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I’m gonna be honest with you guys. I fully anticipate people to be frustrated watching these reactions because the husband gets little sympathy. I am aware of it. I say a few times “remember episode 1”. Eventually I to check out from my peers lol.

I do the same in episode 7 for Shogun. I dunno lan.

But that is there experiences. 🤷🏽‍♂️. I dunno what else to say

Its gonna get toxic 😭


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RSA

im totally team wife but her being cold is not her tumour the tumour might have been making their already existing problems a bit far but she does have communication problems

Shreya

I still don't understand him, despite everything they've shown me about how difficult his life was in that house. I understand that it was difficult, but it is unacceptable to celebrate your wife's passing 💀

Aimeé y Paula

I think I have, if it’s the one that also has Soo Hyun and he was like an alien then yea. I also enjoyed those epilogues as well. It’s really like and extra 2-3 minutes after the episodes over so i get excited the ep didn’t end just yet

Brooklynn Turner

That’s true. We ain’t in court 😂.

koma

@koma The tactical advantage doesn’t blind me to logic and truth. That’s why for a bit i defended the husband lol. He’s just unable to pull at my heart strings as well. If this was a courtroom and i was jury, the gender wouldn’t impact the decision process i make. Since its a TV show, there is no consequences to allowing emotions to run rampant aside from irritating viewers lol. 🤷🏽‍♂️. Ha.

Rock Lee

thank you ! Lmao how you going to take me out of my world, bring me into your messed up world and you end being my primary bully hahaha! And the PS is on point. He only has his friend and that friend is a ride or die, the "where should we bury the body" kind of BFF

koma

lmao truue. This tactical advantage of ours haha. I wished it didn't keep you from seeing the true injustice in this story tho. Unfortunately its blinding everyone and that's whats frustrating for me. Im not even defending him waking up with a smile ( thats cringe and sad ) im saying let's not put HER on that pedestal just because she dying. She is still a bad wife in my humble opinion. And her dying is not suppose to erase this 3 yrs old mental abuse in his eyes. Other than that I love y'all reaction so much. Regardless of my opinion it is still so entertaining. I cant wait for the next reaction ! I love these debates in the comments too. I did not realise how much people were devided until I watched it with you guys. This drama is already A CLASSIC !!

koma

If you like the epilogue idea, you should check out My Love From the Stars as this has really similar feeling to that. Although not the same at all, but the ending talks and showing the past is similar to that. Just saying if you never seen that show.

Thamor

I’ve read a couple of these comments and someone mentioned how he was doing subtle things for her WHILE also being an a**hole and trying to manipulate her will. Those moments made me able to laugh at his “faking” as RBL said. Like when he grabbed her hand at the dinner and held it the whole time in the elevator til she pulled away. He forgot he was holding it by his reaction. Then when he said that comment abt huntin on someone else territory. Imo he was talking abt hunting AND Hae-In (since it was right after he was glaring at them laughing together). And I also agree that Hae In has always been cold as we saw in the first episode when we got the flashbacks of them meeting at work. She has a cold (boss lady, I can do it by myself) exterior but when they started dating Hyun Woo was able to bring out her sweeter side now and then. So it wasn’t the tumor that changed her, if anything I think it will change her later on as her memory keeps disappearing. So now the question is really still ‘what made them get to this point?!?!’. I personally love how the show slowly lets us in on the their history as we see them interacting in current day. To see the difference while also getting context on certain actions/comments. Epilogue is my fav art of every episode🥰💚

