for where my allegiance lies... well, let's just say I'm firmly on Team Wife, albeit for my own reasons. I'm someone who can usually separate logic from emotion and choose accordingly. Logically, I recognize that blame isn't the answer; it's clear there's a breakdown in communication and other factors at play. But where's the fun in being strictly logical, especially when it comes to TV? So, I'm going with my gut and rooting for Wifey. Call me a hopeless romantic or a simp, but that's where my heart lies.

So, that's my reaction and take on the matter. Enjoy the rest of the show, and may it continue to captivate and provoke thought."

(uncut) Queen Of Tears Ep 3 READ CAPTION

Comments

You should be able to see it

Rock Lee

u not the only one

Shoua Hang

i saw comment on another platforms saying that she promised him that she will stay and defend him from her family, but actually he first promised her that he will be on her side , that shows he never stood with her in beginning before even her family interfered with them , that's my opinon

Hend Taha

He doesn't. If he just wanted to get out he wouldn't need to suddenly act like he liked her (after being cold towards her all the time). He could just stay married with her and act just as distant as always until she died. He'd be free regardless. But his friend told him he'd lose all his money if he just got out, so it'd be better to treat her well until she changes her will and leaves him her assets. That's what he's doing.

Gianella B.

Is that what he’s truly trying to do? I thought he wanted to just get out alive and unscathed.

Luqman Muhammad

am i the only one unable to see the video

Shreya

Yes Director, aunty is from Crash Landing Onto You the General's Wife 😂 she bad asf ngl... thiccest and the baddest aunty bro gah damn mmmmm mmmmm!!!!

Heavenly Demonic Emperor

i only say this as someone who regularly questions why people overreact to me when i say things and why people don't understand when I (in my mind) express myself clearly, but in reality, we all perceive things through a skewed lens. She is an unreliable narrator as has been proven multiple times mainly due to her tumor and her inability to directly be vulnerable with her husband. First example of this is in their first monologues of how they met. Both of them had completely different perspectives on the same story because neither of them communicate properly to eachother. They're both tsundere. One is more obvious emotionally toward others(because he has a good mother imho), the other is more calculated and reserved.

Mochi

that's the thing about tsundere trope, they say logical things to try and rationalize irrational behavior to cover up or conceal vulnerability for fear of looking weak(tie that in with pre-existing generational trauma from sexism and emotional abuse), and you get Haein. I respect your theory though ^-^ I resonate pretty hard with her character to the point it kinda hurts to see and had me crying on the phone with my dad the other day cause I was like dang...this what yall be feeling like??? my bad T^T (also got divorced for similar reasons to boot) so this show really really hits home in a lot of ways. like i said though, the show will reveal, without spoiling

Mochi

Pondering....Her being a tsundere would definitely be on target if it was just about her being purposely closed-off. From my POV it's deeper than that. She clearly displays zero understanding of emotional intelligence. There is nothing there behind those eyes. She rejects any logic or reasoning as it relates to feeling anything for anyone. She has already validated this. The emotional perceptiveness (EP) we are currently witnessing is a direct result of the tumor. Even with this new found EP, she is still confused and lacks understanding as to why she feels what she feels. Poor thing even told the doctor with a straight face "my brain isn't functioning properly. I could not stop laughing at this part even though it was really sad to watch. Empathy and Sympathy (E&S) are really new to her. Look at the measures she takes to help her subordinates. Then after she helps them, she tells herself that it was the logical thing to do; as opposed to, feeling good about helping someone. To me that's beyond being a tsundere. What's interesting about all of this is that she has always been consciously aware that she is cold-hearted and mean spirited towards people; yet, she has never done anything to be a better person. She actually chose to be this way because it has been working for her all this time. Emotional intelligence=responsibility for words, decisions, consequences, feelings, and emotions. I truly feel bad for her because you can see how this new found (EP) completely alters her personality evoking shock and awe. @Director said it best. She is playing the hell out of this role the way she is able to mix her emotions in the span of a few seconds.

