Q&A: How Can I Help Make My Friend's Transition Better?
Added 2019-11-08 14:50:56 +0000 UTCI appreciate this comic so much. It just makes me so happy. Aunt Roz is my favorite, all the way. She is the Aunt I hope to be... That being said, I'm a cis female looking up to her and my friend recently came out as a trans woman. (And I am totally going to show them Roz) I'm trying to give 110% support and was wondering if any advice could be offered to me to make their transition better, or direct advice for them (they are still thinking about pronouns)?
We're happy to hear you say that, thank you. Roz is also one of my favorite characters. A friend has told me he sees me 50% Roz and 50% Magnus and I can't argue with that!
I think so many of us struggle to find who we are and often struggle more loving ourselves for it. I do believe the one thing that makes it better is support, which it sounds like your friend already has <3 We may not fully understand exactly what someone is going through, but we can always support their efforts as they progress and do our best to relate. While many people may not question gender identity, so many can relate to identifying and working to become the person they want to be and I feel those things aren't too far off from each other.
Just the fact that you're writing for advice shows you've got a caring heart and your friend is in good hands. Just support them, listen to them, and they'll figure out their happiness. As for advice for them directly; take your time and listen to your heart. Surround yourself with people who support you and people who have gone through what you're going through. There are many great, supportive transgender groups online and if you're not a part of one already, perhaps look into it. Most importantly; be patient. Things never go at the speed we'd like and it can seem frustrating, but things will progress.
You and your friend are very lucky to have each other.
Big hug <3
