AITA: Not Inviting the Special Needs Kid to Party (ft. Tahir Moore & Boze)

Clearly you don't know what it's like being handicapped. You have zero empathy. This isn't about a popularity contest. It's about a boy who is struggling mentally every single fucking minute. It wouldn't hurt you to include him into the party and let him feel normal once in awhile and show him his handicap doesn't scare people off. Only assholes would deny these kids freedom from their handicap. I hope your kid turns to be handicapped so you learn the lesson the hard way. Wondering why no one is friends with your son. Why your son tries to kill himself all the time. You're an asshole.

You think the mom grew up knowing how to have a kid? It takes time to learn that shit, that mom didn't want to put in an effort to include the handicap kid. You are evil and disgusting. Just like the asshole mom. People with empathy understand this simple concept.

The part about Tiff and the funeral is an awkward situation. I believe that it depends on the relationship between Tiff and the guy. If she saw a future, she should've went to support him. It's not about showing your face to his family, it's about being there for your spouse.

Man, you people need to learn what it's like to be mentally handicapped or your kids need to be handicapped because you guys lack empathy. Let's see you have the convo to tell your autistic kid and tell him why no one will ever invite him. Tell your kid, no one in the class cares about you.

What does this have to do with an Autistic kid?

Oh whyyyyyyy was it “rude” to not invite all the class to a birthday party. Like I didn’t go around saying “I’m not inviting you” like in my elementary school we were told if you invite people to birthday parties you have to invite everyone. Like bitch no I don’t like everyone I’m sorry that kid doesn’t get invited but he’s 7 and is always touching his dick or this little girl is mean or this fucker over here puts boogers on people. I don’t lie everybody so why would I invite everybody?

I laughed at this way harder then needed too. I'm so going to hell. This is why Tahir and Steve compliment each other on JK News. But man was that dark humor pushing the line 😂😂😂

yall motherfuckers thinking too hard no she aint the asshole. People just got sticks up their ass making wild assumptions instead of thinking from the other persons view of someone who doesnt know how to deal with special needs people. Get over yourselves

Seiru Himio

Oof being the autistic kid (high functioning) this hurts in the memories

i love the dark humour lol

Exactly

I think you're allowed to invite, or not invite whoever you want to your birthday party. But for the mom to give the ultimatum to either invite only girl classmates, or the entire class, then let her daughter choose to not invite the special needs kid? That's unfair and counterproductive to the lesson you're trying to teach. Send the invite to the special needs kid's parents and discuss with them how to navigate.

more dark humour lmaoooo

I’m like Tahir when he was explaining his personality at the beginning like damn. War exactly the same type of person lol

Jordan Vaught

As a mom to Nonverbal autistic little girl I personally know what my child can and can not handle/do. And most parents with specially needs kids do as well. Parents of autistic individuals already have to deal with so many meltdowns a day we want avoid as many as possible. Inviting the special needs child would have been a good way of showing her child about acceptance. But send the invites throw mail is a better way then her daughter handing them out during school and making them feel felt out. Just cuz someone is special does not make them retarded!

I think the mom should have thought it through a little more, because at the end of the day, there could be a lesson learned from the situation. She should've talked to the mom of the special needs kid, discussed if/how the kid would enjoy the party. AND she should've set up a play date of sorts so her daughter could get to know the kid. She's inviting the whole class but denies the kid because she doesn't know him well. The play date could be a chance for them to be friends, and then the daughter would have a better opinion about the kid. I understand she should have what she wants on her birthday but the mom gave her invite limits. Why not at least try to invite the kid or just have a girls only party? That's what I would do anyway. (Me personally, I wouldn't have a party unless I could be exclusive with invites. Invite my best friends and not call it a party, if I had to.)

Can you please bring back big mood merch!

This wasn't necessary

I don't think she's an asshole. Not everyone knows how to deal with these situations and I think she dealt with it fine. I mean she could have talked to his parents because I think they would know if the whole class got invited to a party and their son didn't. I never had this problem because my family was so big that I never thought to invite friends from school. I got invited to parties tho but my mom always needed to make sure they weren't serial killers. Most of the time she said no.

Whitney Williams

lets be real, nobody wants the retarded kid at the party