Brooklynn Turner

First of all I will tackle my confusion of seeing YBRL first agreeing with the husband in episode 1 (He is the biggest simp in almost 90% of all his shows for only females). YBRL still defending little even in this episode 2 for the husband even while he was shown really bad behavior for the situation (Tumor) was again confusing moment while Adorkable and Director just goes with the narrative of the story and forgetting everything shown earlier. NEVER FORGET EPISODE 1 is like a motto you guys should take with this show. Now for the actual story. 1. Honestly first episode really shows that the guy has every right to behave like this. There really hasn't been shown any moment where she shows love for her husband or just sympathy for him. What I am saying is that she doesn't show this to her husband, he doesn't know she defends him behind his back. She was the reason he was dragged to this world (he ghosted her), we were shown her coming with a helicopter to his poor small village so she not taking any responsibility for that is just wild. She is in anime terms the Kdrama version of a Yandere, just mean, cold and indifferent when with the man she loves while expecting the man to understand her. 2. The environment he has to now live in, because her wife dragged this man into. Showing all the toxicity surrounding her family and them dragging him to do their dirty work. Like that uncle forcing him to be the bad guy on firing a worker of 20 years, so he has to take all that hate on him for it. This added to his wife behaving to his eyes the exact same way as her relatives is the main crux of the problem for now and she really is a Yandere + worst of all top of the world richest of the rich so worst ego ever to handle Yandere. 3. Honestly good show as this will be so wild to see how different you guys will behave in all this crazy toxic (still fictional) story. This is gender roles reversed in a way, but not going man will behave like a woman. Our lead is still a the alpha man and our female lead is still a woman who needs a supporting husband to get her through like episode 2 clearly shows us from her perspective. This is clearly going for re-romance story, but will this be tragedy in the end her dying, at the moment I am 100% still on belief that she won't die. NEVER FORGET EPISODE 1 :D Ps. I almost forgot every guy really needs a friend like we have seen him have, agreeing to destroy his career for his divorce.

Thamor

yeah I know what that feels like lmaoo. But Idc im going to comment hahaha. I believe when people tend to follow their emotions or "the flow" they loose contact with actual reality. So when I see everyone jumping on someone when its clearly unfair, I cant help myself. They can say what they want, its just what it is, I have to say my piece. How are we going to focus on emotions when facts shows that this guy had enough and wants out regardless of the way, as long as he dont get strangled by his in laws. We as an audience have the right to feel for her because we know which he doesn't. But in his case let him plot for his escape, he deserves it for now. We cant blame him for not feeling sad. I agree with the fact that the portrayal of it is cringe... They made it too "funny" its borderline disrespectful towards death itself, NOT HAE-IN. We shouldn't laugh about death. That's my problem with how the writer decided to picture this.

koma

Good long rant, so I don't need to will do little different topics for my own rant, just seen episode 2 reaction. I agree 100% on your points.

Thamor

Well thanks for reading that seriously and not interpreting @koma. Cya, not commenting here anymore since i'll end being put in the corner of the classroom now that the teacher saw :).

kzn

Amazing logic. On point analysis. This is where i was meant to be ! I applaud you, i got my faith back :)

kzn

I actually think @kzn won that one . He was logic from beginning to end and was sticking to the drama’s premise. Ange was way too emotional and did not do a good assertions of the story at play. How can you said that she ain’t trash when she say to her husband’s face that she would ship him and her kid in the USA just because it is “needed” Idc, if you want people to be cordial to you there are things you need to show them respect for.

koma

Divorce is an ugly thing and its messy

Rock Lee

Please end this conversation. Its a tv show thats highly emotional. It’s important when discussing not to get personal about it. Thats why i actually stopped talking earlier. I can tell by the vibe and by the next day. I see it’s escalating. We are here for good vibes folks.

Rock Lee

Lmfao. KDrama fangirls without any logic are wild. To the point i watched, the husband is shown to be hardworking, caring, empathic, filial to his family, a sweet guy with caring friends while the wife is clearly the total opposite. Being a "sexy girlboss" as bad as a man could be in such a position of power doesn't make her cool and someone to admire, she's just as bad as a man may be in that position, i don't even know why it is a debate : if we switch the roles in the drama, i know you all wouldn't give two fucks about the dying husband and be laughing along the comedy bits. It has been 3 years of mariage + years of dating before : the tumor didn't change her behavior here => she was a toxic and horrible human being to begin with, which is why the husband wants to fucking leaves. The double standard here in your flawed logic is kinda disgusting. A pleasure.

kzn

@Bran Bran. Also good points your responded with. Thank you

Rock Lee

@Koma “ Frankly most women can do that for us anyways lol”. I already acknowledge being the woman. She already had the tactical advantage in terms of sympathy. So that is true. Haha

Rock Lee

You all are valid for your dislike of the husband cause I felt the same way 100%.

