A bisexual man is like a unicorn to me and I don’t understand how it doesn’t add to a man’s charm that he’s queer - someone who is probably open minded ( 😏 ), tolerant, knowledgeable about minorities and oppression, etc that comes with being in the community.
These same straight women that get suspicious if a guy is bi tell their gay friends, “I wish you liked women, then I’d date you” 🙄 It’s all rooted in misogyny anyway, it’s the opposite side of the coin of when the girlfriend cheats with a lady and it’s all “nice, that’s hot” and even the boyfriend is sometimes, “well it was just a girl”. As long as it’s not a man, it doesn’t count. Honestly, I think it takes a ton of bravery to come out as a bi man and be potentially rejected by literally everyone in your life.
I always wondered if gay guys with bi boyfriends ever felt threatened by women and it doesn’t seem they are. I narrowed it down to it being a straight thing cos I think bi women don’t have that issue with bi men, only straight women. More research needed, so any bi guys call me 🤙 😂
Jessi Lovely
2025-07-04 08:54:56 +0000 UTC
"just say it, you have to say it" is my favorite line from this episode.
I agree that whole scene is so well written, but it's the simple yet powerful build up to that line that's everything for me. The show's approach to showing a couple that love each other but are not right for each other, without having to force a "villain" character is exactly the kind of storytelling I love.