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4 AM Tales of an INTROVERT...Spilling Tea STORYTIME

Hi everyone. So the number one question I have is how to set boundaries when you invite someone to your home without making things awkward...

Hope you enjoy my ramblings of a mother just trying her best...๐Ÿ˜†

Sending you lots of love!

*LoFi Rambles* *Keyboard Scratching* *Tapping* *Nail Clacking* 

4 AM Tales of an INTROVERT...Spilling Tea STORYTIME

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Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Danny. Itโ€™s very true. Itโ€™s better to assert your feelings and boundaries before things get worse or boundaries are never set. Alot of things went wrong that day but I learned a lot in the process. I never want to make someone feel unwelcomed but we all have our limitations. Honesty is key and healthy in any relationship moving forward.

Iโ€™m so glad you like my chats! Thank you for sharing your tips and also your perspective as an extrovert. Iโ€™ve never met a Virgo I didnโ€™t like. Head strong in the BEST of ways. I always overthink a situation but sending the message in a light hearted way is the perfect way to approach it. I have to try being more lightly assertive especially now that my children are getting older and I will have more of these experiences. Appreciate you, Hahna!

I just have to say I have listen to this video like four times. I love love love story times and just you chatting. Thatโ€™s why I subscribe to the Patreon to get more of that and you always deliver!!! As far as getting people out of your house - Iโ€™m a Virgo, extrovert, very straightforward individual and it pays dividends in these situations. Just because Iโ€™m an extrovert doesnโ€™t mean I donโ€™t want people to fucking leave. I want my space you know ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ so I have literally just said to people โ€œ all right yโ€™all hate to kick out but Iโ€™ve got shit to doโ€ ๐Ÿ˜‚ and I kind of see it light hearted like a joke. And itโ€™s almost like people realize like โ€œoh crap OK yeah, we will have to get going too!โ€ Works every time !!!

itโ€™s soooo easy to say โ€œset boundaries!!โ€ but in my experience whenever i want to say something itโ€™s like iโ€™m literally physically unable to!! like the words cannot leave my mouth. iโ€™d say a big part of it is not worrying about offending / upsetting anyone. you can be up front and firm but still kind about it. iโ€™d rather have someone be a little pissed at me for the rest of the evening than absolutely miserable in my own home. especially if you donโ€™t want to be close with these parents


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