Artemis Delphinia

It does!!

Sal

IM HERE FOR THE ANGSTTT!! its gonna hurt so good i feel it hahaha

kun st

i was so surprised to see Jae Jun from the glory in this episode damnnn so many actors in this drama so far 😂

kun st

@Appleee they clearly wrote baek hyun woo as the female lead tho. I do not care what people say, It was sealed for me the second she said to him "trust me, ill never make you cry". Its all reversed psychology. They wrote hae-in like they would a ML and did the opposite for Hyun woo. He was the affectionate one UNTIL he got discouraged by her behavior. He is the one who got deceived. He is the one who let go of the relationship. I believed he stopped "loving" her when she stopped making effort.

koma

@YBRL while I believe it is relative ( you're now talking about the performance of the actor) I can respect that you dont sympathize with him. I know for a fact tho, that if it was the FL being mistreated, and ended up waiting for her husband to die instead of divorcing, y'all would not have been as judgmental. I dare even say that you would be on her side hoping no one finds a cure. We would be furious to see a man letting his wife be treated like garbage by the in laws( remember marry my husband ???? I think this family is worse than minhwan's mum) and to add to that he is a total JERK at work as a boss + plus he wants her to give him babies and then go abroad. I know for sure all 3 of you would be LIVID. Regardless of some tumor. But as we see, this role being played by a female lead, does bring some sort of appeasement..? It tones our fury down. Because women by nature are complex in emotion, its difficult for us to deal with life without emotion. But let's not forget also that the cruelest of women are sometimes those who are at the mercy their own emotions . we sometimes even feel for them and what drive their actions despite their "crazy". there is less forgiveness towards men though. We rarely give them a second chance as a society because we expect them to be strong and protective... Too strong most of the time. So they end up lacking in expressing emotions. The writer simply switched the roles and its fascinating to observe the switch in people's brain also. NO more understanding whatsoever lmaooo.. Because the guy appear.. Too strong ?? With all respect, I dont think its a faire assessment of the situation. Or maybe im taking it too seriously hahhhaaha. Our lawyer BHK here is totally playing the role of the female character that we are used to see on screen. The damsel in distress that needs saving, But his strength always cuts trough his vulnerable moments. He stands up for himself and others ,even if no one take his side( you know most female leads in drama are not like that. They write them weak in the beginning and then she goes on this journey to find her strength bla bla bla , a classic female trope in kdramas) . on the other end, we can clearly see the cruelty in the way Hae-in treats and talk to her husband, but somehow her vulnerability cuts trough her cruelest moments. . you cannot deny that just because someone is dying it means that all their faults should be forgotten. To what extent should one be deceived by someone before they can be taken accountable for the hurt they caused others ? She is so mean when she talk, i want to cry for him at times. Her eyes are lifeless when she looks at him. And I still feel for her !! Thats whats wild. I know she is going through it too but damn.. my man went through it for 3 yrs and it took one episode to strip y'all heart of all compassion

koma

Director's side eye to Lee at 95:56 😂😂

Mouka

Interesting viewpoint. I only mentioned the sympathy agreement based on your description of giving him a little sympathy in the video description. This is why I mentioned the present narrative with him being nefarious and fake crying. It shouldn't be convincing because it's fake. It seems easier to judge his present character whilst negating all the things that contributed to him being this way. If we take it back to Ep 1 we can see his calm, confident, and submissive demeanor before meeting her. He was caring pulling her aside to talk to her and help her. He was even proud of his apartment and savings telling her he would take care of her believing she was just an intern. Now fast forward and look at how his behaviors have changed based on all the crap he has dealt with. Once calm and confident; now pitiful, yelling, and anxious all the time. I agree he is strong when he needs to be. He knows his merits lack when up against their family, yet, he does his job well and represents her when she needs it despite not having a true voice. Hae-In only shows vulnerability through her tough shell behind closed doors, which to me is selfish and self-serving. Defending her husband to her family unbenounced to him serves him no purpose. It's like publicly humiliating a person and then privately apologizing.