Bran Bran

I stay team wife. She does do annoying things, but I can't quite forgive him for being relieved when she said she was going to die. I understand falling out of love and wanting a divorce and to be free from what is seemingly a loveless marriage, but it's a little far to be happy someone you're with is telling you they're dying (unless they're actually abusive and awful, which she isn't). At least from my perspective.

Artemis Delphinia

I can see why you would see that and it would be a cool concept but it's more she's just a Tsundere and raised in a toxic family dynamic. The show will reveal more. This episode actually shows a lot about her emotional perceptiveness, she just doesn't express it or necessarily understand but she does feel and empathize as shown in her actions of trying to help the people around her with their problems while still remaining "indifferent". It's classic tsundere, to show you care moreso in actions but get embarrassed or insecure if someone asks you to say it directly. You can see how she gets flustered or covers up any sort of perceived "weakness" or "delicateness" because she wants to project this powerhouse badass femme fatale energy so she has to be cold and calculating

Mochi

Again thank you very much for continuously reacting to Queen of Tears! ❤️❤️❤️

Appleee

literally his smirk triggered tf out of me like JAEJUN WHY ARE YOU HERE I THOUGHT YOU DIED IN CEMENT

Mochi

this is very true, as it should be honestly. no one likes talking to a mirror ~

Mochi

i understand lol

Mochi

I understand. We pay attention to different things. Makes sense to me

Rock Lee

Oh ok cool. I really enjoyed that

Rock Lee

To be honest, I'm also team wife. Putting myself in Hyunwoo place, I can't say I wouldn't be relieved that my cold and domineering partner would die and save me from a messy and destructive divorce. I think it's understandable, when you really think the relationship can't be mended and that everybody around her is toxic. I would stay and bear with it until she died, so I can understand that. But I would never, NEVER deceive my partner in order to get their money. No matter what they put me through, this is a DYING person. You got to be a whole different kind of evil to try to rip off a dying person who's already going through hell. This, to me, is hard to swallow and if I was Hae-in, it would be completely unforgivable. But it is a drama, so it probably will be haha

Gianella B.

It's funny how ppl it's so sensitive about tv shows, let ppl enjoy and support whoever they want. No need to explain why, that's the beauty of kdrama. Why act so offended about fiction? We're enjoying a show, not a real-life scenario.

Maria Romero

Gr8 thesis! I'm team THEM because supporting one of them automatically implies supporting the other too. Also, I love the energy of all 3 team members in this episode.

KPK

I loved the ending discussion, it was fantastic.

94_h

Honestly, I ‘m team THEM. I want them together and am actually rooting for their marriage. Together they would be a power couple. We can see that love exists there. Watching this for a second time I had an epiphany regarding Hae-In. Similar to Jack Reacher, I think Hae-In has Alexithymia or Affect syndrome (known as emotional blindness, with alexithymia you have difficulty experiencing, identifying, and expressing emotions). This is connected to some form of PTSD which has not been revealed. In my opinion, Hae-In's character displays the Blunted Affect (When your outward appearance suggest that you aren’t feeling strong emotions, even when you’re talking about emotional experiences. You often display a mismatch between what you’re feeling and what other people may think you’re feeling based on your physical expressions). In thinking about it, she couldn’t even emotionally connect to experience of being told she had three months to live. I think @Adorkable was on to something when she said the tumor is changing her personality. I just see it doing so in the opposite direction. I think the tumor is overriding her Blunted Affect; thus, allowing her to experience empathy and sympathy. This would explain a lot. In this episode, after the conversation with her assistant about "a wife’s heart fluttering for their husband,” she immediately went to her doctor and said, “I’ve been very strange these days because I’m feeling sympathy for people and I’ve always been cold-hearted.” In her flashbacks with her husband we see her being loving, laughing, expressing happiness; yet, when he presently shows her affection she seems lost like she never experienced it with him before. This is because one of the coping strategies with Affects is to practice expressing emotions in various social settings. They grow to learn what the expressed emotion should look like when displayed. Based on the observation others, they learn to adapt emotional appropriateness (e.g. when to laugh, express happiness and joy, anger, etc). Unfortunately, there is no emotional experience connected to physical display. This is why she acts brand new like deer in the headlights when her husband is affectionate towards her. She genuinely has no recollection of the emotional experience. She knows they were happy and that he loves her, she just can’t emotionally connect to the experience of being loved and being happy. An example of this is when she reciting her husband’s words verbatim regarding what love is at the dinner table with the psycho. She observed what her husband felt when he said those words to her; as a result, those words became her "MODEL "for defining love. The tumor is acting as a bridge connecting the emotional experience to the physical actions between her and her husband. Gosh the writing in this drama is phenomenal. P.S. I became obsessed and wanted to learn more and more about Alexithymia form the KDrama “Stranger” and BL Drama “We Best Love.” It’s a fascinating condition. In the series Stranger, the ML would literally get blackout migraines and pass out when he attempted to show emotions.

