Some bad news
Added 2022-01-18 20:01:34 +0000 UTCSo, a week or so before my facial feminization surgery, it’s officially been cancelled… and now won’t happen until August. I’m honestly devastated. I’ve been waiting for years… I feel my life has been on hold for this. I’ve delayed so much for this, like earnestly pursing romantic relationships, and I was right at the finish line… and now I have to wait longer. God, COVID sucks. I’m basically just really down right now and I’ll get through it but I’m just…. Not happy. I wish I could just fund this myself and not have to wait for Kaiser’s stupid long wait times. The state of trans healthcare is just… horrid.
Comments
Sorry to hear about the postponement. While it is delayed it’s great to see how your fans are holding you in their cares. It’s heartening to observe the community built. 🙏🏾
Libre Spirits Collective
2022-01-21 15:18:55 +0000 UTC*hugs*
allykitten87
2022-01-20 14:52:19 +0000 UTCSo sorry. This post inspired me to lose my Patreon virginity and become a humble patron. Sending love from NW Oregon♥️ Also we have Kaiser too. I love it but understand it’s not perfect, and hearing how hard it is to get proper health care from a trans perspective. I wonder if there’s anything ally’s can do to help?
2022-01-20 03:46:03 +0000 UTC🫂
Hannah F.
2022-01-19 23:46:44 +0000 UTCSending support and big virtual hugs. The state of Healthcare in this country is terrible, and even worse for trans folks. I wish it was better. And, agreed, COVID sucks ass
2022-01-19 13:18:58 +0000 UTCThat's frustrating. No matter how attractive you are, it's important to feel comfortable in your body. I believe society will get to a better place. If only we were there already. 😢
2022-01-19 06:13:40 +0000 UTCThis is crushing news. Self-image is so important. It might sound strange or shallow but feeling good in one’s own skin, including aesthetics, is really important to love oneself. We see you as beautiful already, but you deserve to feel that way too! Sending you lots of love!
Mimosa
2022-01-19 05:33:06 +0000 UTCI'm literally in tears reading your post ( and the comment section too) I can only fathom the sinking feeling it expecting something and just when you are about to get it you aren't able to ( sorry my broken English there )... Hold tight , covid is putting so many things on hold and it's really frustrating, you deserve to feel whole and gorgeous ( that i will also echo the feeling that you are very attractive , not that's the point of your post ) Stay strong , your time will come !
2022-01-19 05:20:16 +0000 UTCI am facing this just for an orchi. I've been denied bodily autonomy 4 times, the first time I cried for 5 hours straight, and then randomly for 2 days
2022-01-19 04:44:20 +0000 UTCYou're a amazing and never let anyone tell you different!
Jose Alfredo Villalobos
2022-01-19 03:46:42 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry, Jessie 😔 How painful to have yet another delay on something so important 💔
LK
2022-01-19 02:07:45 +0000 UTCoh, no, i'm so sorry. i try and look on the bright side of things, but this sucks, especially so close to when it was scheduled.
Chris Bird
2022-01-19 01:25:24 +0000 UTC