Bran Bran

25:11 & 1:06:55 & 1:22:20 Da-Hye, the brother's wife & sister-in-law, is one of my favorite characters besides the two leads. The actress is so pretty. I believe I saw her in one other Kdrama but for some reason I'm really paying attention to her in this.

Jerome

26:00 Lee's epic laugh had me dying🤣🤣. 89:44 Where's Owlette gets me everytime.

Jerome

@kzn is wilding for no reason lmaooo the reaching is crazy! They both are flawed human beings, it's written this way but you going OD tryna assume ange's personal life... like it's not that serious bro 😂 bringing politics and personal issues into this was hella unnecessary

irie

Catching up to all the shows right here. But whomever push this show… may I say 🙏🙏🙏 it’s fire 🔥

LightMyPath Star

Needless to say. Hae in shows vulnerability even through her tough shell in a way that strikes the emotional nerves. Frankly most women can do that for us anyways lol.

Rock Lee

The husband’s deamonor doesn’t strike our sympathy nerves. He often yelling and i felt the same way about him in Its okay not be okay. He doesnt project the role of being a victim and hurt in a way i connect with. As Captain RI did in crash landing on you. Or Grim Reaper in Goblin. This actor doesn’t convince me that hes sad even when hes sad or crying. He always comes off as strong. Thats needed though because hes playing a character who can stand as an equal to a rich powerful woman even without money and he does that VERY well. He excudes Alpha energy. Always

Rock Lee

The different perspectives from you guys are why I enjoy your reactions so much. My view is opposite from the majority. I’m definitely with @YBRL on this one regarding sympathy for the husband. He is a sweet loving guy from a small town who fell in love with, what he thought was a sweet loving girl, but she turned out to be a beautiful disaster. To answer the Director’s question. “What caused such a deep wedge between them?” If I have to guess, I think Hae-In’s goal to be perceived as this strong Alpha female towards her family and within the company, is what drove them apart. Her husband makes her weak with emotion (as seen in the interview flashbacks in ep.1) and she can’t afford that with her family; thus, her husband and marriage have become collateral damage in the war between her and her family. Her extreme even has them sleeping in separate rooms to save face in front of family. Both her family and her colleagues fear her and her social reputation for being a spoiled bitch precedes her. I doubt the tumor made her this way. This was who she was prior to being sick. I do find it weird that the husband is being seen as the villain when they have revealed all he has been through in this marriage. It’s seemingly being overlooked because Hae-In is terminally ill. From what I can tell, her husband loves her and at one point was affectionate towards her. She even said he was romantic during her interview. He was genuinely hurt when he had to tell his parents about choosing to get a divorce. Even in this episode, although he has a nefarious plan to shower her with affection, you see his genuine love for her when he randomly does things that are not calculated. Running to her in the meeting when she coughed, defending her at the dinner table, pulling her away while holding her hand, showing up for her at the event, and protecting her from that boar. It’s hard to be someone you are not and loving her is who he is; yet, she rejects him at every cost. The disrespect on that hunting trip walking ahead of him with another man was too much for me. He has become isolated and trapped by her family who treats him like an errand boy and yes man for the family. They laugh at him behind his back and even in the workplace where Hae-In disrespects him and questions his aptitude in front of his colleagues. He has lived in this hell for 3 years. He has no privacy and is always told what to do and where to be. He is followed everywhere he goes. does not defend him to her family when they misuse him to his face, and shows little to no affection towards him (except in the shadow). I can see is she operated in the shadows of her family, but she does it to her husband as well. It’s unwarranted. He was even told that he has to go to the U.S. to pursue another degree; as well as have a baby by next summer. Like WTF. Hae-In said nothing to defend him. Her outlook on letting a nanny raise their child broke my heart. There was no excuse for her to say that. He has a genuine fear of her and her family. He jumps when she approaches him. That’s abusive trauma. Even his therapist needed a therapist after that session in Ep 1. Although his current actions are trash, let’s not forget that his brother-in-law tasked him to destroy a man’s life who worked for him for 20+ years just because the man wanted to retire for his family. That poor man did nothing wrong. His brother-in-law said to him that he'd ruin or kill anyone who left them and that he saw it as betrayal. So he truly believes divorcing Hae-In would put him and his family at risk. As horrible as it may seem, he sees her dying as his way out without it being seen as betrayal. it sucks but you can't treat someone bad for years and then tell them how to respond. Sorry for the THESIS lol

