DISCUSSION - What is the main thing you wish your S.O., partner or someone you are attracted to would work on the most?
Added 2021-08-10 23:00:03 +0000 UTCHey,
It's that time again...
What is a major thing you wish your partner would improve on or seek help with to make them more attractive to you? This can be sexually or otherwise, anything!
If you don't have a partner or aren't in a relationship, what is something you wish the people you were attracted to or vying to get the attention of would work on to make them even more appealing to you?
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I wish most men were louder? more vocal? FUCKING MOAN FOR ME! Or something. So I can know if you're enjoying what I'm doing or to change up!?! Plus it's just hot!
Monica Austin-Force
2023-07-04 07:40:24 +0000 UTCMaking me finish 🤡
Emslou
2021-08-18 12:44:31 +0000 UTCI'd wish my soul person would romance me. Randomly take go on meaningful dates, and spend quality time. We could even do nothing but cuddle on the couch watching random tv shows. I just love quality time together.
Kay Mitchell
2021-08-14 20:13:05 +0000 UTCI'm not with anyone and haven't been for a few years now. I'm just hoping someone with strong communication skills, open mindedness, and understanding comes along. To make themselves more attractive, I would love for a man to have a passion. There's so many times I've met a man that's just dead inside with no light or fire for anything other than not dying and it is so heart breaking.
Dame
2021-08-11 13:33:37 +0000 UTCFrankly at this point I’m just happy to be there
Jenny
2021-08-11 07:37:23 +0000 UTCTaking my need for him to be more in charge seriously. I'm a bit of a brat, so I appreciate logical and firm guidance.
Agent Paper
2021-08-11 04:23:33 +0000 UTCNot attached, and not currently interested in anyone... but the question is a good one! If there was anything I sought in a man, is one who is patient, confident but not arrogant and has that sense of calmness or wisdom when practicing patients with someone like me, who worries, second guesses at times and tends to struggle with trust due to past relationships or pick a fight when my pride is poked at. I want Someone who would be comfortable just being there and not needing to talk, just be comfortable with presence and physical touch when I deal with my depression or struggle through life. Who listens when I need to talk, who builds my confidence but also is firm when I am wrong and tries to guide me back to the right path with a loving hand. Someone who I can let my guard down and not appear bossy or hide behind a laugh and smile— To feel feminine, because I tend to be dominant and prideful in life and my works, to be a girl, to be a lady and just be the woman I have been hiding and protecting from previous hurt. I want a man who will not just satisfy me in bed but someone who I can call my best-friend and my rock through this thing we called life. And I want to be all of this for him, whoever he might be ❤️
Alli Ple
2021-08-11 03:41:16 +0000 UTCNot attached at the moment. I need the dominance. I want to feel like a woman or feel feminine when I'm with him. To better explain, I'm very dominant. In general, people are intimidated by me. It's tiring. I need a guy that I'm comfortable around to put down that barrier and feel/be vulnerable and safe around. Or a better description; submissive.
Just_call_me_V
2021-08-11 03:22:05 +0000 UTCAnd be more of a daddy dom as well 😅
Vic
2021-08-11 02:05:40 +0000 UTCNot assume I’m so vanilla and innocent. My boyfriend rn thought I was innocent in the kink department he was sooo wrong. When we first did it he was surprised on how experienced I was and how flexible as well. He’s slowly learning I’m a freak in the sheets that’s basically into anything
Vic
2021-08-11 02:02:36 +0000 UTCNot think that I am fragile. I prefer rough and brutal pacing. Not slow AF and gentle with kidd gloves. I don't need to be coddled I need to be throughly dominated. I'm naturally submissive and I will get out of the relationship quicker than a car crashing on black ice. If I feel like I'm doing all the work and getting nothing in return.
Lisa
2021-08-11 00:46:00 +0000 UTCI want my fiance to act more like a Daddy Dom at least in bed. I want to try to experiment with everyday life if him being my dom.
Amanda Tutt
2021-08-11 00:08:26 +0000 UTCI don't have a SO or anyone I'm attracted to right now. But in the future, I'd like someone that understands what they want (in a relationship and life) and understands/admits to their faults and shows that they're willing and able to improve upon them. I'm done falling hard for people that are beyond broken and not willing to put in any effort to fix the cracks.
Abie
2021-08-10 23:56:49 +0000 UTCI wish he’d workout and take more initiative in bed he’s just not aggressive
Maria xoxo
2021-08-10 23:15:07 +0000 UTCI'm really trying to get my husband to work on being more dominant honestly. He is trying slowly but surely. I just don't think any of his previous partners were into anything that wasn't vanilla. And unfortunately (or fortunately) he married a straight up freak 😜
Christina Paull
2021-08-10 23:04:42 +0000 UTC
