OJST: Adult Dating Anxiety by Liv Hamilton
Added 2021-11-16 08:10:01 +0000 UTChttps://www.ohjoysextoy.com/my-adult-dating-anxiety-liv-hamilton
Dating can be daunting and it's especially so when you're just beginning to do it later in life than your peers. Liv Hamilton talks about their experience of coming out and going out as an adult when "everyone else" has been doing it since their teen years- or, at least, that's what it feels like.
Comments
I liked this one! Everybody has it when it happens. This may happen earlier or later than others, but one thing is clear that the first impressions of this are very vivid and memorable.
NakedSunFlower
2021-11-17 23:07:07 +0000 UTCOh! I just discovered that your avatar has changed somewhat. It really looks great!
VitAnyaNaked
2021-11-17 00:04:32 +0000 UTCI really don't think cishet people get the "what if someone sees us" anxiety the way queer people do. This comic describes about a pretty specifically queer feeling, that "what if" because we've been used to being closeted. It's not the same anxiety you get on a date that can be seen as being cis-het even if it's not. I haven't dated het people or cis people in years, but I have AFAB fem presenting partners and I'm a cis queer dude. When I'm out with them there's none of the anxiety that happens when I'm out on a date with a masculine person or a femme trans person.
Josh Jasper
2021-11-16 14:14:16 +0000 UTCThis resonates so flipping hard, even as a cishet gal. WOOF. Thank you for posting this.
Hannah K
2021-11-16 12:30:13 +0000 UTCThat one is beautiful
Lars Gottlieb
2021-11-16 08:30:07 +0000 UTCAww. And I can confirm the feelings in this comic don’t only apply to queer people… :(
Amyphist
2021-11-16 08:23:27 +0000 UTC