Bran Bran

Viewer perspective going crazy this reaction huh LOL. But loving the passion and emotional investment, it's why you guys are my favorite reactors. Keep being real

DannyB

I'm messy so I read through this thread. You won this round Ange.

cloudy

Hyun-woo doesnt actually want her to die, he is more focused on gaining his freedom that he believes he lost back. We are shown multiple instants of why he is scared to death of the prospect of divorcing her and "betraying" her family, but he was still going to do it. That is why he sees this as a way to free himself. All humans are allowed to act selfish, its a normal thing.

Yoruka

Humiliating him in front ho employees, demanding affection when she gives nothing herself. Not listening to his opinions. Not defending him in front of her parents. After telling someone that she wouldn't make him cry if he trusted her. She wasn't lime this before marriage tho, we can all see this. She would make grand gestures for him, she doesn't anymore. In her point of views it ain't malicious, but if you were the husband how would you feel to live in this golden jail when you consider your wife as your first perpetrator? Yes its not normal to Ben happy when your wife is dying, but he too was slowly, mentally dying by her side. That's why I couldn't be entirely mad at him for what he was feeling

koma

I feel like y'all misunderstood. Her personality did not change because of the tumor at all. Thats how she is since the beginning. She didn't start being mean to him "just because of the tumor". You'll see the effect of the actual tumor in the episodes to come but no, it was all on her, when it comes to the way she treated him since the wedding.

koma

What ? When did i talk about your age and assume any of your life ? I resumed the comment section. I'm floored, you have some serious reading comprehension and i'm getting fucking tired to be honest. (and yes, those chain of smileys now make me think you're actually a teenager because i sure fucking hope you're not an adult. Now it's late, i got work, talking in english in tedious, and to be fair, you lost my interest). Just go fangirling over some kpop music because i do have to admit that i ended thinking that you're mental.

kzn

But you’re now assuming all my life ? 😂😂😂😂 so Im a 15yo american who only watch kdramas ? Yeah sure good night

Ange Kelodia

Write for nothing huh. So : you commented a response to a question that wasn't directed at you, misread the comment, the whole point in time and the context, talked about sexism while saying some pretty sexist stuff directed at me instead of the characters in play, seemed to defend with passion big firms' practice to find loophole to fire good working employees without any valid professional mistake just to make even more profit, and you're saying because it's a realistic take, it makes it right from a morality point of view and thus excusing any wrongdoing from people in power doing that kind of stuff. Wow, after that, i gotta say i'm fucking glad not to be american and i hope you don't actually find yourself in a shitty situation at some point in life. Good night, that was wild. (Anime watchers are fucking angels next to such passion lol i'mma go back into hiding).

kzn

You write so much for nothing now. Just keep watching the show you’ll see yourself and will make your own opinion. That’s good

Ange Kelodia

I knew I wouldn't like him much after ep 1 but it's almost like they don't want to make him too unlikeable they made her seem worse. I'm on their team I want to see them find each other again, it's the elders of the family that are truly awful.