Bran Bran

Yes team wifey , she suffered most of her life, from her childhood till adulthood, nobody tried to understand her , or why she lacks communication or why she behaves in such cold mannar

Hend Taha

I said it at the end of ep 2 I'm on their team the family is the issue. If there was a way the two of them could get away from the mess that is her family for a while and just be with each other Using Their Words it would make such a big difference. They could call it a baby making trip for the family 🤣🤣🤣

September

Yeaaaa that one scene in ep 1 is really painful to think about with later ep context, so ive been on the side of both have their issues and both are the reason for the marriage breaking down. They need alot of work to develop the relationship again and come out stronger.

Yoruka

Team Green all the way.

Jerome

They said *anyone* who betrayed them. The father even gave an example of a loyal employee that left after 20yrs and how he wanted to humiliate him, just for leaving. Why would he think he is exempt from that especially since he's already seen how this family works.

Infinite Ree

Love that this flipped the usual kdrama trope kn it's head. Usually it's the male MC is rich with the cold personality and family trauma. They showed Hyunwoo as the softer of the two but this episode let's us know she still sees him as "manly" and very much attracted to her husband.

Sal

Rooting for the wife mainly because she's terminally ill and I could relate to her character personality wise certainly not the affluence. I'd keep saying communication issues both knew each other's personalities before getting married and living in that family home. They probably never discussed the family dynamic or how they would handle it together 🫠

Sal

Did they actually threaten him though? Or he assumed those threats would apply to him? I don't recall actual threats to him

Sal

THIS. Some episodes really shake me emotionally and got me considering my stance on life in general. This show is just so thought provoking.

Mochi

I genuinely root for both of these two. They forgot how much they used to love each other and I'm just hoping they can find their way back. Although to be fair, there's a scene in episode 1 that becomes much, much worse from my perspective the more we learn about their history. So I really empathize with the husband a lot, just as much as with the wife.

Marvelous JJ

fair, i just see something with a lot of traction and lurk but don't really comment if it doesn't move me to do so

Mochi

Mood. We have viewer perspective like an mf in this show and it bites us in the ass like immediately after we choose a side. Ironically that's why I really like the story telling of A Shop For Killers cause our perspective is the protagonist perspective until the story unfolds so we remain just as blind as her

Mochi

she's from Apink too ~♡

Mochi

i mean i saw 1 but i just dismiss ignorant one sided arguments generally lol

Mochi

gotta check the threads to know lol

Rock Lee

you gotta read the comments i participate to know than, cuz there is a lot of comments and i focus on the ones that are spicy

Rock Lee

Team Black always >.>

Mochi

Who are yall shadow boxing in the ending comments??? Cause I feel like most rational people would not side with the husband regardless, even understanding(as i am further episodes in) there is not right person in this. If you really are die hard defending either side....maybe you shouldn't get married until you work on yourself imho >.> cause...whew if i see one toxic take on this show it's gonna remind me why i gatekeep kdramas lol

Mochi

As someone who happens to be very much like Hae-in personality wise(tend to be cold and hypercritical of my partners and not easy with communicating positive affection and love...i.e...being "soft and effeminate"), i resonate a LOT with her character dynamic and coming from a big affluent family doesn't help....and then you toss in the sexism and the expectations of you, it really warps your mind. I relate even more to Auntie Beomja in terms of being the family pariah as well.

