Are you ready to be naughty for me???

How dirty is too dirty? I often try keep my descriptions and other writings with my mod tasteful with still getting the idea/point across. Example would be: I want to explain in this buff/moodlet that this Sim is feeling turned on so I will explain it in a way like this: "This Sim is feeling quite aroused due to their Dom/me's actions."

What about the word "horny" or "hard" if it is a Sim with a penis? Is that too much? What if a Sim is Dominant and wants to tell her male sub "his cock is too small and pathetic to deserve any pleasure", is that too far? Or what if a Sim has the Master trait and wants to remind his slave "you belong to me and I will use your holes as I want, when I want!" Is that too weird?

I don't plan on being super raunchy but I would like to know where the line is? My biggest fear is to offend someone or just turn them off entirely. Have you ever downloaded a mod from LL and opened it and it was just all in your face like, "YEAH FUCK THAT SIM IN HER WHORE PUSSY AND THEN CUM HOT LOADS OF HOT CUM ALL OVER HER WHORE FACE"??? 

(Okay, not from an actual mod, but you get my point right? It's like woah, too much and not what I was going for and now I just feel bad for Lila the Sim because even though she does have a vagina I would like to fuck and perhaps some DSLs I'd like my Sim to ejaculate on, that description was a little much.)

Now, in my opinion, and experiences in the BDSM community, I have to say I LOVE being mean and dominant or having someone be mean while dominating--and by mean, I am referring to being the most degrading possible. No, I don't want to be called fat or reminded about how I was at fault for a real-life situation, obviously lol. But things I am secure about or my "victim" is secure about, I love to humiliate or be humiliated with. But I would hate if I put something in FlirtyFetishes that just turned the player off. 

So is telling a male (fashion choice of the Sim) Sim his penis is tiny too much? And if it isn't, would you prefer words like "cock" and "dick"? I think using medical terms would be more of a turn off than going too far haha. But I am clearly a freak. Do you want a buff titled "Vaginal Secretion" that goes onto describe "this Sim's downstair region is becoming very saturated with fluids released from her physical response of arousal." Or it could be like: "Soaking Wet Panties" whose description is read: "So-and-So cannot help but feel turned on by her Dom/me's interactions! They are making her so wet her panties are drenched with her own juices." Like is that too much??? What about the word "pussy"?

I truly feel as if you will enjoy it with most things being displayed tastefully and fitting to the scenario while somethings could be a little naughtier? Like when a Sim is in their BDSiM* mood, and tells the other Sim they are experiencing this mood, and you, the player, receives a notification stating something along the lines of "I am in such a Dominant mood, I think you are going to prove to me how much of a good slut you really are!" Is this a good time to add a little more sexy? I mean, if you are playing FlirtyFetishes, you and your Sims definitely are a little freaky, right?! 

But I don't want to offend!  It's 2022, and I know slut-shaming is something we are trying to move past socially...but, in the Simlish world, and in my own, I LOVE BEING CALLED A SLUT. I love calling others a slut when we are having a session. But it is not meant in a disrespectful, outside of the session, way. If anything, it is a compliment because we are performing BDSM. Don't you want to be good little slut for your Mistress? In real life, I would NEVER call anyone a slut, whore, bitch, etc. because I am no one to judge anyone's actions and it is none of my business. But if you are mine for the night, especially if it is a training session, you are not only going to asked if you are a slut in 648 different ways, you will be trained to be a slut because, erm...isn't that what you want to be to please me? So, is this something I need to be concerned with not to say???

Voting 1 & 2: 

So, I am going to give you a general option to vote first with a basic yes or no. Second, following this will be a list of words you can vote on if you are comfortable with me using them. 

*DO NOT CLICK/VOTE ON ANY WORD YOU DO NOT LIKE AND/OR ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH.*

That being said, if there is a word that you absolutely despise, hate even just to see it, PTSD episodes occur from any of the words, etc. please comment or message me so I can know it is something differing than you just not a fan of the word. (Like the 98% of people who dislike the word "moist." But sometimes, it isn't wet, it is just feeling moist... Or, my moist mouth is going to make you feel so good! HAHAH okay, I'm just being a silly "slut.")

Voting 3:

*I had this idea based on something I absolutely adore about the Sims games and worlds. You know when you order a drink from the bar, and the options are names like: juice on the rocks? And you know it means like a bourbon on the rocks? Or how you get into a Flirty mood but you know that Sim is feeling horny? And just how there is a Simlish language included with its own alphabet, and it is like the human world we live in, but somethings are not? Or they are but they are just some serious puns and play on words to make it original and unique to the Sims and their world? Well, I was thinking of this concept and thought it would be a fun and unique element for FlirtyFetishes: BDSM. Which, would really be FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM!!! So if you haven't gathered where I am going with this, BDSiM = Simlish BDSM as we, in the not so virtually simulated world have human BDSM--is this dumb, clever, or redundant? 

I just love the flavor the Simlish world and how it has progressed in its own light over the years. Someone I really trust, respect, and admire (not listing any names...) said this may be overcomplicating it. I can see my friend's perspective, but I also see mine and that is when I code my mod, I just feel odd saying real people terms like "BDSM" because it could be more fun, with more of the Simlish finesse, and you know, the whole fucking reason we enjoy playing it! But, I know the brilliant person whom I speak of knows their shit and they also know I have a tendency of overcomplicating things haha. Which is probably why when they told me to do what I want and I responded "don't I always?" they definitely have the notion and RIGHT to tell me "I guess so, but it sometimes bites you in the ass." LOL. So what do y'all think? Keep it or forget about it? Not saying it will be more or less than if I just used the term BDSM, but thought it added a nice touch! 

If you are still here, bless your fucking heart! Thanks for your support Masters and Mistresses! Now fucking VOTE! Add anything you enjoy I didn't list!