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Q&A about Japan!!

Added 2025-06-09 06:26:36 +0000 UTC

Hello! These are some of your questions that I will answer based on what I saw and felt during my 14-day experience there. It may not be 100% accurate and there's no intention to bring any negativity or anything like that.

1. Any recommendations for underwear and swimwear stores in Japan?

Near Sannomiya Station, I visited a HUGE mall located close to Kobe Tower. You can actually go up the tower too, but there’s an extra fee—around ¥1,000 (roughly $6,15). The area is by the sea, so you’ll find lots of resorts, hotels, and more around there.

This area is also close to the port that connects cities and even goes overseas—to South Korea, for example. After walking a bit past the port, I arrived at a big mall called Umie. It's pretty much your typical shopping mall.

Here, I found underwear, sportswear, and also the swimwear I’d been looking for. The designs were all super cute! Prices ranged around ¥3,000 to ¥5,000 (roughly IDR 500,000 to 800,000, or about $30 to $50). But I didn’t end up buying anything, honestly—my wallet was already crying in Japan! Everything is so expensive! 😭

2. Did you go to Japan solo or with a travel agency? Was it hard to apply for a visa or find a travel agency?

I spent 14 days in Japan—12 days solo and 2 days with a friend who lives there. We met up on the weekend since she had to work during the week.
Up to now, I’ve never used a travel agency for any of my trips abroad. I always travel independently—booking hotels, finding places to eat, planning transportation, and so on.

For me personally, applying for a Japanese visa was pretty easy, especially because it can be done online.
If you have an e-passport, you can apply for what’s called the Japan Visa Waiver through their official website. It’s free, and if your application is approved, it usually only takes 1–3 business days to process. (for Indonesian Pasport)

Once approved, the Visa Waiver allows you to stay in Japan for up to 15 days per trip and is valid for 3 years. So if you want to return to Japan within that period, you don’t need to reapply.

If you’re holding a regular (non-e-passport), you’ll need to apply for a visa through the Japanese Embassy instead.

3. Curious about the onsen experience?

I stayed at different hotels during my trip, and I specifically chose ones that had onsen facilities.
Most of the onsens were pretty similar—there’s usually a small stool, a soaking tub, a wash basin, and all the essentials like soap and shampoo are provided.
The only thing that really varied was the opening hours.

4. Is it true that people in Japan tend to be individualistic?

Based on what I saw during my trip, I’d say YES. I walked around a lot and spent time in parks, and I often saw locals doing things alone—like jogging at night, eating alone, smoking quietly by the street, or just sitting in the park by themselves.

Basically... just like me! I was solo the entire time too—HAHA. I didn’t really talk to anyone while I was there, except maybe the cashier at Family Mart. And even then, it was just a quick “Arigato.”

5. What’s the ideal minimum number of days for a trip to Japan?

In my personal opinion, I’d say the ideal minimum is around 7 days. That gives you enough time to explore a few cities without feeling too rushed.

6. So… how’s the average penis size of Japanese men?

Hmm, this is a bit of a tricky one to answer directly, so let me just talk about Japanese men’s physical features in general, based on what I observed—especially since I visited five different onsens, from small, quiet ones to busy ones with hundreds of visitors.

Here’s what I noticed:

Their skin is usually fair, light, or slightly yellow-toned
Straight black hair
Most of them seem to be around 160–170 cm tall, with a petite or compact build
As for penis size, in my observation, it tends to be a bit smaller compared to Indonesian men

and here is sample for Japanese look like.

Source : https://sexdicted.com/pics/naked-japanese-men-onsen

7. Any info on accommodations with onsen?

I’ve already talked about that in the “Where I Stayed in Japan” section—feel free to check it out anytime!

8. How does it feel to be around naked people in an onsen?

Honestly? Totally normal.
Don’t compare it to, say, being in a locker room in Indonesia—it’s completely different. The vibe is calm, respectful, and unbothered.
You will feel safe. Trust me.

9. What’s the best onsen you’ve been to in Japan?

Of course SPA WORLD OSAKA. The best in town!! It was just amazing! There were so many different onsen pools to choose from.

10. What’s the temperature like in Japan?

During my time there, I experienced a wide range of temperatures, from 1°C to 11°C.

11. Was it fun there?

Honestly, it was super fun, even though I was alone. I made memories and created history for my own story.

12. Is it hard to visit Japan if you don’t speak Japanese?

Honestly, yes haha, because most people in Japan don’t speak English. It’s very rare. So, it’s best if you learn some Japanese or, like me, use a translator and sign language haha.

