How Much Thought Goes Into Choosing A Baby Daddy
Added 2023-08-09 13:33:37 +0000 UTC
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socially, I felt pressured to get married and be a part of a two parent household with my daughters father, and ultimately it was a terrible decision for me because I was unhappy in my marriage and did not wish to do cohabitation. I wanted a child though, so I felt that was a sacrifice I had to make, I now know that is not the case and I should have, as I've always believed, just stuck to my guns against marriage and raised my child alone or coparent. would have saved my child the trauma of her parents fighting and separating.
Mochi
2023-08-11 16:29:15 +0000 UTCAlso interesting thoughts
Rock Lee
2023-08-11 16:27:34 +0000 UTCInteresting
Rock Lee
2023-08-11 16:26:54 +0000 UTCwomen are sort of bred to have these maternal skills....men aren't. they're bred to sow their seeds.
Mochi
2023-08-11 16:25:55 +0000 UTCDepends on when you ask me this in my lifetime. I don't wish to have any more kids now, but I do think about parenting qualities in a partner moreso after having kids because I am a single mother and if I meet someone that plans on sticking around, they need to gel well with my kids and be a good part of the package. This is only contingent on whether I decide to settle down again though, tbh as of now, and since I was young, I never had intentions of settling down and getting married. I don't believe in the institution of marriage or the nuclear family dynamic being the social format for raising a child. I had always planned to have kids when I was ready to have kids, and I also come from a big family where everyone raises everyone's kids. "It takes a whole village to raise one child" is a phrase I grew up around, so culturally, we don't shame single moms or dads and don't really propagate that thought parallel....and I was surrounded by strong single moms or strong women who really just taught me to be self reliant....Also one thing I learned about men...they really don't show what kind of father they're gonna be until it happens.
Mochi
2023-08-11 16:25:23 +0000 UTCThis is my sexism showing but I really don't believe most women think about these things until their well past 30. They just move through life careless. Especially with brain cancer that is modern feminism running rampant. They rather be slaves to a cooperation where not one tear would be shed if they died tomorrow than be a "slave" to a husband. I blame lack of parenting.
Pilausky
2023-08-10 07:02:43 +0000 UTCYeah, they shown their true colors then try to come back in is always funny to me. I try to be less judgemental too when I see people out and about, cuz you never know nowadays
Tazell Pouncey
2023-08-09 18:03:00 +0000 UTCYea. I have people compliment me that i am a good dad. But never not much compliments that i had qualifies of a good father. I also so people in bad situations and didn’t want to come off judgemental but putting focus on a person parenting potential should he a higher focus than just being attractive or having a spark ha. My opinion of course. I’m observed the situations of a lot of people who didnt want to give me the time or day and they slide in my dm’s seeing I’m a good parent and think I’m single cuz i dont post my wife much. Even in this video she didn’t wanna be seen.
Rock Lee
2023-08-09 14:54:05 +0000 UTCAt work the older employees put heavy thought into this. Some ask me if I have kids based on my demeanor will working. I just assumed they are trying to butter me up, but it got me thinking more about this
Tazell Pouncey
2023-08-09 14:50:17 +0000 UTC