September

I studied HR too, and Im repeating myself : IM NOT DEFENDING HER ACTIONS at that precise moment…Im SAYING that this is a REALISTIC visualization of the way RICH businessmen(women) act. Pfiou

Ange Kelodia

"Yeah you were not joking about it being frustrating lol. Plus you all seem to get actually frustrated for real while it's actually clearly played to be comedic so i dunno. Thus I paused around 33m to ask this : does this get better next episodes or do you just all are actually annoyed by the husband ?" 2 EPISODE 33 MIN : Omfg. Just learn to read so you can actually put things into perspective because at this point, i was having fun but now i feel that i wasted a good chunk of my time. "Im not even mad lmao what ? Since my 1st comment I said that I wasn’t even mad at his character anymore since I’ve already watched all the episodes in time….? " Yes, i'm saying by the point of my comment you don't have any reason to dislike the husband, he's presented as the good human being, that's a fact; and yes, you're supposed to laugh along at the poor husband trying to espace his horrible wife, that's the directing of the episode and the previous one to this point.

kzn

If you think this drama is just a comedy good luck tho. I thought you watched all the episodes but I don’t think so anymore lmao. I’ll just let you discover it, that’s good

Ange Kelodia

I know the HR work lol, what she was trying to do was ILLEGAL tho and she was trying to make it happen by using her company authority (kinda like Samsung since most of those kdrama are fictional representations of real companies). You should see what happens in SK, Samsumg's family are basically royalty that get away with crimes since they represent an enormous chunk of SK's PIB.

kzn

Im not even mad lmao what ? Since my 1st comment I said that I wasn’t even mad at his character anymore since I’ve already watched all the episodes in time….? You’re the one who’s hating on a character and call her a trash human bc she’s not lovie dovie at work lmao…that’s utopic. Im not defending her firing these ppl Im just saying that she’s realistic…and that doesn’t make her the devil lol. Idk at what episode you are but she’s not the person you think she is lmao and that’s my point. And he’s not the ultimate victim..Im not a little girl and my age doesnt have to do anything here tbh so……

Ange Kelodia

that the line of their business , in real life they do that , it is not horrible thing to do

Hend Taha

yes finally someone said it

Hend Taha

Wow, i'mma stop here, i'm getting confused about how old you are and i don't think you understand what extreme-left means since you seem to think that i would idealize some evil CEO. And for being pretty impartial to sexes and judging people for their acts and not their gender, you on the other end seem to pretty... sexist. I will also say that you're getting a bit crazy in your defense here : the drama itself, the directing, the music, the acting, was meant to be funny; and i would say that's probably going to be the same comedic bit for a few episodes maybe. I don't know why you're that mad, get mad at the director of the show then lol but it's clearly not a tragedy yet.

kzn

yes , you are right

Hend Taha

yes that was my point , in the first episode , if you remember , did he even notice that she was sick or have disease , he even believed the lady that she told about the will that hae in did not leave anything for wealth , that different thing from being treated badly from hae in's family , even when he know she was gonna die , he did not even sympathize with her , even she treated him badly there was always reasonable reason , like Appleee said women tend to resort to cold treatment when something broke inside , he even did not notice she was treated badly from her own family ?

Hend Taha

Wow, good thing for my employees than i consider them better than you seem to see workers as. Not sure how you're working but i hope you're with some kinder people damn. Yes, being in Korea with basically ZERO social securities, firing a lot of employees simply because their store wasn't that profitable in a short term the first year it happens is pretty devoid of humanity (they also have a family to feed dear).

kzn

No no hate. I was preemptive in my description

Rock Lee

That's crazy lol, y'all getting hate for pointing out the trashy/cold behaviour from the main guy, he's a seemingly a good guy, but it's still wild to be happy about her dying - it's understandable to be frustrated. Y'all wrapped it up real nice towards the end

Andre

The end discussion is way better Cuz the mid episode commentary needs further explaining.lol.

Rock Lee

It was really funny seeing how you guys (mostly Director and Adorkable) kept saying the husband is trash and then switching saying the wife is too cold, lol. But the commentary at the end from Lee and Director really summed up everything! Very well done! So, what I got from this episode is that Hoo-yoo (that’s the husband’s name, right?) is capable and knows how to hunt but he didn’t care for it, but notice how he saved out girl and caught that boar at the end? He steps up when necessary! Also, how he defended his territory from that jackass tycoon? All these characters are very interesting and I can’t wait to see more.