13. Are there people cruising in Japanese onsens?

Okay, let’s clear this up first—what exactly is cruising? I just looked it up, and cruising in this context means someone seeking a sexual partner in a public place (like an onsen).
To be honest, I never even thought about that, nor did I pay attention to other people’s actions (I felt it would be impolite, especially since I was a minority there). I just kept my head down and focused on myself because my intention was to relax and clean up. Always felt safe here.

14. How much did you spend during your trip until you came back?

Interesting question!! I’ll talk about this in a separate chapter later!

15. How long is this blog valid after purchase?

It’s valid for a lifetime! You only need to make a one-time purchase for the blog content.

16. Did you need a visa to go to Japan? Was the process difficult?

E-passport holders = Visa waiver (free online application, processed in 1–3 days)

Regular passport holders = You need a visa, go to the embassy, and pay.

17. When is the best time to visit Japan? Summer or winter?

From what I’ve heard, it’s best to avoid summer because it gets insanely hot—up to 42°C. Some people in Japan even pass away from heatstroke.

18. What’s the preparation before going to an onsen?

Just take a clean shower, use soap, and wash your hair. That’s it.

19. Did you hook up with any locals in Japan?

I didn’t think about it.

20. Is Japan really like in anime?

Honestly, yes! The vibe is definitely anime-like. Especially with school kids, from kindergarten to elementary, it feels like you’re watching Chibi Maruko Chan. And high schoolers look like anime characters—sharp eyes, thick eyebrows, straight hair, and that’s pretty much it.

21. Favorite place in Japan?

When I was in Ako.

22. Is it hard to find halal food in Japan?

Honestly, it was really difficult for me. That’s why I brought some supplies from Indonesia, like instant porridge, for example.I also brought some spices. Then I cooked it here. Halal food is really hard to find, even when cooking myself. Why? Because even if I buy chicken, I don’t know how it’s slaughtered or prepared properly. But sometimes, I get confused, so I just end up buying something like teriyaki chicken from the supermarket and heating it up in the hotel microwave.

My usual meals consisted of one sachet of porridge + 3 tablespoons of oats + Tropicana broth + 1 chicken + vegetables. I never bought a lot of bottled water here—I just get it from the hotel or drink from water fountains. Fruit is so expensive! The most I bought was bananas.

23. Did you see Mount Fuji?

No.

24. What’s the best season to visit Japan to avoid expensive flight tickets?

Flight prices fluctuate. Sometimes they’re cheap, sometimes they’re expensive, and the changes happen quickly. Honestly, I’ve never really looked for tips on what day or time is best to book flights. What matters most is that the timing fits my schedule. The only advice I’ve heard is to avoid summer because it gets so hot there.

25. How much money should I save for the trip?

I’ll cover this in a separate chapter later!

26. Do you have to be naked in Japanese onsens?

YES, IT’S MANDATORY! Underwear and swimwear are not allowed at all! Even the clean towels provided shouldn’t be brought into the water.

27. Recommended adult trip?

A friend of mine who lives in Japan recommended I try Toilet Fun. He said, "Yakuza business! Just try, walking, strolling. Open 12pm–10pm. No camera allowed, even in your hand!" I was like, no way! So I just ignored it.
Basically, it’s a sex entertainment place, offering various types of male-to-female, male-to-male, and female-to-female services. My friend tried it, and the price was around IDR 1,500,000 for 20 minutes. If you want to try, go ahead, hahaha.

28. When was your first onsen experience and how was it?

It was when I first arrived in Japan. The hotel I stayed at had an onsen facility, and since it was quiet, it felt normal. On the second day, I went with an old man, and after that, it became pretty routine. So, my first onsen moment was with an old man.

29. What food was really good in Japan?

I’m not a food hunter anywhere I go. I always stick to comfort food, as long as there’s rice, chicken, and vegetables. But I did try a restaurant that was both delicious and cheap. You should try Saizeriya—it’s tasty, affordable, and matches Indonesian taste. Of course, I got rice and chicken. You can read more in the Cheap and Tasty Eats chapter.

30. Are people friendly and kind when you’re in an onsen?

Not really, neither of those. Everyone’s just doing their own thing, even Japanese people with other Japanese people. So, I just went in, took my shower, and enjoyed the experience.

31. Any experience meeting random people in Japan?

Not really. The only time I interacted with Japanese people was when I was shopping. But I did meet some random Western tourists. We were both at Spa World, and as we were about to leave, the guy was confused about how to check out. I helped him because the staff didn’t speak English. We were both solo travelers. That’s it—no other random encounters or conversations with Japanese locals.

32. When you’re naked, do people stare at you a lot?

Honestly, I didn’t pay attention because it feels impolite to focus on others. I just turned my face away and kept my head down.

