OJST: Attraction
Added 2020-07-07 07:02:01 +0000 UTChttps://www.ohjoysextoy.com/attraction/
When a virgin cisgender teenage boy who’s never even asked a girl out yet says that he’s straight, nobody’s like “You haven’t been with a girl yet, so I don’t really believe you. You’re confused or you want attention or you want to fit in with the cool kids or you just don’t even know what you actually want.” No! They’re just like “Ok.” and they don’t give it a second thought.
And yet, when people say they are attracted to more than one gender but they haven’t had any experience with those other types of folks, it’s fairly common they’ll get that incredulous, dismissive reaction– even from other members under the queer umbrella. There’s this air of “Prove it.” from the monosexuals.
But, dudes!
There's so much more that goes into attraction and sexual identity than who you've banged! It's not even solely about wanting to bang in the first place! Some kinds of attraction are not about banging at all.
Nutty, I know.
Read the comic to see what I'm talking about them!
Comments
You gave an excellent and correct explanation in the comic. I advise to read this comic to many.
VitAnyaNaked
2020-07-07 20:27:31 +0000 UTCI love this. I was trying to explain this to my 11 year old who just came out to us last week....I'm happy if she is happy. But I told her she doesn't have to stick with the label, she can love whoever she wants! I thought I was messing up telling her that...maybe not!
Nicole Stoddard
2020-07-07 17:42:15 +0000 UTCGreat comic. As someone who's bi but not out (everyone assumes I'm straight), I wish all my family and friends (heck, all of our society!) would read it and really internalize the message. "Be with people who make you happy and you do the same for them" is a wonderful philosophy to live by.
Chris Abele
2020-07-07 15:43:59 +0000 UTCThis is fantastic! Thanks for another stunner of a comic, and for helping increased my vocabulary for talking to others.
The Ferret
2020-07-07 13:34:38 +0000 UTCThis is so wonderfully explained! As a bi grey ace who doesn't often feel sexual attraction, this gives me the terminology to better explain to my experiences to my partners! 💖
Jimi
2020-07-07 11:16:20 +0000 UTCThis strip, and the comments you just shared here are 👏👏👏 AMAZING. This is content the world needs and I'm so SO grateful to you for creating it. Thank you for being so wonderful!
Kat Kennewell
2020-07-07 07:38:34 +0000 UTCAaand now I want a picnic lunch like y'all's... 😁😋
Pavel Curtis
2020-07-07 07:30:07 +0000 UTC
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