94_h

Oh yeah that's for sure. Can't wait for you to see what's coming haha

Antonin Nguyen

I also want to point out, I think the fog is a visual representation of "brain fog" which is something even non cancer folk can feel when experiencing extreme exhaustion or stress. Very artistic choice to visualize what she is going through. As someone who lived through 2 parents with cancer in their brain...it really does mess with their personality and memory. My dad became a completely different person after cancer. Unfortunately with my stepmom...she passed away, but she became very forgetful and impulsive toward the end. She had an inoperable set of tumors that started in her ovaries and spread to her brain.

Mochi

I think it's very interesting to learn that Hyunwoo didn't ever make gestures to care for Haein in their relationship. I think I had the immediate impression that Haein was the only tsundere person in the relationship and that Hyunwoo was the emotionally available one. Probably because I was thrown off by how easily he cries (which is adorable btw lol). Loving the developments of their personalities. I think the extent of their relationship in the beginning was just built on surface-level infatuation. Hopefully what I'm going to see later is them learning that gestures of love and care, as abnormal as it is for both of them, are going to soften them in ways they didn't know they had in them. Really loving the mystery of their relationship and learning it along the way.

raeven b.

director's "why would you ruin it like that?" HAS ME DYING

Tyler

That's not necessarily true and we don't know one way or the other 🤷🏾

Infinite Ree

She’s at the last stage of her cancer…lmao if she’s really sick it’s surely for a very long time

Ange Kelodia

Lol. I dont wanna spoil but yes. Everyone is frustrated for real lol

Rock Lee

No what I mean is I do not emotionally feel for him. I do not believe logic and emotion have to run in the same direction

Rock Lee

I’ve noticed in this episode that the mom tends to favor the son ALOT more, she was genuinely worried about him when he passed out and also when he said he wanted some meat in his plate she gave him a piece of hers

Anthony Stone

Yeah you were not joking about it being frustrating lol. Plus you all seem to get actually frustrated for real while it's actually clearly played to be comedic so i dunno. Thus I paused around 33m to ask this : does this get better next episodes or do you just all are actually annoyed by the husband ? Cuz for once that i'm enjoying a kdrama, damn lol.

kzn

I understand, but even emtionally, he has been good to her before, he tried but... nothing, so he lost interest in this relashionship. And something happen to HER and at that moment he shows false love, and ONLY after that she starts to notice, I mean that's good for her and I'm happy she does but as a viewer I can't be mad at him, it's wrong but I'can't be mad.

Antonin Nguyen

Agreed. I feel like he still loves but he doesn't like her anymore, if that makes sense

Infinite Ree

I don’t think they pinned all the blame on the husband. They know she has trouble communicating/expressing her feelings but it would’ve been weird to justify and be okay with his actions this episode by coming to his defense. Lee understood that it was supposed to be cringe. Thought it was clear the writing wanted the audience to not completely side with him on episode 2 at least until he truly realizes later on and processes what her death would mean and his love for her.

Kro

Epic reactions as usual team! Loving this show.

KPK

The roller coaster of emotions you had for this episode 😂 btw y’alls reaction are valid. I felt the same way about him but still rooting for them.

Catelyn Dela Cruz

she's also the Taluipa in Tales of the Nine Tailed ^-^ she's sooo pretty to me and I love the characters she chooses

Mochi

I think its the norm for them to also react what's being told to the audience. Ep 1 they were on his side and Ep 2 on hers. Pretty sure the writing was deliberate to show both husband and wife are vieiwng their situation differently. Both for sure in the wrong and can see the biggest thing is them not communicating honestly. And who knows? minds might change again on episode 3 lol 🤷🏾‍♀️

Sal

I almost forgot to simp... the main actress is 🔥🔥🔥 great face, great shape, great actress - the real triple threat 😅

Infinite Ree

I agree that I don't fully believe he's that happy to hear his wife is dying. Someone he was completely in love with and chose to marry. Unless she's truly heinous. Felt like he's gaslighting himself for real lol

Sal

AYE YO I was saying this, this is a story about 2 tsundere lmao usually one is more direct than the other but in this situation, both of them are internal thinkers and insecure af

Mochi

Yessss. I was trying to remember wherever seen her before. That's where!