33. What was your culture shock?

The speed at which Japanese people work, like cashiers at supermarkets, is incredible—totally different from the slow service you often get at mini-marts in Indonesia. Most services are also self-service, and even elderly people are still working.

34. Best photo spots in Japan?

So many! Almost every photo I took in Japan turned out amazing!

35. Did you try riding a rickshaw pulled by a Japanese guy?

No.

36. When will you go to Japan again?

I’d love to go once a year, haha.

39. Do you offer Jastip (shopping service)?

I did briefly offer it, but only for small items like fridge magnets.

40. Do you have plans to travel around all of Japan?

I’d love to travel all around Japan.

41. Best spa in Japan?

I didn’t try any spas there, so I don’t know.

42. Recommended tourist spots in Japan?

It depends on what you like. Personally, I avoid crowded places, so I prefer going to rural areas and cycling around. There are so many tourist spots like castles, Universal Studios, etc.

43. Was solo traveling fun?

It was super fun!

44. Hello! Just wanted to say keep creating content!!

Thank you!!

45. Are there any nightlife spots in Japan?

I think there are, but I didn’t look for them.

46. There are a lot of onsens in Japan, right? Is it fun?

Yes, so many!! Some are in hotels and combined with accommodations, and others are special onsen places! It’s really a part of the culture there.

47. What’s the winter temperature in Japan?

When I was there, it was between 1–11°C.

48. What cities have you visited?

Osaka, Himeji, Kobe, and Ako.

49. Was solo traveling worth it?

Definitely!! You should try it!

50. When will you go to Hong Kong?

I want to go this year, but I’m not sure yet.

51. How about Tokyo?

I didn’t go there.

52. Are Japanese people friendly?

They’re not overly friendly, but they are respectful. When you meet, they bow.

53. What did you use to book accommodations?

I used Klook, Agoda, and Tiket.com.

54. What’s the most unique or unexpected thing you experienced in Japan?

There was a fire, so I ended up watching it, haha.

55. Is Japan really that clean?

Yes, almost everything is super clean! It’s a fact.

56. What airline did you use? Any tips for getting cheap tickets?

Philippine Airlines. I don’t really have tips because I’ve never gotten cheap tickets, haha.

57. How did you feel after the onsen?

Relaxed and free.

58. Is staying in a capsule hotel comfortable? How about the bathroom, other guests, and everything else?

The capsule hotel I stayed in had individual capsules for each room, so it wasn’t shared with anyone else, which made it very comfortable. The bathroom and toilet were fine too, because it wasn’t too crowded.

59. What’s the budget for 10 days in Japan?

Starting from IDR 20,000,000, it should be safe.

60. Where can you find antique or second-hand items?

I’m not really sure about antique items, but for second-hand goods, you can go to Second Street stores. There are many branches, and the larger ones sometimes even have electronics.

61. What’s the budget for hotels?

It depends on what you like. For me, a budget of $12,30 to $24,60 per night is enough.

62. List of cheap accommodations in Japan?

There are a lot of affordable and comfortable hotels in Japan, like the ones I stayed at in Osaka. You can also check out the "Hotel" chapter for more details.

63. What’s the budget for public transportation in Japan?

You can check the "budget" chapter for more details! But public transportation can be quite expensive, even with trains. If you plan to travel around one city by train, you might need around $61,51. For intercity travel, it could start from $123 to $307 for about 1 to 2 weeks.

64. Will you try Male-Only Spa content next?

Very soon!

65. What city is good for solo traveling in Japan for 1 week? Are there any hidden gems?

If you like quiet places like me, you must try Ako. It’s very peaceful, and you can rent a bike for just $3,08 from 9 AM to 5 PM. You can cycle around the area, visit the castle, head to the beach, or explore parks. It’s quiet, clean, and serene. I only stayed for a day in Ako but I would have loved to stay for longer.

66. Are saunas in Japan usually open?

What do you mean? The room or the people? The sauna itself can’t be open; otherwise, it won’t be hot. But yes, people are required to be naked inside the sauna.

67. Was your trip to Japan purely for vacation or did you have a side job?

It was a full vacation!

68. Why did you choose to travel to Japan this time?

The answer is simply, "Because I’ve never been here before," haha.

69. Is it free in Japan?

Wherever you stand, the sky above you is what you respect. As long as you follow the rules, and honestly, I’m not sure what "free" means here, haha.

70. Where is the easiest place to eat in Japan?

Saizeriya! It’s a place loved by Japanese students because it’s affordable. You can have a meal for about IDR 100,000 (which is one of the cheapest meals in Japan).