This came out a few shades more sinister than it was meant to but tbh when people ignore my boundaries even in seemingly benign ways, it’s a red flag. It’s really hard for me to bring it up with people, especially when they think they’re being playful. I’m always wary of being the bitch in a situation but the truth is that if I actively embraced my inner bitch, I’d feel a lot safer and happier.
Idk why it’s so hard to get across to people ‘I don’t like this so don’t do it’. That’s not an invitation to do it in a jokey way, it doesn’t mean do it unless I tell you not to... it means don’t do it smh