Sal

Auntie Beomja is the same actress that played Yeong Ae(North Korean Wife of the senior officer who got arrested with the son that was bad at school) and one of my faaaavorite actresses ^-^ glad to see yall appreciating her ~

Mochi

Logically you can’t be all the way on her side. I agree. Emotionally……haha

Rock Lee

You can't be all the way on her side ahah. Obviously what he's doing in this episode is wrong but don't forget that they were not in good terms because she didn't respond to the love he gave to her, it was obvious when we were from his point of view and still is to me. I enjoy watching this show with you ;)

Antonin Nguyen

Told ya

Rock Lee

I’m going to wait for the other episodes to talk about their relationship as a whole , oh and I have a lot on my chest . For this specific episode we see that she has difficulties reading/understanding people , in that scene she’s telling him she’ll try hard to live he never shows an ounce of happiness however she genuinely asks if he is “ that happy” . I’m sure she’s been like that since birth and that’s who he fell in love with , so why is he acting like she’s a monster when that’s just her personality 🤔🤔. I’m trying to remember something malicious she’s done in the last 2 episodes and I can’t .

Sne Msomi

I get where Hyun-woo (the husband) is coming from and that he isn’t fully processing what her death really means but I too was disappointed in him at this point.

Kro

And @Apple. From personal experience FACTS

Rock Lee

I logically agree both are in the wrong but do not emotionally feel that way.

Rock Lee

I feel that they're both in the wrong, but 2 of the ppl reacting put all the blame on the husband and I didn't think that's right. I believe they both contributed to the downfall of their marriage

Infinite Ree

Women grows cold when they get neglected for too long though like defense mechanisms. It's not still sure who started the bad treatment first but the husband also has his fare share of wrongdoings.

Appleee

My position forces me to argue on his behalf but I really don’t want to lol. I wanna join them. Just can’t have Three people who don’t understand. So i have to do devils advocate.

Rock Lee

And I’m not gonna lie, That’s just pure logic and response to hearing those two. But you left me in my own space without a camera and audience listening to my take. I would not have any kind words for the man Lol. The actress just pulls you in. Similar experience happen and it’s OK not to be OK but less extreme.

Rock Lee

I saw you trying bro 😅

Infinite Ree

This show has been such an easy watch.

Dirty_Oldman

There’s just nothing I can do. Lol

Rock Lee

I keep saying remember episode 1. Lol. We have different takes on this one. But i personally understand his experience. The viewer perspective and the husband perspective is not the same. There is difficulty separating the two. I anticipate this is going to be frustrating for a few people.

Rock Lee

This is why I love this show (so far) so much because we get to see both of their points of view and it makes sense as we go on to see why he got to where he got and for her to become a workaholic and not be with him too much.

Megan Wall

I'm about 30 minutes in but I gotta say Adorkable and Director are looking at it from a perspective of being *told* this woman cares for her husband vs him actually experiencing 3 yrs of hell from the whole family, including her. I don't believe she's been sick their whole marriage, so her bad treatment of him has been going on for a long time. I'm not ready to let her off the hook.

Infinite Ree

I love how you guys give so much attention to small details. Usually, I never see that in most reactors. But I'm so excited for you guys to watch and understand the story as it unfolds. But Baek Hyun Woo is just a tsundere like Hong Haein. They both love each other so much.

ninety4.7

I got so happy when I saw this notification and clicked so fast! 😅❤️

Appleee

My sister has a friend who was “losing his mind” at a very scary rate in a season of his life where he was dangerously reckless, explosive, and paranoid. He was diagnosed with schizophrenia, but it was later revealed that he had a benign tumor in his brain. Surgery was success and he’s back to normal. I had no idea a brain tumor could do all of that to you until I heard about my sisters friend. It makes sense though. Just wild!

raeven b.

The way the show portrays first the difference in perspective and then the missing chunks of time Hae In experiences was sooo well done. How scary that must be, to actually go through that in real life. Man….

raeven b.

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