Mochi

lack of healthy communication is definitely a huge issue between these 2 because the both of them are so internal and calculated because they are smart, the immense pressure to be perfect by their families(more so hae-in's family)...it also doesn't help that they all live in the same house and he just has to basically be at their beck an call non stop...and then there is just so much to be said about how her mom puts their son on a pedestal after losing their other son and that she blames hae in....and basically holds this grudge against her i think that really warped our girl's sense of love and communication entirely. in my experience, we learn love from our parents first before the rest of the world...so if our parents don't give us the right tool set, we often fail when love does arrive in front of us.

Mochi

i gotta be honest i didn't see many comments really choosing sides 😪 i think generally people agree that it takes 2 sides to every marriage. this show really had me thinking about my divorce and just everything a looot.

Mochi

Ah I knew I knew his face

Pilausky

You posting this at this time.. now work is gonna feel 10x longer for me 😂😂

cloudy

Thank you both. I have a good creative mind but I don’t have skills such as writing or drawing. So I’m just excited to have tools so I can execute the version of myself I want to project. I like dope speeches and dialogue but i dont have the skills within myself without taking class or something or hiring another person. Same way people use robotic limbs or knee braces. I apply AI for my brain…if that makes sense.

Rock Lee

Since we're doing this for funsies I guess I'm Team Husband. This man was LITERALLY threatened by the head of the family AND his wife. They promised to get revenge on him if he "betrays" them. This man already has no power, so I can understand why he's scared and taking the cowardly way out. *PLEASE NOTE I do not agree with him trying to get on her good side re: the will* But we're just choosing side for fun, right? lol

Infinite Ree

44:47 I really like Secretary Na, played by Yoon Bomi. I remember really liking her in Because This is My First Life. 20:40 The relationship between the brother and sister-in-law (Soo-cheol & Da-hye) is really interesting. Later on, it almost had me tearing up.

Jerome

Yeah I just see chaos coming with more AI will be running around unrestricted. AI made videos, news run by AI, fake AI made videos, propaganda run through AI...there is a million things that will explode in our faces in this next decade. Btw your end talk was good with Director =)

Thamor

Just take a page from my book 📖 I say whatever rants comes to my brain regardless n people seem to understand it so the key is… don’t overthink n say it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 though I appreciated you trying to be professional in your answer as to not be misunderstood. But the rebel in me say “screw it and bring it “ 🥊🥊🥊 😂😂😂

LightMyPath Star

I respect That. I did want official reading. Lol. It was the goal. But i thought of your viewer type and included both. Hahaha. Glad you commented. Confirmed what i was thinking

Rock Lee

I love how you guys stress out because of the siblings I was actually rooting for them to let it out. I am on team both of them, I am simping and understanding both of them as there is very heavy miscommunication and misunderstandings going on in this show. What people should always remember we as viewers get to see sides of her that the Husband I think has never seen her do. NEVER FORGET EPISODE 1 !!! Ps. Honestly I still enjoy more reading your raw format comments as that is your pure view and opinion in your own words. Having ChatGPT AI makes it more official reading and honestly feels less genuine for your opinion.

