Explanation of HFO and JOI on audios.

I'm trying to think  of the best way to word this, but I have read quite a bit of discussion and questions on social sites about some of the terms used by creators like me. Specifically about the acronyms "JOI" and "HFO." And it seems a lot of guys want to get it right because they want to either please  "Domina" or they want to fully experience the audio as it is designed. 

JOI: Jack Off Instructions - this means you are given specific instructions on how to masturbate. For example: Take your finger and run it up and down your shaft. Now grab hold of your shaft and begin to stroke it nice and slow...now go faster....etc...

HFO: Hands Free Orgasm - This means you are encouraged to have an orgasm without touching yourself. An orgasm using the power of the mind (this orgasm can cause an ejaculation out of your penis or it can be an internal orgasm without ejaculation). Sometimes binary beats can be put in the audio as background sound to stimulate arousal of this area. However I think the term confuses some people and I also see it being misused a lot . I have seen that the term is often used incorrectly when an entertainer doesn't give the listener specific JOI (Jack Off Instructions), she will then call it an HFO even when it isn't.  If you see an HFO on an audio and you really need to touch yourself to enjoy it then do that. Use the triggers and snaps as supplements. Do what works for you and then you can always go back later and try it a different way if you want to challenge yourself, etc. 

Personally, I have been mislabeling some audios as HFO and didn't realize I was doing that until someone started asking me questions today and made me really think about it.  That said, I am going to create a new acronym. When I don't give specific JOI (Jack Off Instructions) and it isn't an HFO then I will call it a SGM Self Guided Masturbation (or is there already an acronym or for this? let me know.)  That means you listen to what I am doing to you in the audio and touch yourself however you want. So if I am giving you a blow job in the audio then you can use your hand and pretend like it is my mouth but I won't be saying, "now touch yourself like this for me..." . I will be saying, feel my warm wet mouth cover your....and you can SGM. 

So I hope I am making sense, lol (I'm probably not).  I will be changing many of my HFO labels on some of my audios.  The purpose of these acronym labels on an audio is really just to help you prepare for what to expect beforehand so you can participate in the audio as you are suppose to.  

Questions?