Thamor

This is slightly off topic and im not sure if you have talked about this already but the actor who plays Yoon Eun-seong also played one of the bullies in The Glory so I had a bad feeling about him the moment I saw him on screen haha

Priya

After remembering Episode 1 I feel like the Wife had to have done something to the Husband for him to start hating her so much I do not think the family alone would be enough for him to feel how he felt in the First episode. Also the husband is supposed to be gaslighting his wife but as you can see he keeps forgetting that he is supposed to be acting and keeps having genuine moments were he worries about her. I think they still love each other by the way they both act but something happened and they just did not talk about it. These two need to sit down and tell each other how they feel and deal with it together cause none of them seems to know what the other is going through. Also I sympathize with the wife more because of her situation but also understand the husbands feelings more of what he is going through if that makes sense so I guess I am on both sides for once. Anyways I am really enjoying these reactions and discussions.

AJJ

Haha emotional watching 😂😂😂. I got tired of saying “remember episode 1 “hahaha. So feel that

Rock Lee

Facts!!! In your case your relationship works because both of you considered the other’s opinion and come to a middle which is the healthy way to be. In my case I wanted out regardless how much it cost financially or emotionally so when looking at the husband in this drama I’m like “god I want out too” but you in rl yes you’re right compromise and communication is key, but I’m all emotional watching this… so I’m like “screw it give that man his freedom” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

LightMyPath Star

At 1st I thought the Queen family was very cruel but the more the villians start to emerge you start to see their innocent side, weaknesses and bad expressions of appreciation and not all of them are against Hyun Woo its only that he need to grow a spine because from the Grandfather,Father in Law and Aunt they respect his council.

Francis M

lol same here rooting for wifey all the way

CheshiereCatt

Nothing wrong with this take. My wife and i can joke about it now but we have certainly been tested and i understand freedom cuz i have a different way if thinking and living and that took a bit of compromise for us both

Rock Lee

Shots fired with that caption 🤣🤣🤣🤣 but we got truce sooooooooo I will ignore the last sentence on the P.S. 😂😂😂😂 Now here I go with my rant 😉 As a divorce person here in the comments I must say that the perspective of the people around you play a big role in deciding to finalized that step, I wish I can say it doesn’t but unfortunately life is not a kdrama (though a girl can dream) and you walk away from the situation, hurt one way or another regardless of whom initiated divorce proceedings. Guess I’m saying that I’m with the husband…. Yeah I just took sides 💪😂😂😂😂 . Watching him feel trap in this marriage gives me awful flashbacks for sure. Peace and Freedom it’s all he’s seeking n I get that 💯 %. Though I know we are watching both sides in the show I still identify with him, because feeling trapped it’s suffocating AF. And it makes you want to flee for your life. Sooooo there u have it, my controversial but always given 2cents! P.S. #team….nah we got truce there so lucky u 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but come summer HoTD and I’ll be 💪💪💪 🥊 🥊 🥊 just saying it’s on! Respectfully of course . 🙏 Ty for the early post!

LightMyPath Star

Thank you #green

Rock Lee

Thank you and i can accept that response

Rock Lee

Team black 🌚😂 and I agree, these characters sit in the grey area bc you can make cases for both sides but at the end of the day... the day gotta end 💀 all characters in this drama have flaws and it lead to intense discussions, you already know this show is gonna be peak if we going this hard for them lol. Appreciate yall 🙌🏽

irie

When the kdrama has you writing expositions you know it’s good. I agree with you on both fronts, miscommunication is both of their issues at the moment. The ML is NOT a bad guy but gaslighting a dying wife is not the behavior of a good guy no matter how much you want to get out of the bad marriage. Hope everything is going well with your family. Thanks

Lizbeth Perry

The jay bar 🔥🔥

Rock Lee

Haha

Rock Lee

Ok so a couple of things. First to quote Jay z . “Nobody wins when the family feuds”. Lee is correct in saying that it’s obviously no one’s direct fault in this. Both parties had their part to play in the breakdown of their marriage as far as I’m concerned. I feel for both sides honestly. Lastly to lee sneaking in a support for team green . Team black 🖤 always. Still a fan Lee even though you support the opposition 😂

Kiana

thank you

Rock Lee

LMAO...i'm still ready for the smoke but with Respect of course ha ha ha

Rock Lee

Correct!

fatou

lmao not that team green comment at the end 😂😂

Tyler


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